Ukuxhumana kwabantu

Akekho umuntu okwazi ukuhlala ngokuhlukaniswa okuphelele, uhlobo oluthile lokuxhumana phakathi kwabantu ngokuqinisekile luyoba khona. Lesi sidingo sokusebenzisana okude, isikhathi eside siphila kithi ngamunye. Kuchazwa yizimbangela zezenhlalakahle kanye neziphilayo futhi kuhloswe ngokusinda kwabantu.

Amafomu nezinhlobo zokuxhumana kwabantu

I-Psychology isilokhu isithakazelo embuzweni wokusebenzisana phakathi kwabantu futhi ibabheka ngokusebenzisa i-prism yokukhulumisana , ngoba lezi zenzakalo zihambisana nomunye, kodwa akufanelekile ukudideka le mibono.

Ukuxhumana ngokuqinisekile kuyokwenzeka njengendlela yokuxhumana (ukudluliswa kolwazi) ngezihloko ezimbili noma ngaphezulu, kungaba ngumuntu siqu noma ongaqondile (i-imeyili, i-Inthanethi). Kodwa ukuxhumana akusho ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuxhumana, okuyinto eyenza lo mkhakha ube yisibonelo esikhethekile sezinhlobonhlobo zoxhumana nabo. Ku-psychology social, igama elithi "ukusebenzisana phakathi kwabantu" kubhekisela othintana nezihloko ezimbili noma ngaphezulu, okuholela ekushintsheni ekuziphatheni kwabo noma ekuziphatheni kwabo. Imisebenzi emithathu eyinhloko yalolu xhumana yilona: ukwakheka kobuhlobo bomuntu siqu, ukuqonda komuntu siqu nokuqonda komuntu, ukuhlinzekwa kwethonya lokucabanga kwengqondo. Ukuxazulula lezi zinkinga, izinhlobo ezimbili zokusebenzisana zisetshenziselwa: ukubambisana - inqubekela phambili ekufezeni umgomo womunye wabalingani kunomthelela noma awuphazamisi impumelelo yabanye, futhi ukuphikisana - ukufeza umgomo omunye wabalingani ukukhipha noma ukuvimbela ukugcwaliswa ngempumelelo kwezindaba zabanye.

Kukhona nokuhlukana kokusebenzisana phakathi kwabantu ngezinhlobo:

1. Kuye ngenhloso - ibhizinisi, umuntu siqu.
2. Kuncike esimweni sokuziphatha - okuhle, okubi, okubi.
3. Kuxhomeke esiqondisweni - esiqondile, esiyingqimba. Isibonelo sobudlelwane obunjalo singase sisebenze oxhumana nabo, esimweni sokuxhumana neziphathimandla noma abangaphansi, ukugxila kuyoba okuqondile, lapho ukhuluma nabalingani bakho - okuzungezile.

Ukuyinkimbinkimbi kwezinqubo zokusebenzisana phakathi kwabantu kudala izigaba ezihlukahlukene, ezinye zazo ezibalwe ngenhla, kepha umqondo ngeke uvezwe ngokugcwele ngaphandle kokubalula amafomu okubonakaliswa kwawo, okubaningi kakhulu. Okuyinhloko kubo kungukuthi: ubungane, uthando, uthando, ukunakekelwa, ukuchitha isikhathi, ukudlala, ithonya lomphakathi, ukuncintisana, izingxabano nokusebenzisana kwesiko. Ifomu lokugcina livame kakhulu, lihlukile emithethweni ekhethekile lapho ubuhlobo bungaphansi. Lokhu kusiza ngokomfanekiso ukuveza isimo senhlalo somuntu eqenjini, leli fomu lenzelwe ngqo ukuze wonke umuntu anelise isidingo sokuqashelwa. Imikhuba enjalo isetshenziselwa wonke umuntu - lapho ekhuluma nabazali nezingane, abaphathi nabakhulu, izinceku zikahulumeni nabathengisi esitolo. Ngamanye amafomu okusebenzisana enza omunye wemisebenzi emithathu - usizo ekuvumelaneni nemvelo entsha, ukuqonda noma ukwanelisa isidingo somuntu sokuxhumana nabanye abantu. Lokhu kuphinda kugcizelele ukubaluleka kwalesi simo, kanye nokuyinkimbinkimbi yayo.