Ukusebenza nezintsha ezinzima

Ukuziphatha okulukhuni kwentsha kuyinto engavamile ukungaqapheli futhi kaningi kunomlingisi onomgomo. Ngakho-ke, izindlela zokusebenza nezintsha ezinzima kufanele, okokuqala, zisekelwe ebuhlotsheni babazali nezingane. Ngezinye izikhathi izingane ekukhuleni zivame ukumelana nohlaka olunzima olunikezwe. Ukuziphendulela okunjalo kungabonakala ekuphambukeni okuhlukahlukene ekuphatheni. Ezimweni eziningi, ukusabela okunjalo kwenzeka ngokungazi, kodwa ngokuvamile abantu abadala bacabanga ukuthi ingane yenza lokhu ngenhloso enonya futhi iyazi ngokugcwele. Ukusebenza nezingane ezinzima kuncike ekwakheni ubudlelwane bethemba kanye nokukhomba izimbangela zokuziphatha okubi, uma zingekho izixazululo zokunqotshwa kwentuthuko yengqondo.

Umsebenzi wezemfundo nezintsha ezinzima

Ngokuvamile kakhulu ekuzalaneni, abazali nabafundisi benza amaphutha afanayo. Ngokukhathazeka kwabantu abadala, izingane ziba yingozi, futhi "ukukhulelwa okungamanga" kwenzeka, futhi uma kwenzeka ukubonakaliswa kwenkani ingane idinge ukubonisa ukumelana, kodwa ungayiphuli intando yakhe kanye nomlingiswa, ngezinye izikhathi isisombululo esingahle siphumelele. Futhi, empini phakathi koontanga ababili, othisha abakwazi ukwamukela isikhundla somuntu, kubalulekile ukuba phakathi. Lapho abantu befuna ukulalela okungenakuphikisa, lokhu kunciphisa ikhono lomntwana lokuthuthukisa umbono wakhe, ukuzimela ngokuzimela futhi okuvame ukuholela ekuziphatheni okubi noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuqina nokuzihlukanisa.

Umsebenzi we-psychologist oneminyaka engu-10 eyinkimbinkimbi kunzima kakhulu yingxenye yenqubo yokulungiswa kokuziphatha. Kodwa lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi, njengoba isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kuyodingeka sithole izinketho zokwenza isithakazelo kumntwana osemusha endleleni yakhe entsha. Ngokuvamile ngalesi sikhathi, izingane zenqaba ukusebenza, zifunde ngokuhlelekile, njll.

Njengoba ngezindlela eziningi isizathu sokuziphatha okungahambi kahle kwentombazane enzima kunesibalo sokukhulelwa, ukusebenza nabazali nakho kuyimfuneko ekwenzeni ukulungiswa.

Umphumela omuhle wokusebenza ngabanye nengane enzima kuncike ekutheni uthisha (noma umzali) uqobo lwakhe ukholelwa ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi izinguquko kumntwana ngokwakhe, ngamathemba akhe.