Ukukhulelwa kwabantwana kuyisimo esibuhlungu kakhulu sezihlobo zabantwana. Phela, lokhu akugcini nje ukucindezela indlela yokuphila yomntwana okuqhubekayo (ukuyibeka emandleni okuthola imfundo, ukukhula komsebenzi), kodwa futhi kuyingozi impilo yakhe. Ukukhulelwa kwentsha ekukhuleni kuyinselele kumndeni wonke. Kusho ukuthini lokhu ekuboneni komzimba nangokwengqondo?
Isici esiphezulu sombuzo
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukukhulelwa nokubeletha kwabantwana kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kunabantu abadala, kusukela ekubukeni komzimba. Ngenxa yokuthi umzimba wesifazane osemusha osebenzayo awukwakhiwa ngokugcwele, ukubeletha kaningi kunokuba kudala kunzima ukuhlukunyezwa kwezitho zangasese (ubulili kanye nokuhlukana komzimba), ukubeletha ngaphambi kwesikhathi kuvele kaningi. Izingane zezingane ezisencane zikhula kancane, isisindo, ngokuvamile zihlushwa yi-hypoxia.
Ingxenye yengqondo yombuzo
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukukhulelwa kwentsha kuyathinteka ekuziphatheni kwabo komphakathi, isimo sabo sengqondo kubomama omncane obaba babo, ngisho nezihlobo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukusekela ingane esimeni samanje, noma ngabe ubheka njengokungalungile, okusho ukungashiyi abazali abancane ngenkinga yabo, kodwa bengayinakekeli ingane. Kubalulekile ukukhombisa ukuthi umama kanye nomntwana ozelweyo kuyinjabulo ngisho nasesimweni esinzima kangaka, futhi zonke izinkinga ezikhona ziyisikhathi sesikhathi futhi zizosiza kuphela ekuvuthweni okusheshayo kwe "ingane yesikole".
Ukuvimbela ukukhulelwa kwentsha
Inkinga yokukhulelwa kwentsha ingavinjelwa yiqoqo eliyisisekelo lezinyathelo ezihloswe ekukhuliseni ingane isimo sengqondo esingathí sina kumanani omndeni. Akwanele ukutshela ingane mayelana nokuba khona kwezinto eziningi
Kuwusizo ukuvakashela imindeni lapho izingane ezincane zikhula khona, zinike izingane ngezikhathi ezithile ukuphuma, ukudlala, ukuhamba nabantwana, kuphela ingane ingakwazi ukubona ukuthi kunakekelwa yinjani, nokuzimisela kwabo noma ukungafuni ukwenza umthwalo onjalo.
Izimpawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa ezinganeni azifani nezimpawu zokukhulelwa komuntu omdala. Ngenkathi kunzima ukusuka endaweni yokubuka kwengqondo yobusha, kuyadingeka ukuba uqaphelisise izinguquko esimweni somzimba wentombazane yentsha. Noma kunjalo, kungaba ngcono ukungalindeli izimpawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa, kodwa ukukhuluma ngezinkinga zokuphila komndeni kanye nomama ngaphambi kokuba lezi zimpawu zitholwe.