Igama lomama linamandla amakhulu, futhi akusikho isizathu sokuthi ukwesabeka kakhulu isiqalekiso sabazali, futhi amandla anesibusiso. Okuningi kungathandazela indodana eyasiza ukuvikela ingane yakhe ezinqumweni ezibi nezifo, futhi ibuye imqondise endleleni efanele.
Imithandazo enamandla kakhulu kanina kumntwana
Abafundisi baqinisekisa ukuthi inamandla kunayo yonke imithandazo kamama , ngoba iqukethe uthando olungenamkhawulo nolunenkululeko, olukwazi ukudala isimangaliso sangempela. Kunombhalo omkhulu wemibhalo yomthandazo esiza ezimweni ezahlukene. Umthandazo oqinile womama ngendodana yakhe kufanele wenziwe ngokusho kwemithetho eminingi:
- Umthandazo oyinhloko kufanele ube ngomphefumulo wengane, ukuze akhethe indlela efanele ekuphileni bese ezama ukuphelela. Ukuzithoba okuvela enhliziyweni ehlanzekile kuvuselela amandla okuzivikela omhlaba wonke, okwenza isihlangu esingabonakali sizungeze ingane, futhi uyomvikela emanzini ahlukahlukene. Ngoba lokhu kuhlanzekile kwemicabango nobuqotho kubaluleke kakhulu.
- Umthandazo womzali ungaboniswa ngombhalo olungiselelwe, kodwa ungabhekisela emaFundeni aphakeme ngamagama akho.
- Umthandazo wendodana kufanele ukhulunywe endaweni ekhululekile ukuze kungabikho lutho oluphazamisayo. Imicabango phakathi nalokhu kufanele ibe yinto ehlanzekile futhi ethobekile.
- Kungcono ukufunda umbhalo wokuthandaza ngenhliziyo, kodwa ungayifunda ephepheni, kodwa kufanele ukhulume ngaphandle kokungabaza, ungashintshi futhi ungashintshi amagama.
- Ungafunda imithandazo, kokubili ethempelini nasekhaya, into eyinhloko ukuthi ube nesithonjana phambi kwamehlo akho. Udinga ukuthandaza kuze kube yilapho inhliziyo iyancipha futhi isimo asikuthuthuki.
- Isimo esiyinhloko sokwamukela usizo yikholo elingenakunyakaziswa emandleni eNkosi nabangcwele.
Umthandazo wezempilo yendodana yami
Ngesikhathi ingane igula, abazali abayitholi indawo yabo, ngoba into kuphela abangayenza ngalesi sikhathi, ngaphandle kokunikeza ukunakekelwa okudingekayo, ngumthandazo ovamile. Kungcono ukufuna usizo kuMphathi Wezinhlanzi , owathi, ngesikhathi sokuphila kwakhe, waphulukisa bonke abantu abaswele. Kukhona inqwaba yamakholwa efakaza amandla esanta.
- Umthandazo wezempilo yendodana kumele ukhulunywe ngaphambi kwesithombe santa, okumele sibekwe eduze kombhede wesiguli.
- Ungafunda umbhalo wamanzi angcwele uphinde uyinike ingane noma uyifeze ingane.
Imithandazo yendodana yokulutha izidakamizwa
Abazali abaningi, uma befunda ukuthi ingane yabo isebenzisa izidakamizwa, abazi ukuthi benzeni futhi bayeke. Lesi sinqumo esingalungile, ngoba abantu abaseduze kuphela abangasiza othembekile ukuthi abuyele endleleni elungile. Umkhuleko wansuku zonke, ukuze indodana ingasebenzisi izidakamizwa, yenza ucabange ngempilo yakho, isisiza ukuba ungalahlekelwa ukholo futhi uthole amandla okubhekana nokuthembela. Kubalulekile ukukhombisa ingane ukuthi ayedwa yedwa kulesi simo futhi ingathembela emndenini wakhe.
Umkhuleko onamandla wokudakwa komntwana
Isithonjana esithi "Inexhaustible Chalice" ingenye yezithombe ezidume kakhulu zikaMama kaNkulunkulu. Ngaphambi kokuba abantu bathandaze ukuba baziqede noma bazisize abanye ukuba babhekane nokuxhomeka kotshwala. Umkhuleko "indebe engapheliyo" ekudakwa kendodana akusizi nje ukulwa nokugula okunonya, kodwa futhi iguqula izwe elingokomoya, liqondise endleleni elungile. Angasetshenziselwa kuphela isimo lapho umuntu ebona khona inkinga, kodwa futhi uma ekholelwa ukuthi konke kuvamile futhi akaxhomeki kotshwala. Umthandazo wokuthi indodana ayiphuzi utshwala kufanele ikhulunywe nsuku zonke kuze kuphulukiswe.
Umthandazo weNdodana ngaphambi komshado
Ngokwesiko, ngaphambi komshado, abazali banikeza isibusiso sabo. Kule ndodana phakathi nalesi siko sebenzisa isithonjana "uMsindisi uMninimandla onke". Kumele uqaphele ukuthi labo abasanda kushada kufanele bathule lesi sithombe kuqala ekhaya labo. Abazali bangakhuluma amagama okuhlukanisa ngamazwi abo, kodwa kaningi umthandazo oqinile usetshenziselwa indodana yabo. Amandla ayo ahlose ukuqinisa umshado kanye nokuthokoza kwenjabulo. Isibusiso somntwana sisiza ukuthola ukukhonjelwa phambi kweNkosi uNkulunkulu.
Umkhuleko womama ngaphambi kwendodana yokuhlola
Kubafundi, kungaba esikoleni noma esikhungweni, isikhathi sokuhlola ulwazi sihambisana nokucindezeleka nemizwelo. Ngokuvamile, ngisho nokufunda kahle indaba, ngenxa yokucindezeleka okuqinile, ungakhohlwa konke. Umthandazo womama ngendodana ekuhlolweni kusiza ukubhekana nalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho nokuheha inhlanhla. Umbhalo owethulwe kufanele ukhulunywe ngaphambi kokuhlolwa kwezikhathi futhi ngesikhathi lapho ingane izoba khona esikhungweni semfundo. Ungakwazi ukufunda umthandazo kathathu ngesitsha esisha bese unikeza ingane njengenganekwane.
Umkhuleko womama weNdodana e-Army
Izindaba eziningi zempi ezesabekayo zenza omama bakhathazeke ngamadodana abo enkonzweni. Ukuvikela ingane ezinkingeni ezingenzeka futhi ukunciphisa impilo yakhe yezempi, umuntu angakwazi ukusiza Amandla Aphezulu. Umthandazo wendodana ekhonza empini ingaziwa ekhaya, kodwa kungcono ukulandela izincomo ezinjalo:
- Okokuqala, vakashela ithempeli, lapho uthumela khona inothi impilo yakho kanye nendodana yakho. Ngemva kwalokho, faka ikhandlela ngaphambi kwesithombe sikaJesu Kristu, uNicholas the Sinner noMatrona waseMoscow. Phakathi nalokhu kuyadingeka ukuba ubhapathizwe ngobuqotho.
- Ukuya ekhaya, thenga amakhandlela amathathu emthandazweni wasekhaya. Yiba egumbini bese uwakhanyisa phambi kwezithombe ezintathu ezibalulwe ekuqaleni.
- Sithi "uBaba wethu" izikhathi eziningana kanye neHubo 90. Ngemva kwalokho, zithinte futhi ucabange indodana yakho enempilo futhi ejabule.
- Le mithandazo yendodana kumele ifundwe izikhathi eziningi ngokulandelana. Ekupheleni kokuguqulwa, yenza uphawu lwesiphambano futhi ubonge iNkosi ngosizo lwakho. Khanyisa amakhandlela bese uwasebenzisa ngesikhathi somthandazo olandelayo.
Umthandazo endleleni yendodana yakhe
Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, omama, ukuthumela izingane zabo emgwaqweni, babenzele izifiso futhi bathandazela njalo impilo yabo. Ukwelashwa okuqotho kuyasiza ekuvikeleni ingane ezinkingeni ezihlukahlukene kanye nezingozi, futhi kubambe iqhaza ekuxazululeni okusheshayo kwazo zonke izimo nokubuyela ekhaya ngempumelelo. Umthandazo ngenhlalakahle yendodana kufanele ikhulunywe okungenani kanye ngosuku ekuseni, kodwa uma uthanda, ungayiphinde ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Umthandazo wendodana ukuthola umsebenzi omuhle
Abazali babhekana nakho konke ukuhluleka kwezingane zabo, befuna zonke izindlela zokubahlinzeka ngenkxaso nokusizwa. Umthandazo wama-Orthodox womama wengane yakhe ufanelekile ezimweni lapho angatholi khona umsebenzi omuhle. Umbhalo owethulwe uzosiza ekuhlanganiseni okuphumelelayo kwezimo kanye nokusiza ukuheha inhlanhla, okukhulisa kakhulu amathuba okuphumelela. Kubalulekile ukuthi lowo muntu ngokwakhe ahlanganyele ekusebenzeni umsebenzi, kunokuba amlindele ukuthola isiphakamiso, bese kuthi amaForward Higher ayofaka isandla ekufezeni umgomo.
Umthandazo wendodana elahliwe
Kukhona inkulumo ethi "kusuka emalini nasejele hhayi ukulahla" futhi ungathola isibalo esikhulu sezibonelo lapho abantu abalungile bebebhekene nemishayo. Ukuze asize indodana yakhe ezimweni ezinjalo, omama bangacela usizo kuSt. Nicholas, ophendula izicelo eziqotho. Umthandazo ungasetshenziselwa ukukholisa indodana uma enecala futhi ithole isijeziso esifanelekile, futhi ubuyekeze isinqumo nobulungiswa obufanele uma umuntu ongenacala eboshiwe. Umthandazo kaNicholas uMmangalisa mayelana nendodana yakhe kufanele uphindwe izinsuku ezingu-40.