Njengombhikisho ngokumelene nezimfundiso zomphakathi wabathengi ngekhulu lama-20, kwavela izinhlobo eziningana zezingane ezincane, okuvame ukwethusa abazali bentsha, ikakhulukazi labo ababukela ingane yabo evuselela ngokushaqeka. Lokhu akusiyo njalo kulungile futhi kulungile: kuqala udinga ukuqonda okushiwo yilokho noma lo mkhuba wentsha, khuluma ngokukhululekile nengane yakho, bese udweba iziphetho. Enye yalezi zinsuku zesimanje i-emoculation emo ivela emuva kuma-80 aseNtshonalanga futhi isekela isiqondiso somculo esikhethekile, eduze ne-punk. Njenganoma yikuphi ukunyakaza kwentsha, ivumela intsha ukuthi iveze ngokugqoka, izinwele, umculo.
Umfanekiso wesimo
I-Emo yokugqoka ivame ukuboniswa emibala emibili ehluke, kaningi, i-pink neyomnyama. Ama-t-shirts, ama-blouses anezicabha ezikhanyayo, ama-sneakers aphezulu, ama-leggings ama-striped noma ama-jeans aqinile, ibhande elibanzi elinama-rivets, isikhwama esiphezu kwehlombe-yilo mfanekiso ojwayelekile we-emo teen. Gcwalisa izingoma zakhe ze-oblique, izinwele zezinwele zezingane kanye nemicibisholo emakhanda amantombazane, isikhumba esikhanyayo namahlo aluhlaza. Izinsana ezizibonela ngalesi sifundane nazo zikulungele ukubhoboza, ukubhoboza yonke into abanakho okucabanga ngakho nesibindi. Umculo olalela emo ungafaka ngokuphepha ngokuthunyelwe kwe-hardcore noma i-punk, kodwa okuyinhloko yezingoma kukhona - uthando, ubuhlungu nokufa.
Ungaba kanjani i-emo?
Uma ukholwa abameleli be-subculture, khona-ke i-emo, ngaphezu kwakho konke, isimo sangaphakathi somphefumulo womuntu. Futhi ukungena ezweni labo, akwanele ukuba agqoke izingubo ezifanele futhi aqede i-bang. Intsha inikeza iseluleko esilula futhi esingenalutho mayelana nendlela yokuba intombazane emo noma umfana emo:
- Ungesabi ukuveza imizwa yakho: khala ngokuzwakalayo, uhleka kakhulu;
- akuxhomeki emibonweni yomphakathi;
- uvulekele abanye, kodwa ushiye ingxenye yezwe elingaphakathi nawe (yilokho kanye ama-bangs ahlanganisa ubuso aboniswa);
- kaningi futhi kuningi ukuthwebula izithombe;
- lalela umculo ofanelekile.
Uma ungena enkingeni ngokungathí sina, kodwa ungangeni ekuthambekeni kwefashini, kungcono ukujwayela umlando we-emocculture yentsha, ukufunda imibhoshongo echazwe kuyo, ukuqonda ukuthi umhlaba wakho wangaphakathi ufana kanjani nemibono nemicabango yabameleli bamanje omnyama nabomnyama.
I-Symbology kanye nezimfanelo ze-emo
Njengama-subcultures, i-emo ineyabo, ihlukile kubo, izimpawu nezimpawu. Izimfanelo ezisemqoka ongaziveza ngokuphepha nge-emo emoyeni kukhona isikhwama phezu kwehlombe, amabheji amaningi, namasongo aluhlaza noma amabhande amacici, ubuhlalu obumibalabala, kahle, phezulu kwesithombe yi-bear yesitokisi esithambile, esiswini sakhe esiqothulwa kakhulu siboshwe ngezintambo ezinamafutha.
I-Psychology ye-emo
Njengoba sekushiwo ngenhla, i-emo into eyinhloko ukuveza imizwelo. Ngokuvamile, amantombazane nabafana balesi sihlahla basengozini futhi banabantu abacindezelekile. Imizwa eyinhloko i-emo ehlala ngayo yithando, i-melancholy, isizungu. Futhi, uma le ntsha ibuza umbuzo: "Yini okudingeka ube yi-emo?", Khona-ke uma uqala kuqala udinga ukucabanga ngale mizwelo, noma ngabe uyakwazi ukuzizwa nsuku zonke. Kucatshangwa ukuthi abameleli bale nhlangano yentsha bayakwazi ukuzizwa bekhudlwana futhi bejule, uzwela oluqotho.
Abazali, abangabantwana babo abajoyine i-black and pink subculture, kufanele bakhumbule ukuthi isimo sengqondo sabantwana abasha, ungabeki ukucindezela kuye futhi kunoma yikuphi ukungaxolisi ngokukhetha okunjalo ngesibindi. Isikhathi sizofika, futhi uzobona ukufaneleka kwesinqumo sakhe, futhi mhlawumbe nje "ukhule" kulo mfanekiso.