Ingane ikhathazekile esikoleni - yini okufanele yenze?

Ukuhlukunyezwa kwengane kwakunjalo futhi, njengoba umthetho, kubonakala kakhulu kakhulu. Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi esikoleni, ababuthakathaka bavame ukuxhashazwa: ukuwabiza, ukuthatha izinto nokuphanga, ukukhahlela, njll. Ngisho, kubonakala sengathi, inkinga enjalo enengqondo, njengesidlaliso sokuhlambalaza, ingabetha kanzima kwi-psychology yomfundi wesikole, okwenza umonakalo ongenakuqhathaniswa. Okufanele ukwenze kubazali, uma ingane icasulwa esikoleni, okokuqala, ukuqonda isimo.

Indlela yokuziphatha kwabazali?

Kunezinkinga eziningi lapho ingane icasulwa esikoleni, ihlaziya ukuthi ubani angathola ikhambi elivamile:

1. Ukubukeka okungavamile: izibuko, izinwele ezibomvu, njll. Yiqiniso, ukucasula "amehlo anine" noma "Lapho umkhulu ebulala ifosholo?" Ezimweni ezinjalo ungase uzwe kaningi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufundisa ingane ukuba iqhayise ukuthi akafani nabanye abantu. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kuyadingeka ukuthola umuntu (umlingisi, isombangazwe, njll) onokubonisa okungajwayelekile, kodwa ujabulela igunya elikhulu ezinganeni. Nakuba kulokhu, kungadingeka ushintshe izinwele noma ukuma kwezibuko kancane.
2. Izimo ezidinga ukuqedwa: ukulungiswa ngokomzimba, ukwehlisa ngokweqile, ukukhubazeka kwenkulumo, amazinyo agwegwe , njll. Uma ingane yakho ilimele esikoleni ngenxa yezizathu, khona-ke ingane idinga usizo lomchwepheshe: ochwepheshe wezinkulumo, udokotela wamazinyo, njll. Kubalulekile lapha ukuthi ungavumeli isimo sishintshe, futhi ngisho noma kungekho amathuba emali, ngakho-ke ngezinkinga ezithile, isibonelo, ukuphelela, ungaphatha ekhaya uqobo.
3. Izinto ezingenampilo. Lokho abazali okufanele bakwenze uma ingane icasulwa esikoleni ngenxa yokuntuleka kwezinto ezinhle nezindleko umbuzo oholela abaningi ekufeni. Yiqiniso, kuzomele uzame ukuqinisekisa ingane ukuthi kunezinye izinzuzo eziningi, ngaphezu kwezinzuzo ezibonakalayo - udinga ukuziqhenya ngolwazi lwakho, izimpumelelo zakho, izici ezifanele, imikhuba futhi, okumele udingeke ukuba uphathe okuthile. Isibonelo, nge-modeling emoyeni, izingubo ezenziwe ngezandla, noma ngokuvakashela ikhamera ethandwayo.

Zonke lezi yizimo ezingaxazululwa ngaphandle kokubandakanya abanye. Kodwa-ke, uma ingane ikhathazekile esikoleni yizingane ezifunda nabo, ebangela ukulimala, ukuphanga, umonakalo wempahla, khona-ke abazali kudingeka bakhulume nabothisha nabazali babahlukumezi, futhi uma lokhu kungasizi, ke uxhumane namaphoyisa.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuze angamcasuli ingane esikoleni, kutuswa ukuba ufunde umthandazo ku-Angel Angel "Ukuvikela izingane ezihlakalweni nezinhlekelele". Kuzosiza ukuvikela kokubili ingane eya ebangeni lokuqala, futhi esikoleni esiphakeme.

Umbhalo womkhuleko: "Ngiyakuncenga, umgcini wami onenhliziyo enhle, ongisizuzile, ungivumise ngokukhanya kwakhe, wangilonda kuzo zonke izinhlobo zezinhlekelele. Futhi lesi silo asiyikwesabeka, nesitha asibi kakhulu kunami. Futhi ayikho into, noma umuntu oshayisayo ngeke angonakalise. Futhi akukho ukubonga ngenxa yokuzikhandla kwakho ngeke kungenze umonakalo. Ngaphansi kokuphatha kwakho okungcwele, ngaphansi kokuvikelwa kwakho ngihlala, uthando lweNkosi yethu ngiluthola. Ngakho-ke izinkolelo zezingane zami ezingafani nabangenasono, engangizithandayo, njengoba uJesu ayemyalile, zivikela kukho konke engikuvikela. Makungabikho isilo esinonya, asiyizitha, ayikho isici, akukho muntu oshayayo obalimaza. Ngiyanincenga, ingelosi engcwele, iqhawe likaKristu. Futhi uNkulunkulu uzimisele kubo bonke. Amen. "

Ukufingqa, ngifuna ukusho ukuthi into ebaluleke kakhulu kulokhu akukona ukukhipha inkinga nganoma iyiphi indlela, kodwa ukuzama ukuyixazulula. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane izwe ukusekelwa nokunakekelwa komndeni.