Ngokuvamile ukukhetha kwesipho kubantu abaseduze kuyasiphenduka sibe yintloko yangempela. Isibonelo, yini ongayinika uyihlo ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa, yisiphi isipho okufanele asikhethele usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa? Ngokuqinisekile, imibuzo eminingi enjalo yaholela ekwethukeni kwangempela - iholidi ekhaleni, futhi akukho mqondo owodwa wesipho kubaba wakho othandekayo owake waba khona. Njengoba wazi, ukucabanga okuhle, kodwa bobabili bangcono, ngakho-ke, masisebenzelane ndawonye ukuthi yini ongayinika ubaba wakho.
Iphi iholidi?
Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukuthi unqume ukuthi yiziphi iholide ozolifuna isipho. Uma leli liholide likazwelonke (uNyaka Omusha, ngoFebruwari 23), khona-ke isipho esingabizi kakhulu singase sikhuphuke, kula maholide kubalulekile ukukhombisa upapa owakhumbulayo futhi uyamthanda. Unganikeza okuthile okuzosiza ukudala umkhathi wokugubha umkhosi, isibonelo, ngoNyaka Omusha, izibhamu kanye nebhodlela le-champagne uzothola kahle. Kodwa uma iholidi lomuntu siqu - usuku lokuzalwa, noma olunye usuku, olubalulekile kumzali wakho, khona-ke kuzodingeka usebenze ekukhethweni kwesipho. Yiqiniso, siyazi ukuthi abazali bayasamukela njengoba bekhona futhi bayojabula nganoma yisiphi isibonakaliso sokunaka (noma okungenani uhlobo lwenziwe), kodwa ngifuna ngempela ukujabulisa ubaba. Futhi ngakho-ke kuyodingeka samukele iqiniso lokuthi uma sifuna ukwenza isipho kuPapa ongavamile futhi wangempela, kuzodingeka sahlukane nesamba esingathí sina - izinto ezinhle nekhwalithi azikwazi ukubiza.
Yini ongayinika uPapa ngesikhumbuzo?
Sinamadadadasi ahlukene-umuntu onothando olungenakulinganiswa, nomuntu oqinile, ubukeka ecasulayo, eqinile, ngakho-ke badinga izipho ezahlukene. Umuntu okholelwa ukuthi isipho kufanele sibe usizo, akusizi ngalutho ukunikeza isithombe, futhi isethi yamathuluzi esinobuciko obunokuqiniseka ngeke kubangele intshiseko efanele. Ngakho-ke, lapho ukhetha isipho, qiniseka ukukhumbula ukuthi ubaba uyiyiphi uhlobo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyoba kuhle ukukhumbula mayelana nokuzilibazisa okwamanje. Mhlawumbe ubaba wakho uhambahamba futhi ephikisana nokudoba okuthile, kodwa ngeke akwazi ukuthenga noma yini. Futhi-ke, kuyadingeka ucabangele ukuba khona kwemizwa yokuhleka usulu ku-donee, ukuhleka ngeso lengqondo kumuntu ogama lakhe lokuhlekisayo elivame ukungena nje akusizi ngalutho kuphela, ungamcasula. Kodwa phezu kwe-joker kanye ne-joker kungabanjwa, ihlaya elihle uzolijabulela futhi lihleke nawe kusukela enhliziyweni. Kulungile, yini enye edingekayo eholide? Kodwa ngamazwi avamile, ake sibone ukuthi yikuphi okungahle kuhanjiswe kubaba wakho othandekayo ngesikhumbuzo.
- Umshayeli onomdlandla anganika ithikithi kumdlalo, umdobi noma umzingeli ukwethula into yokuzilibazisa noma ukuhlela ukuthi ahambe ngokudoba (ukuzingela). Ungaxhumana nezinsizakalo zenkampani ehlela lezo zenzakalo.
- Uma ubaba wakho ethanda ukudlala hhayi kuphela kwi-TV, kodwa futhi ngokuzithandela uqeqeshe ngokwakhe, amnike amathikithi esikhungweni sempilo, echibini, umemele ukuba adubule esiteshini sokudubula noma ahlele ukuba afundise i-tennis, bowling, ukulwa kwekrele. Menzele ukugibela ngokweqile ezithuthuthu, ukuhamba nge-scuba.
- Ungasiza ukuvuselela ukulayishwa ngokuphila kwansuku zonke izipho ezinjenge-parachute jump, i-helicopter indiza, i-jeep ngaphandle komgwaqo, uhlanga kumamephu, i-zorbing, i-snowmobiling, i-wind tunnel hover.
- Uma uyihlo engumenzi womuzi futhi ungeke umxoshe ekuphekeni okuthile okumnandi, unike i-barbecue, aerogrill, umenzi wekhofi, i-shish kebab, ungakwazi ngenyama kanye neqoqo lezinongo ze-shish kebab.
- Ikhono lekhompyutha noma umfana omkhulu walesi simakethe yesimanje sesimanje ngeke ilahle izipho kule ndlela - amagundane athakazelisayo, isithwebuli esihle, iphrinta, i-USB-drive, idrayivu yangaphandle yangaphandle.
- Umuntu othanda umndeni, ikakhulukazi izithombe zomndeni, uzokwazisa uhlaka lwesithombe ngendlela yomndeni kanye nezithombe zazo zonke izihlobo.
- Othandana naye ngeke ashiye isipho samavoti amabili ku-sanatorium, uhambo oluya ezweni, lapho befuna ukuya khona isikhathi eside, bedla endaweni yokudlela. Vumela usuku lokuzalwa lukababa wakho lujabule futhi umama wakho, ngoba nayo, ihambisana naleli holide.