Umbuzo wokuthi ubulili buvunyelwe yini ngaphambi kokubeletha, kubakhathaza abazali abaningi esikhathini esizayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, emva kokuzalwa, ubudlelwane bocansi buzovinjelwa okungenani amasonto ayisithupha, futhi lapho umntwana engena kuqala ngeke abe khona kuze kube lokhu, ngakho-ke akafuni ukulahlekelwa ithuba lokuba yedwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isisu esikhulu, ubuhlungu emilenzeni, i-harbingers ngesimo sokulwa okungavamile kanye nokulinda ukwesaba kokubeletha akusho ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi umama avulele ithuba lokwenza uthando. Futhi kuthiwa odokotela? Kungenzeka yini ukuthi ubulili ekupheleni kokukhulelwa? Ingabe i-orgasm ingabangela ukubeletha? Yiziphi izixwayiso okufanele zithathwe?
Kungenzeka yini ukuthi ucansi ngaphambi kokubeletha?
Odokotela abaningi bayavuma ukuthi uma ukuzalwa sekusele kakade, futhi umama wesikhathi esizayo akanalo izinkinga ezinjengokunamathiselwe okuphansi kwe-placenta noma inqola yayo, ubulili ngisho nasemasontweni okugcina kuvunyelwe. Ukuvinjelwa kuqala ukusebenza kuphela lapho ipulaki le-mucus selidlulile kumama ozayo, kulokhu ubungozi bokutheleleka emfubeni lukhulu, ngisho nezinambuzane ezingenabungozi namabhaktheriya angalimaza impilo yengane. Konke okunye, ungenza uthando, ngaphezu kwalokho, kwezinye izimo, odokotela "bakhetha" ucansi njengendlela "ikhambi." Lokhu kwenzeka uma owesifazane ekhulula ukukhulelwa, noma kuthiwa unesisu esikhulu futhi kuyadingeka ukuqala ukuzalwa ngokushesha.
Ukuya ocansini njengokuvuselela kokubeletha
Indlela yokugqugquzela abasebenzi ngokulala ngokobulili iyaziwa ngezithiyo. Kukholelwa ukuthi ubulili ngaphambi kokuzalwa kuthathwa njengokungathi kusuka ezinhlangothini ezimbili. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isidoda sowesilisa sithinta umlomo wesibeletho, silungiselela ukuvula okusheshayo nokungenabuhlungu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuphazamiseka nokwehlukaniswa kwesibeletho ngenxa yomzimba we-orgasm kungashukumisa ukuqala kokuqhekeka okuvamile.
Nokho, empeleni umbuzo wokuthi i-orgasm ingabangela ukubeletha ayixazululwanga ngokuphelele. Iqiniso liwukuthi ukusebenza kubangelwa izinguquko ze-hormone, ezithonywa "ezivela ngaphandle"
Ngokuvamile, odokotela, uma kungekho izinkinga noma ukuphikisana, akuvimbeli i-orgasm ngaphambi kokubeletha nokulala ngokocansi. Noma kunjalo, abazali abazayo kufanele baqaphele, khumbula ukuthi ubulili kulesi simo akufanele busebenze kakhulu. Kulokhu, akulimazi ingane futhi kuzojabulisa bobabili abalingani.