Ngaki kaningi, iziteshi ezishintshayo, sibhekana nombukiso wethelevishini ovamile, lapho abahlanganyeli, njengengqikithi ye-wand magic, bejika kusuka kumagundane asegreyini kuya ezinhlelweni ezidwetshiwe? Ukumangaza, ukumthanda eduze, i-extravaganza yemicabango nemiqondo ye-heroine yonke into manje ezohluka. Ngemva kwenyanga, sibona intombazane efanayo, kodwa ngendlela evamile kuye: ukungabikho okuphelele kokwenza, ijaji endala eboshiwe, ijezi elingenasiphelo kanye nesifiso esiyinkimbinkimbi kuya kwekhanda elinjengomsila odutshukile. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka?
Gxila kuwe
Ukufinyelela emibonisweni enjalo, ngethemba lokuba bashintshe ngokuphawulekayo izimpilo zabo, abesifazane bavame ukukhohlwa, noma ngisho abazi ukuthi i-crux yenkinga ikhona ekhanda. Kulula kakhulu ukuthembela kuma-stylists abanolwazi, abadwebi abazenzayo, abahlaziyi bemfashini, ngisho nabahlinzayo, bese-ke ukuthola umuntu omusha. Ukubamba kuphela ukuthi ngaphandle kokuzikhandla emsebenzini wakho "Mina" yonke imizamo ayize. Njengoba sekuyaziwa, umzimba wethu uhlukile ukulahla amazwe angaphandle, ngesimiso esifanayo, kanye ne-psyche femin.
Kubonakala kulula kakhulu - ngemva kwesikhathi esithile ngemuva kokushintsha izingubo zakho zokugqoka, uma ubona ukuvuselelwa okumangalisayo kwamaqhawe we-TV, injabulo yokuthenga ama-passes ngokushesha futhi unikeza indlela "yokukhanya kakhulu", "anginakho ukugqoka" , "Nginemilenze eminyene kakhulu yalesi sketi", "Anginakho indawo yokubeka le ngubo."
Umdlandla ngokuqinisekile uyisisekelo esingcono kakhulu sokuguqulwa, kodwa kufanele senziwe isipele ngokuzethemba nokwenza okulandelanayo kwezenzo. Umgomo ungaba yini: isifiso sokumjabulisa umuntu othandekayo noma ukuthola enye, isifiso sokuba njengenkanyezi yakho yefilimu oyintandokazi, shintsha isimo sakho sengqondo kuwe eqenjini, noma uvele ube ngowesifazane futhi njengoMarilyn Monroe, owaziwa kakhulu uMarilyn Monroe, "ungakhathazeki, kodwa ukhathazeke."
Ungaqala kanjani ukusebenza ngokwakho?
- Uma ubuka esibukweni, zihlolisise ngokweqile, qaphela ukwehluleka kwakho kanye nezici zakho. Uma isisindo esinqunyiwe yisitha sakho esifungile futhi sikuvimbela empilweni yansuku zonke, ungazami ukufakazela ukungafuni ukuwuqeda ngegama elithi "udinga ukuzithandayo ukuthi ungubani." Ekugcineni, awunawo muntu ongamqamba amanga, ngaphandle kwakho, futhi uma uyazi ukuthi ungaqiniseka kangcono futhi uqiniseke ngokuqinile, bese uqala khona manje. Ngezidlo ezidakayo kanye nokuzivocavoca, zama i- yoga kubesifazane , ukudansa noma ukubhukuda, futhi inqubo ngeke ijabulise kuphela, kodwa imiphumela ngeke ihlale isikhathi eside.
- Zizenzele. Yenza kahle, yenza umuthi omuhle, usebenzise imaski enomsoco, zama izinketho ezahlukene zokwenza isipiliyoni bese ukhetha okufaneleka kakhulu, thatha isikhathi sokuzilibazisa. Ngakho-ke, inqubo yokuguqulwa izokunika injabulo eyingqayizivele, futhi imiphumela yayo izolungiswa isikhathi eside futhi iyoba yi-push for self-improvement.
- Vakashela uzinwele. Akufanele ugijimise ngokweqile futhi uqale ngokushintshashintsha okukhulu kwezinguquko. Khumbula ukuthi uzokwazi ngokwakho futhi, bese wenza ukunqunywa kwezinwele, okuye kwadlula isikhathi eside, uxoxe nkosi ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
- Ake siphumelele imizwelo. Ukunamathela emanzini akho, ubhekene nokucindezelwa komuntu futhi uvumele abanye bazibonele ngokuthi "intombazane yokushaya". Vula umhlaba futhi ubheke abantu abanobudlova. Ungesabi ukuxhumana nabo, emva kwakho konke, kaningi, empeleni, kubonakala ukuthi ukuhlukumeza kwabo akuyona into yokuvikela, futhi ingxoxo enhle ingabonisa ukuthi awuhlangabezanga umphefumulo womuntu.
- Lahla umdwebo we-magazine osindile, ngokusho ukuthi uthando luni oluqala ngelineni elibizayo. Izambatho zangaphansi ezinhle - lokhu akungabazeki ukuthi kubalulekile, kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu ongenakho ukuthenga amasheya amaningana we-brand elite ngaphandle kokuzwa isabelomali. Thatha izingubo zangaphansi, uhlezi phansi kumuntu, - abacebisi abanenjabulo bayokusiza. Vumela ikhi ibe yinye, kodwa ikhwalithi ephezulu futhi, mhlawumbe, ngisho nokuhlehliswa kancane.
- Ungaguquki ngokungazelelwe ikhabethe. Makuguqulwe ngaphansi kwethonya lemicabango yakho yesikhashana, futhi, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, esikhundleni sezingubo zangaphambili ezingavamile zemibala engapheli, amehlo amasha, ajabulisayo azothatha.
Into kuphela ongayifuni ukuyikhohlwa ukuthenga kuphela lokho ozizwayo kuyi-100% futhi uyazi ukuthi le nto ngeke ilinde umcimbi othize. - Izicathulo. Ngokuba owesifazane, njengoba wazi, akukwenzeki okuningi. Izindlela ezilula zilula:
- induduzo;
- ukulinganisa;
- ukuhambisana.
Lapha kufanelekile ukukhuluma ngenye inkulumo edume emhlabeni wonke uMarilyn: "Nika owesifazane izicathulo ezinama-stilettos futhi uzowunqoba wonke umhlaba!"