Njalo intombazane, uma engafuni ukuzizwa nje, kodwa empeleni abe yintombazane enhle kakhulu, kufanele bonke bahambisane nezwi elihle. Qaphela ama-heroine amafilimu amadala noma amafilimu anamuhla ngezikhathi ezedlule - ahlale enza kahle, alandele ukuziphatha, ahloniphekile, amamatheka. Ngokuvamile, nje zalyubueshsya, ubuhle obunjalo. Futhi-ke, cishe wonke owesifazane ufuna ukuba afane nokufana nawo, njengoMelanie we-Gone ne-Wind, noma njenge-heroine ye-Downtown Abbey uchungechunge. Lokhu kungafinyelelwa kanjani? Kuyinto elula - ake sibheke imithetho elula yokunambitha okuhle, okuyinto owesifazane wangempela okufanele alandele.
Imithetho yokuthandwa kwamantombazane
Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke ukuqonda ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuba khona indawo ethilekazi, futhi endaweni ethile - ukwehlisa izimiso. Ithembo elihle kufanele lilandelwe yonke indawo: emsebenzini, ekuhambeni, ezokuthutha zomphakathi, kanye nasekhaya, ekukhulumisaneni nezihlobo. Ngakho-ke, lungele uzikhandle, bese unelungelo lokuzibiza ngokuthi unkosikazi.
Ukuze kube lula kwakho, imithetho ye-etiquette nezwi elihle lizohlukaniswa ngamaqembu amancane. Ngakho-ke, ungakwazi ukuphuthuma ngokushesha kwimiphi imithetho okudingeka ufundise kuqala:
- Imithetho yokuxhumana okuhle. Mhlawumbe, esikhathini sethu - lena ingenye yezinkinga ezinkulu. Abantu abaningi bakhohlwe ukuthi bangakhuluma kanjani ngendlela efanele, futhi othile, mhlawumbe, akawazi le mithetho. Kodwa lapha konke kulula. Okokuqala, ungalokothi ukhohlwe "ngamazwi omlingo". Ngalezi zindlela hhayi kuphela "ngiyabonga" futhi "sicela", kodwa futhi "hello", "hamba kahle" namanye amagama-zashalochki noma iyiphi ingxoxo. Ithoni njalo ihlonipha futhi inomusa, ikakhulukazi ikhuluma ngokuxhumana nabantu abangabazi noma oyinhloko emsebenzini, ngoba ekukhulumisaneni nabangani kunezinye izimfihlo nemithetho. Smile - izokuhlela abantu. Uma ukhona emhlanganweni webhizinisi, khona-ke uhlale ukhuluma ngokucacile, ngokusheshisa, nakwebhizinisi. Engxoxweni efonini, ungalokothi uphamelele efonini, bese uzama ukungakhulumi ezokuthutha zomphakathi uma ungaphinda ushayele emuva kwesikhathi.
- Imithetho yokunambitheka okuhle etafuleni. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi uziphatha kanjani etafuleni. Akukhathaleki ukuthi ukhona yini edilini, esitolo sokudlela ngosuku noma esidlweni ekhaya - kufanele uziphathe ngokuvumelana nobuhle. Mhlawumbe imithetho eyisisekelo kunazo zonke: ungagodli, ungagcini, ungakhulumi ngomlomo wakho, ungakhulumi ngokuzwakalayo, ungabeki izibhebhe etafuleni. Konke lokhu kwaziwa kwabaningi kusukela ebuntwaneni, kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu owazi imithetho, ekugcineni ulandela. Uhlezi etafuleni, qiniseka ukuthi ulandela ukuhamba kwakho - awukwazi ukuncika phambili ukuthatha ucezu kusuka emfolokheni, udinga ukuletha ifolishi emlonyeni wakho. Ungazivumeli ukuba ukhulume kabi ngezitsha ezithile ngoba nje akuthandi - lokhu kukuphakama kokungafaneleki. Uma ufuna ukusekela ingxoxo etafuleni, khona-ke ukhulume ngezihloko ezingathathi hlangothi, ngaphandle kokuthinta ezombangazwe, izifo, imininingwane yemifino yempilo yomuntu siqu noma yomunye umuntu.
- Imithetho yokunambitheka okuhle ezembatho. Kulungile, ake sikhulume ngendlela yokugqoka owesifazane wangempela. Yebo, futhi ezingutsheni kukhona umyalo onesibopho. Isibonelo, awukwazi ukuza ukuzosebenza kuma-pajamas nama-slippers, ngendlela efanayo nenkosikazi engakwazi ukugqoka izingubo zokubiza. Isibonelo, iziketi ezifushane kakhulu nezifushane, izihloko ezivulekile futhi, izikhwama, izingubo. Ukukhetha izingubo kufanele kube mnandi, ukukhumbula izinto ezinjalo,
njengesitayela nokuhlonipha. Kungcono ukugqoka i-jeans elula ne-shirt, kunokungaphezu kwe-mini enhle kakhulu. Okokuqala, kuhambisana kakhulu nenkosikazikazi, futhi okwesibili, ungakwazi ukufihla amaphutha wesibalo sakho, futhi ungawafaki ekubonisweni komphakathi.
Empeleni, lokhu kungabizwa ngokuthi imithetho eyisisekelo yokunambitheka okuhle kwabesifazane, okumele bahambisane nayo. Yiqiniso, lolu hlu lungase lusekelwe isikhathi eside, njengoba iseluleko kufanele senzeke ngokufanele ebhishi, nasezikhungweni zomphakathi, emsebenzini, ngisho nakwiqembu. Kodwa, ngisho nokunamathela kule mithetho embalwa elula yokunambitha okuhle, uzozizwa uncanekazi, futhi ubonise lokhu kwabanye.