Abazali, ngokungangabazeki, izivakashi ezibaluleke kakhulu emshadweni. Ngokujwayelekile ukunakwa okuningi kunakhokhwa ekulungiseni umkhwenyana nokugqoka komakoti, idili lomshado, kodwa abantu abaningi abacabanga ukuthi bangagqoka kanjani lomshado. Kodwa lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu - okunye okuhambisanayo nangokwemvelo kwendodakazi yomakoti kuyobukeka, okucacile kuyoba umfanekiso wakhe. Ake sibone ukuthi ingubo yokugqoka yimuphi umama womakoti noma umkhwenyana nendlela yokwenza izinwele kulo mkhosi.
Ukugqoka kanjani umshado kamama?
Izingubo zomshado zomama kufanele zikhululeke, zihle futhi zifanele isitayela somshado. Omama abaningi benza amaphutha amabili avamile, okudingeka anake lapho ekhetha ingubo:
- Abakhokheli ngokwanele izingubo zabo futhi bagqoke okwejwayelekile futhi abangenakusihlwa.
- Amamama avame ukubukeka asencane kakhulu kuneminyaka yabo futhi agqoke ngokukhululekile, ephikisana namadodakazi abo.
Ngakho-ke, uzibuza ukuthi yini ongayigqoka emshadweni womama, udinga ukucabangela lezi zici bese uqala ukuthi uzobe kuphi, nokuthi izifiso zendodakazi yakho. Uma engenayo izifiso ezikhethekile, khetha isembatho esingaphansi noma esingaphansi kwesitayela esingathathi hlangothi. Uma kungumkhosi wokudala endaweni yokudlela ngaphandle kwesitayela esithile, umama angagqoke ingubo yokugqoka noma ingubo yokugqoka, isibonelo, eyenziwe ngesililika noma idayisi - iyinto enhle futhi ihlale ifaneka.
Ubuhle kakhulu buzobukeka phakathi kwabo ngokwezilinganiso zombala nezembatho zesitayela somshado womama womakoti nomkhwenyana. Noma ngenye indlela, ungakhetha ukugqoka ngendwangu ihembe noma i-tie kusuka kumuntu oshade naye.
Unganaki ukulungiswa kwengubo. Vumelana, kungubo engavamile ukugqoka usuku lonke ezinyaweni zakho, ukwamukela izivakashi nokudansa. Umgqoko womshado womama akufanele ukuvimbela ukunyakaza kwakhe noma "ukuphazamisa".
Izikebhe zingcono ukukhetha ngesithende esincane noma esiphakathi, futhi senzeke ekuthuthukisweni. Futhi ungakhohlwa mayelana nezesekeli - i-clutch smart, isikhwama, i-watch, ubuhlalu, ama-sweet smelling amafutha azosiza isithombe sakho.
Izitayela zezinwele kanye nokwenza izimonyo zomshado womama
Kulungile ukuza leyo mindeni lapho umkhwenyana wekhanda kanye nomama wakhe owenzela umama kanye nomama wakhe bebenza kahle. Lokhu kuzokusindisa isikhathi, imali, kanye nomphumela nawe, cishe, oyokwaneliseka.
Khumbula ukuthi izinwele zezinwele eziqinile noma ezisemthethweni zizokwenezela kuwe iminyaka eminingana. Izinwele ezinde zingashiywa ngokukhululeka noma ziphoqa izintambo ezimbalwa. Ukugqoka kwekhanda akufanele kube nzima, kungcono ukhethe ukuthanda izinto zemvelo.
Ungadluli futhi wenze. Sicela uqaphele ukuthi ngaphansi kwethonya lokushisa, izimonyo ziyogeleza. Lapho ukhetha ububanzi bombala, yenza umbala wamehlo, i-hue yezinwele nesikhumba, futhi ngokuqondile nombala wengubo.
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