Ukuhleleka endlini noma ukungabikho kwayo kuthinta kakhulu imizwa yawo wonke amalungu omndeni nomkhathi endlini. Umkhuba womunye wamalungu omndeni ukuphonsa izinto ezizungezile, ukubeka ukukhathazeka mayelana nokugcina ukuhlanzeka kwamanye amahlombe abantu, kungaba yisisekelo sokuphikisana njalo nokungazinzi. Kuye kwaphawula isikhathi eside ukuthi iningi lokuhlambalaza abazali lihlobene ngqo nekutsi ingane ayifuni ukususa amathoyizi noma izimpahla zomuntu siqu, zihlakaze, njll. Ngokuvamile, abazali abazi ukuthi bangabhekana kanjani nesimo esinjalo, isiqalekiso nezingane ezihlazolayo, besabisa, besongela izijeziso, kodwa imiphumela yezenzo ezinjalo yesikhathi esifushane kakhulu - ungathola ingane ukuba iphume ekamelweni, kodwa akudingeki ukuba nethemba lokugcina umyalelo ohlala njalo. Ngempela, izingane (njengezingane ezisencane) azidingi i-oda, zivele zingaboni ukuthuka.
Ake sicabangele izindlela ezisebenzayo zokufundisa ingane ukuyala:
- Okokuqala, ungakhohlwa ngesibonelo sakho somuntu siqu. Akukho ukuziphatha okuzokwenza izingane zibe nehle uma zibona izihlobo ezingalungile nsuku zonke. Abazali akufanele bacabange ukuthi bangayithola kanjani ingane ukuhlanza amathoyizi, kodwa ukuthi bangayifundisa kanjani ukuthi ilungile, ukwenza umyalelo ube nesilinganiso esibalulekile nesidingo.
- Siza izingane futhi uzifundise. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele wenze konke ngokwakho, vele ujoyine inqubo. Ungabelana ngemithwalo yemfanelo: isibonelo, usula uthuli emashalofini aphezulu, lapho izingane zingafinyeleli khona, ngenkathi zibeka amathoyizi, izincwadi kanye nezinto zabo siqu ezindaweni zabo.
- Chaza izingane ukuthi kungani kubalulekile ukuhlanza. Batshele ngezingozi zothuli, indlela yokugcina izinto ngokufanele, uchaze ukuthi amathoyizi ahlakazekile angahle alahleke noma aphulwe uma othile ewela ngengozi. Izingane kufanele ziqonde ukuthi ukuhlanza akusiyo isifo noma isijeziso, kodwa kuyadingeka.
- Enye yezindlela ezibaluleke kakhulu, indlela yokujwayela ingane ngokuchaneka, ukudala izimo zokulondeka kalula kwe-oda. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ekamelweni labantwana kungcono ukusebenzisa ifenisha nezinto zokwakha ezingadingi ukunakekelwa okunzima.
- Siza izingane ukuba zithole indawo yezinto. Kanye nomntwana sinquma ukuthi yini futhi kuphi okufanele ulale, khetha amashalofu emakhandini ngezinhlobo zezinto, qalisa amabhokisi amathoyizi, izinsimbi, njll.
- Ungenzi ukuhlanza isijeziso. Ukuphoqelela, ukuhlambalaza nokuhlukunyezwa kungabangela ukuphikisana nokuzinyanya.
Yehlisa ukuphelela nokucabanga njalo mayelana nendlela yokufundisa ingane ukuhlanza amathoyizi. Ungaphenduli ukuphazamiseka kungena enhlekeleleni. Khumbula ukuthi ngezikhathi ezithile, noma yimuphi umntwana, ngisho nasemindenini ehleliwe kakhulu enezingane ezinembile kakhulu, uhlala engcolile, futhi lokhu akusona isizathu sokuxabana noma amacala.