Incazelo yokulala ayinciki kuphela esakhiweni sayo, kodwa futhi ngesikhathi lapho umuntu ebona khona. Ezimweni eziningi, uma iphupho livela ngoMsombuluko kuya ngoLwesibili, khona-ke lo muntu usulungele ukwenza isinyathelo esisebenzayo, futhi lokhu kusebenza kunoma iyiphi indawo yokuphila. Amaphupho phakathi nalesi sikhathi aqagela ukuvela kwezimo zokuphikisana nokuhlukunyezwa okuhlukile. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi leli sikhathi lilawulwa iMartial war, elichaphazela amaphupho nomuntu ngokwakhe.
Ingabe amaphupho agcwaliseka kusukela ngoMsombuluko kuya ngoLwesibili?
Ngemuva kokuhlola okuhlukahlukene, ososayensi bafinyelele esiphethweni sokuthi amaphupho umuntu abonayo ngalesi sikhathi angatshela mayelana nezinguquko zomhlaba wonke ekuphileni. Okokuqala, kubhekisela amaphupho agqamile futhi angawakhumbula. Ngokusho kolwazi olukhona, oluboniswe embonweni wobusuku, isakhiwo singathinta nakanjani isimo sengqondo somuntu. Uma leli phupho likhathazeka esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, kutuswa ukuba uqaphele izingxabano ezihlukahlukene. Ukuthola ukuthi leli phupho liyiqiniso yini kusukela ngoMsombuluko kuya kuLwesibili, kufanelekile ukuthi uma kubonwa ebusuku kushiywe idiphozi engathandeki, ungalindeli okuhle esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Kunconywa ukuthi uhlaziye impilo yakho ukucacisa izimbangela zokuhluleka. Uma iphupho ngalesi sikhathi lihle, khona-ke ungathembela empumelelweni kunoma iyiphi indawo yokuphila. Kubalulekile ukungaphuthelwa ithuba elinikeziwe.
Ososayensi, ukuqonda ukuthi yiziphi amaphupho asho ngoMsombuluko kuya ngoLwesibili, ukuxhuma ngezifiso ezithile nezifiso zomuntu. Bakholelwa ukuthi amaphupho phakathi nalesi sikhathi kufanele atshele abantu ukuthi bangabhekana kanjani nakho okuhlukile futhi bagweme ubunzima. Kukholelwa ukuthi uma kungenzeki kungakapheli izinsuku ezingu-10, ngeke kwenzeke maduzane.
Kukhona nolwazi lokuthi amaphupho, aqoshiwe kusukela ngoMsombuluko kuya ngoLwesibili, kufanele azalwe ngoLwesihlanu eminyakeni emihlanu noma ngaphezulu. Uma ungakwazi ukuphinda uphuphe iphupho lakho emininingwaneni encane kunazo zonke, bese eminyakeni embalwa ezayo ungathembela empumelelweni futhi indaba ozoyibona iyoba ngokoqobo. Uma kwenzeka iphupho elibonwe kule nkathi ligcwele imicimbi ehlukene futhi ngemva kwalokho umphuphi ukhokhiswa ngamandla, sekuyisikhathi sokuqhubekela phambili emisebenzini yokukhuthaza. Thatha ezandleni zakho bese uqala ukujabulela ukuphila. Incazelo yokulala ngoMsombuluko kuya ngoLwesibili ixhomeke esimeni sezindaba, uma iphupho lithatha imizwelo engathandeki ngokwalo, kungathathwa njengendlela ebonisa ukuthi lo wesifazane ophuphile uye wazethemba ukuzethemba, futhi lokhu kuyathinta impilo yakhe. Akudingeki esikhathini esizayo esiseduze ukuthatha noma yiziphi izinyathelo ezinkulu futhi kungcono ukulibaziseka ngesinyathelo.
Ayini amaphupho kusukela ngoMsombuluko kuya ngoLwesibili?
Isakhiwo sephupho singatshela ngomlingiswa wephupho futhi mayelana nezenzakalo zekusasa. Cabangela ezinye izindaba ezidumile:
- Uma emaphupho akhe ebusuku aphumelele ukunqoba umuntu, khona-ke empilweni yangempela uzokwazi ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga ezikhona.
Iphupho, lapho othandekayo ewanga khona, ubikezela ukuhlukanisa okusheshayo, kodwa emva kwesikhathi konke kuzosebenza. - Ukubona umshado ngobusuku obunjalo, kusho ukuthi, kuzokwazi ukuhamba ngaphansi komqhele emva kweminyaka embalwa nje.
- Umbono ebusuku womsebenzi uthembisa ukunyuka okusheshayo emkhakheni wezemisebenzi. Lokho nje ukufeza izindawo eziphakeme kufanele uchithe amandla amaningi.
- Ukuphumula ezindaweni ezifudumele ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi konke okufisayo kuzokwenzeka maduzane.
Amaphupho yizincomo eziqondile ezizoshintsha impilo yakho ibe ngcono. Kholwa kuphela okuhle, bese ukuphila kuyoba kuhle.