Ngaphezu kwalokho, abesifazane abasukuma nobusuku baqondisa ingane, bekhathele kakhulu, futhi ukuqapha kwabo kuphazamiseke ngokucacile. Yingakho kuyinto ejwayelekile lapho umntwana ewela ekuphakameni okukhulu, isibonelo, kusukela embhedeni.
Ngokuvamile lokhu kwenzeka phakathi nonyaka wokuqala wokuphila komntwana, lapho eba ngumsebenzi ojwayelekile, uqala ukujika ngezindlela ezahlukene futhi azame ukuhamba ngezindawo. Kulesi sihloko, sizokutshela okufanele ukwenze uma ingane encane iwela embhedeni ezinyangeni ezingu-6 .
Kuthiwani uma ingane encane enenyanga eyisithupha iwela embhedeni?
Uma umntwana ewile embhedeni ezinyangeni ezingu-6, umama udinga, okokuqala, ukuhlala ethule, nakuba lokhu kungenakubekezela. Iningi lamantombazane abesesimweni esinzima, uqala ukuzihlambalaza ngokwenzekile, ukukhala noma ukukhala. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ikati lezinyanga eziyisithupha elineminyaka eyisithupha linomthelela kakhulu ekuthineni noma yikuphi ushintsho emoyeni nasenhlalakahleni yomama, ngakho-ke lokhu kuziphatha ngeke kusize nje kuphela ukusiza ingane yakho, kodwa futhi kukhulise isimo sakhe.
Yiqiniso, uma ingane eneminyaka engu-50 ubudala iwile embhedeni futhi imonakalo ebonakalayo emzimbeni, isibonelo, isilonda esigayekile, ukuvuvukala okukhulu noma isikhundla esingavamile, okwenza kube lula ukusola ukuphuka, kufanele ucele ngokushesha i-ambulensi.
Kwezinye izimo, udinga ukubukela ngokuthula. Uma umntwana eneminyaka engu-6 ubudala, ngemuva kokuwa embhedeni, ngokushesha wakhala, kodwa ngokushesha wehlisa, mhlawumbe, wesaba kakhulu. Ukungabikho kokukhala kuleso simo, ngokuphambene nalokho, kufanele uqaphele umama futhi ube yisizathu sokuthola ukwelashwa okungahleliwe ngokushesha kudokotela.
Ngisho noma kubonakala kuwe ukuthi ingane ingakhathazeki, uma kungenzeka, kungcono ukuya esikhungweni sezokwelapha esiseduze futhi uhambe ne-ultrasound yendodana yakho yobuchopho. Ngeshwa, imiphumela embi kakhulu yokuwa kungahle ingabonakali kusukela ekubukeni kwangaphandle kwasebuntwaneni, kodwa izosithinta izinga lokuphila kwengane esikhathini esizayo.