Kulesi sihloko, sizokutshela ukuthi yimuphi umsuka wenkinga yonyaka wokuqala wokuphila, futhi yiziphi izimpawu ezibonisa ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo kwengane phakathi nalesi sikhathi.
Izimbangela nezibonakaliso zenkinga yonyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwengane
Yonke inkinga eyenzeka empilweni yengane ihlotshaniswa kuphela nokukhulela kwakhe nokukhuphuka isinyathelo esisha ekuphileni okuzimele. Inkinga yonyaka wokuqala wokuphila akuyona into ehlukile. Ezimweni eziningi, ukuqala kwayo kufana nokubonakala komuntu omncane nokubonakala kwamandla akhe okwenza izinyathelo zokuzimela zokuqala.
Leli khono liholela eqinisweni lokuthi umntwana uqala ukuzizwa ekhululekile kunangaphambili. Kusukela kulo mzuzu akasabe esaba yedwa futhi ezama ukubalekela unina ngesikhathi sokuqala. Yingakho i-crumb iqala ukulwa futhi wonke amandla akhe ezama ukuvimbela ithonya labantu abadala kumuntu wakhe.
Uba nenkani ngokungavamile, engenangqondo futhi enomsindo, udinga ukunakekelwa ngokwengeziwe futhi angavumeli unina athathe isinyathelo esisodwa. Ngokuvamile, umntwana wenqaba ukudla okuthandayo ngaphambili, enze imisebenzi evamile futhi aze adlale namathoyizi akho ayizintandokazi. Konke lokhu, okuyiwona, kubangelwa ukungaqondi phakathi kwabazali futhi kaningi kubangenisa kwi-stupor.
Yini okufanele uyenze nokuthi ungasinda kanjani kule nkinga?
Okwamanje, leli qhinga alifanelekile uma ukunganaki kwengane sekude kakhulu, futhi usevele waqala ama-hysteric. Kulesi simo, umama noma ubaba kuyodingeka aphumule ingane yakhe nganoma iyiphi indlela futhi esikhathini esizayo zama ukungavumeli "ukuhluma" okunjalo.