Intombazane esithuthuthu, kusukela ekubukeni komuntu, inesibindi, isibindi futhi idonsa. Uma owesifazane ethatha isinqumo sokuthuthela kuhhashi lensimbi, kufanele acabange ngalokho okufanele agqoke. Okukhethwa ngokuwina kunesithuthuthu sesikhumba ngokuvikelwa. Le nto yokugqoka ikhabethe ayikwenzi nje ukuthi umfanekiso wesintombazane isitayela, ikhangayo, kodwa futhi ingengxenye yengubo ezoqinisekisa ukuthi iphephile.
Izinzuzo zezimoto zesikhumba ngokuvikelwa
Namuhla, kunamamodeli amaningi amantombazane anesibindi abakhetha ukugibela isithuthuthu. Phakathi kwazo, imikhiqizo yezembatho nezesikhumba iyavela. Ngamunye wabo unenzuzo eminingi. Uma ukhetha isithuthuthu sesikhumba ngokuvikelwa, khona-ke wazi ukuthi yiziphi izici ezinikezwayo:
- zingenziwa ezinhlobonhlobo zezitayela nemibala ehlukahlukene. Lekhwalithi ikuvumela ukuthi uzame, yakha isithombe esitfombe, ungakhohlwa ukuphepha ngesikhathi ushayela emgwaqweni;
- Amajackethi wesikhumba wesifazane ngokuvikelwa akhululekile, athambile, angakhazi kahle ngesikhathi egqoke;
- abakhiqizi bamajack sebenzisa impahla yekhwalithi - ngokuvamile kuvame kakhulu, kunzima futhi kunzima. Lokhu kuvumela ukuthi umkhiqizo ugqoke ngenkathi ebandayo futhi ungakhathazeki ngokuthi ungaqedwa. Izambatho zangaphandle zigcina ukushisa isikhathi eside futhi zivikela emoyeni;
- emkhiqizweni onjalo akuyona into embi ukungena emvuleni, ngoba indaba inezinhlobo zokumelana kwamanzi aphezulu;
- ukuvikelwa kwesigqoko akusilo kubantu besikhumba ngokwayo, kodwa ekuklanyeni komkhiqizo, ukusikeka kwayo.
Ukukhetha isithuthuthu ngesithuthuthu
Ukuthola into ephathekayo kulula, udinga nje ukucabangela imithetho embalwa elula. Ukukhetha isithuthuthu esinesikhumba esimnyama kufanele sihlole lokhu okulandelayo:
- umkhiqizo kufanele unikeze intombazane ukuthi iphephile, ngakho-ke ukufakwa okuvikelayo kufanele kube emahlombe, emagcekeni, emuva, eduze komgogodla, esifubeni. Bayokwenza lula ukuthinta umthelela lapho bewela noma ngesikhathi seyingozi;
- Kudingeka ukhethe izingubo zangaphandle ngokulingana ukuze usayizi wokuzivikela utholakale ezindaweni zazo. Ngokwenza kanjalo, umkhiqizo kufanele uhlale uqinile, kodwa ungavimbeli ukuhamba;
- ukhetha isithuthuthu ngesithuthuthu ukuvikela intombazane, kudingeka uqaphele amandla seams. Kumele kube nethemba, ngoba ngomthelela omncane, imikhiqizo engaphansi kwayo izohlakazeka emasontweni;
- Udinga ukukhetha ingubo yangaphandle ngemikhono evala isihenqo sakho. Imikhiqizo enjalo iyanconywa ngenxa yokulingana kwesandla ngemuva kwesondo.
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