Uneminyaka engu-12 ubudala yesikhathi esiphezulu phakathi kwengane nentsha, ngakho akuyona into yokuthi abazali banezinkinga ngemibono yesipho samantombazane ale minyaka. Kodwa eqinisweni, imakethe yanamuhla igcwele izimpahla kangangokuthi isethulo esihle singatholakala ngaphandle kokubunzima okukhulu, kubalulekile kuphela ukuqonda kancane ukuthi yini ingane yakho ezoyithanda.
Izipho zangempela zamantombazane iminyaka engu-12
Uma izesekeli zokwenza izinto kanye nobuhle bezingane ezineminyaka engu-12 kusesekuseni kakhulu, akusho ukuthi ingane akufanele ibeke imithetho ekuzinakekeleni yona, okuyinto uhlobo lomkhuba kubo bonke abesifazane. Iphunga elikhanyayo elikhanyayo, iqoqo lesawoti, iziphunga kanye nama-bubbles okugeza, ikhekhe elihle, isisindo sokugeza esinamafutha okugcoba kanye nosawoti, isibhamu esicwebezelayo se-nail noma isikhumba sezinyosi esimweni esifanele, njengomuntu omdala, sizokwenza intombazane ibe nomuzwa ozimele futhi ejwayele ukuhlanzeka.
Isipho esihle kakhulu sentombazane eneminyaka engu-12 kuyoba isethi yokwakha. Vumela ingane iqale ukudweba, ukwenza ubucwebe obuhle, upheke ngokupheka okulula, ukuthunga noma ukuhlanganiswa. Ungaphinda uthande isithakazelo ukutadisha ngosizo lomdlalo, ngokuthengiswa okubanzi ungathola isethi yokukhuphula amakristalu anemibala, ukwakha ukuhlolwa okuyisisekelo kanye nokwenyama kwemvelo, amakilasi okufundisa ekubetheni izingoma zomculo nokucula.
Isipho esingcono kakhulu intombazane eneminyaka engu-12 ubudala yincwadi, futhi noma ngabe ingane yakho ingakatholi ngothando lokufunda, le ncwadi ingashukumisa uthando lokudala, uma kungelula, kodwa kuyasebenza. Muva nje, incwadi ethi "Ngibhubhise" (isiNgisi "Hlehlisa lo magazini"), okuyizincwadi ezinemisebenzi eminingi yokudala, yathengiswa. Udinga ukudweba izincwadi ngemikhiqizo, glue kumakhasi ezincezu zalokho okukusetafuleni, uphonsa kusukela ekuphakameni, bese uhamba egcekeni? Cha? Ngakho-ke, unikeza ithuba lokukhohlisa emntwaneni wakho, ikakhulukazi njengoba ungadlala nencwadi hhayi kuphela yedwa, kodwa futhi nabangani.