Abantu abamukele izimemo ngesikhathi somshado bavame ukubhekana nenkinga yokuthi imali inganikeza emshadweni. Masibe ngeso lengqondo: isipho esiyifunayo kakhulu kwentsha yanamuhla yimali engakaze ibe yinto engafanele, ikakhulukazi emndenini omusha.
Yisiphi isizathu sokuthandwa kwesipho somshado ngemali?
Asikho isidingo sokungabaza ukubaluleka komnikelo wakho. Vumelana ukuthi kucacisa ngazo zonke izivakashi abazozinika , hhayi nje kuphela okungenangqondo, kodwa futhi hhayi ngokuhlelekile. Futhi labo abasanda kushada cishe ngeke bajabule ngendwangu yokulala ekhethwe ngokungalungile, itiye lesine elibekiwe noma umenzi wekhofi ongabizi. Empeleni baphupha ukuhlomisa "isidleke" somndeni ndawonye, ngokuqondiswa yizinto ezithandayo kanye nezintandokazi zakho. Abantu abaningi basenqikaza ukwethula amancane, ama-envelope enemodemu enesizotha futhi engavamile. Kodwa kholwa kimi, bayojabula kakhulu kunebhokisi elikhulu elinemishini engadingekile noma iqoqo lezimbiza.
Iyiphi imali enikezwayo emshadweni?
Ngokwemvelo, kufanelekile ukubala ngokugcwele amandla akho wezezimali kanye nesabelomali somndeni. Futhi, ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukuthi ubani oshadile: abangani, izihlobo noma abantu obaziyo nje. Ukuze ngandlela-thile isondele esilinganisweni esithile, abanye abantu bazama ukuthola izindleko abantu abashadile nomndeni wabo abazenzele. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, uma usho umkhosi esitolo sokudlela, kufanelekile ukukhokha izindleko zokudla nophuzo olunikezwa umuntu oyedwa, bese uphinda kabili lesi samba. Uma izimali zivuma, ungakwazi ukwandisa izinga, okuzojabulisa kuphela intsha nabazali bayo.
Futhi, ungalokothi ulahlekelwe yimincintiswano ehlukahlukene, intengo yomakoti , indalini kanye nokuphangwa kwamahlaya, okwenziwe ngumphathi wezintambo. Uma ufaka konke emvilophini ngaphandle kokushiya ipenki ephaketheni lakho, ungazizwa unamahloni lapho uqala ukukhulisa imali "kumabhilidi" noma ukuthenga umakoti.
Uhlangothi oluphambene nombuzo wokuthi kungakanani imali ongayifaka emshadweni
Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi kukhona isifiso sokunikeza inani elithile, futhi wazi kahle ngokulinganayo, kodwa isimo sakho sezezimali sibhekene kakhulu nezindleko. Futhi yini engingayenza? Eqinisweni, udinga ukuhambisana nesimo sezinto. Phela, labo abasanda kushada bahlela iholide bona kanye nabathandekayo babo, bebanika ithuba lokubona indlela abajabule ngayo nangothando. Isifiso esingokwemvelo ukumema bonke abantu bomdabu, abangenazo ngisho nokufuna ukugubha ngaphandle kwabo. Kodwa uma isimemo sivela kubantu abangajwayelekile noma abangathandeki kakhulu, mhlawumbe kungcono nakancane ukuba nenqabe, ukuze ungangeni esimweni esinzima sezimali futhi ungabi namahloni phambi komphathi wezinsizakalo noma omncane ngenani eliphansi, ngokombono wabo.
Uma isimemo sithunyelwe abantu abasondelene kakhulu nabantu bomdabu, cishe kungenzeka ukuba khona kwakho kubalulekile kubo, hhayi inani lemali oletha nawe emvilophini. Ngethuba nje ngangokunokwenzeka, into eyinhloko ukuthi yisipho esivela enhliziyweni ehlanzekile nangomyalezo omusa kakhulu.
Kuze kube manje, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nalabo abasanda kushada baveza ukuthi imali engakanani yokugqoka umshado. Lokhu akugcini nje kuphela, kodwa futhi kuyisenzo esiwubuwula, ukudikibala sonke isifiso sokuya emkhosini. Kodwa izivakashi ngezinye izikhathi zinikeza "amaparele", enikeza imvilophu engenalutho ngamagama athi "uzothola". Awudingi ukwenza isiskithi ukusebenza kusukela emshadweni futhi uhlupheka ngokukhathazeka, kungakanani ukunikeza nokuthi ungayitholaphi imali. Phela, into ebaluleke kakhulu yinjabulo yentsha nomoya wakho omuhle ngosuku lomshado wabo.