Ukufa komuntu othandekayo, ikakhulukazi umama, hhayi kuphela empilweni yangempela, kodwa futhi nasephusheni kubangela ukushaqeka kwangempela. Umuntu olele uqiniseke ukuthi impilo ayimlungiselelanga nje, ngoba uthumela amaphupho anjalo. Ngakho noma cha, sizokuthola.
Iyini iphupho lomama?
Mhlawumbe leli phupho likukhathaza emva kwalesi sigameko, futhi uzwa usizi hhayi kuphela empilweni yangempela, kodwa futhi ezingeni elingenakuqonda. Ngisho nokubonakala kwephupho elinjalo kungabangelwa ukuphikisana nomama noma ngokugula kwakhe. Uma empilweni yangempela umama uyagula, khona-ke iphupho lokufa kwakhe, ngokuphambene nalokho, libikezela ukuthi alulame ngokushesha futhi impilo ende. Ukushona komama ephusheni kungabonakalisa nokuba khona kwesifiso esingenasiphelo sokwenza ubuhlobo naye empeleni. Cishe, sekuyisikhathi eside ufuna ukubuyela emhlabeni emva kokuhlambalaza eside, kodwa ungakaze uthathe isinyathelo sokuqala.
Amantombazane, incwadi yokuphupha, ukufa komama ephusheni, ukuhumusha njengokuguquka kokuphila okuphawulekayo, isibonelo, kungaba ngumshado, ukuzalwa kwengane, ukukhula komsebenzi, ngokujwayelekile, into emhlaba jikelele ezoshintsha amashadi okuphila kwangaphambili.
Lapho uhumusha leli phupho, kudingeke ucabange ngezimo lapho umzali efa khona. Ukudangala kubangelwa ingozi noma ubudlova - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi kufanele uthathe ukubukeka ngokucophelela kubantu abakuzungezile. Elinye iphupho lixwayisa ukuthi kufanelekile ukulungiselela ukuhlolwa okujulile. Ukubona ngephupho ukushona komama osuka ebuchosheni obubi futhi obude kuwuphawu lokuthi empeleni udinga ukunakekelwa impilo yakho, ukhethe ukudla okulungile kokudla. Uma umama efa ngenxa yengozi, ukulala ukukwazisa isikhathi esifushane sokudlulisa zonke izenzakalo ezibalulekile, ngoba manje awutholi okufunayo. Ephusheni, ukubona ukufa komama kungumxwayiso wokuthi empilweni yangempela kufanelekile ukwesaba izihlamba nezihlobo eziseduze.