Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, ukufa kwabangela abantu imibuzo eminingi nesithakazelo. Amathuna abhekwa njengendawo yamandla aqinile, okungekho emvelo, ngakho abantu bamphatha ngokukhathazeka. Konke lokhu kuchaza ukuthi kunezinkolelo-ze ezihlukahlukene ezihlobene nale ndawo. Isibonelo, abaningi banesithakazelo ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuvakashela amathuna emva kwasemini. Ukuze uqondisise lesi sihloko, kubalulekile ukubuyela emuva eminyakeni eminingana esikhathini esedlule lapho izinkolelo-ze zazifana nemithetho.
Ngingaya emathuneni ngemva kokudla?
Izibonakaliso ezikhathini zasendulo zavela ngenxa yokugubha kwabantu, kodwa futhi zibaluleke kakhulu futhi zinefantasy, nezinhlobo ezahlukene zokubandlulula. Yingakho kungekho incazelo ecacile ngokuqinisekisa kwangempela ukuthi kungani bengaya emathuneni ngemva kokudla, futhi omunye angacabangela nje ukucabanga okuthile.
Inguqulo evamile kakhulu yokuthi kungani abantu bengaya emathuneni abantu abafile baxhunyaniswe neqiniso lokuthi kusihlwa, imiphefumulo engahlaziyekanga, kanye nemimoya emibi ehambahamba emangcwabeni kanye nomuntu ongase abe nezinkinga ezahlukene. Futhi ngokungajwayelekile uzohlangana nabantu abazoqala ukuya endaweni enjalo ebumnyameni.
Ukuthola ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuya emangcwabeni ngemuva kokudla ukudla, kufanele kubone iqiniso elithakazelisayo, ngokusho ukuthi kwasungulwa ukuthi kusuka emahoreni angu-12 kuya ku-6 ukushintshaniswa kwamandla okuqine kakhulu kwenzeka ezindaweni zokungcwaba, ngakho-ke abazingeli, ukugibela okwamanje emathuneni kuyiqiniso. Isikhathi lapho ukushintshaniswa kwamandla okungenani kuncane - isikhathi esivela emahoreni angu-6 kuya ku-12. Mhlawumbe, yingakho ingxenye yokuqala yosuku kuthathwa njengesikhathi esihle kakhulu sokuvakashela amathuna nezihlobo nabangane.
Enye incazelo yezizathu zokuthi kungani ungeke uye emathuneni ngemuva kokudla ukudla ngenxa yokuthi imiphefumulo yezihlobo ezifile ikulindele ukuvakashelwa engxenyeni yokuqala yosuku.
Ngokuvamile, umuntu ngamunye unelungelo lokunquma ngokuzimela noma ukukholelwa ezimeni noma cha. Kukhona ingxabano engenza abantu bakholelwa ekukholweni-uma indawo ekhethiwe emangcwabeni, ingcweliswa ngumpristi, ke, ezindaweni zokungcwaba, zonke izingcwaba zigcwelisiwe, futhi ngezikhathi ezifanayo le nqubo iphindaphindiwe. Yingakho amathuna angabhekwa njengenye yezindawo ezivikelekile kakhulu emimoya emibi.