Amaphupho mayelana namathuna ashiya ngemuva kokuzwa okungajabulisi, futhi umuntu ongezingeni elingenakuqhathaniswa liqala ukulungiswa okuthile okubi nokungajabulisi, yingakho kubalulekile ukuchaza iphupho ngendlela efanele, ucabangela yonke imininingwane yesakhiwo. Kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi izincwadi ezahlukene zokuphupha zinganikela ngolwazi oluphambene ngokuphelele futhi, kulokhu, kufanele kufakwe phakathi kwesibalo kanye nezenzakalo ezenzeka empilweni yangempela. Ngokuhunyushwa okulungile kwephupho ungafunda kuphela ngezinkinga nezingozi zanamuhla, kodwa futhi nangesikhathi esizayo.
Kungani iphupha lamathuna namathuna?
Ukubona amathuna amasha emangcwabeni kuyisixwayiso esingalungile mayelana nokukhohlisa. Umbono ebusuku, owamathuna ahlanzekile kahle ngezimbali, uphawu oluhle, olufanekisela abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo, okuvumela ukuthola umngane omuhle. Amathuna amadala futhi anqatshiwe ephusheni athembisa ukudumazeka. Incazelo yephupho, lapho amathuna namathuna ezihlobo aphupha khona, kuchazwa njengophawu lokuzalwa kabusha. Uma kufanele ubone ithuna lakho, kusho ukuthi ushintsho olubalulekile luzokwenzeka maduzane.
Umbono ebusuku, lapho amathuna namathuna abonakala khona, kungathathwa njengencomo, ukuthi kubalulekile ukuxazulula izinkinga ngokushesha, ngoba umphumela uzovula izindawo ezintsha. Uma kwadingeka ulale emathuneni emathuneni ephusheni - lokhu kuyisignali engalungile ekhombisa ukuthuthukiswa kwesinye isifo. Kusho ukuthini uma uphupha ngamangcwaba namathuna ngemisebe yokuguqa. Kulokhu, leli phupho lithembisa ukuvela kwezinkinga eziqinile emsebenzini nasemabhizinisini. Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze akukhuthazwa ukuqala noma yiliphi ibhizinisi. Umbono ebusuku, owakhiwa amathuna okushisa, uthembisa izinguquko ezinkulu ekuphileni.
Uma uphupha ukuthi kufanele ukhethe amakhowe emathuneni, khona-ke, okwamanje, kukhona ukulangazelela okwedlule. Ukususa amathuna ephusheni kuyisixwayiso sokuthi maduzane uzothatha isijeziso okufanele uhambe ngayo nekhanda lakho eliphethwe phezulu. Umbono ebusuku, lapho kwakufanele ukhale khona emathuneni, kubonisa ukuqala kwenkinga ekuphileni, futhi lokhu kungaholela ekucindezelekeni. Ungakhathazeki, ngoba emva kwalokhu isikhathi esijabulisayo sizofika. Uma izingane zihamba emangcwabeni, kufanele ulindele izinguquko ezinhle ekuphileni. Amathuna ephupheni owesifazane okhulelwe yilokho okubonakalayo mayelana nokuphila kwengane nokuzalwa kwakhe okujwayelekile.
Kungani uphupha ukufuna ithuna emangcwabeni?
Iphupho elinjalo liwuphawu olungathandeki, olufanekisela ukuthola izindaba ezibuhlungu ngokufa komuntu othandekayo. Noma kunjalo kungaba yinto ebonakalayo yezinkinga ezingalindelekile. Kubantu abasanda kudlala umshado, iphupho lapho umuntu kufanele afune khona ithuna kusho ukuthi umshado uzoba mfushane futhi awujabule.
Kungani ulahlekelwa ithuna elingenalutho emangcwabeni?
Uma umuntu ebona ingcwaba elingcwatshiwe ephusheni, kusho ukuthi maduzane kuyadingeka ukuthola izindaba ezimbi. Kwezinye izincwadi zamaphupho, ithuna elingenalutho lisho ukufa komuntu othandekayo.
Yini amathuna namathuna abantwana aphupha ngazo?
Iphupho elinjalo liwuphawu olungathandeki olubikezela inhlekelele. Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, kufanele silindele ukubhujiswa kwezinhlelo ezintsha. Amathuna wengane ephusheni kubonisa ukuthi umuntu ushiye okuthile okubalulekile nokuyigugu esikhathini esidlule. Noma kunjalo kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi lowo mphupho akaqapheli amakhono namakhono .