Abesifazane abaningi, ngemva kokufunda ngokungathengwa komuntu othandekayo, ungayeki futhi uqhubeke ulwa nenjabulo yabo. Kulokhu, ungakwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimela emncintiswaneni, okuzosiza ukunciphisa imizwa. Kunezinqubo eziningi ezihlukene ezizofeza umphumela oyifunayo. Kubalulekile ukukholelwa emisebenzini yemilingo futhi ungatsheli muntu ngomkhuba.
Indlela yokwenza umkhuhlane kumphikisi?
Enye yezindlela eziphumelela kakhulu kunezingxenye ezimbili. Ingxenye yokuqala yindoda futhi ihilela ukulungiselela ukudla okuphefumlelwe. Kunconywa ukuthi ukhethe isidlo esintandokazi kakhulu, ngenkathi upheka phezu kwebhodini noma iprying pan funda le nqubo:
"Ngizovuka, ngaphandle kwesibusiso, ngizohamba, ngingayihambi, hhayi ngomnyango hhayi ngesango, kodwa ngazo zonke izindlela ezingaphansi komhlaba. Ngizoya olwandle, ngizothola itshe eliluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, futhi etsheni, ama-leshy ahlala noLeshovitsa, uSathane noSathane, namanzi anekhilikithi. Bahlezi ngeminyango yabo komunye nomunye, babhekana. Balwa, baluma, bathukuthele futhi bafunga. Ngakho wena (igama lomuntu) ngegama (lomama wesifazane) lomhlaba ongeke ukwazi, uzophikisana, ufunge, bese uzobe uyingxenye futhi uphinde waziwa. Okushiwo kuzokwenzeka. "
Owesifazane akufanele adle ukudla okuphekiwe, kodwa othandekayo wakhe udinga ukondliwa ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ingxenye yesibili yemakhaza ephikisanayo ihilela isenzo esinamandla. Ngokusho kolwazi olukhona, emva kwalokho inkosikazi ingahamba kude nabathandekayo. Ukuze umkhosi udinga ukwazi igama futhi ube nesithombe ongayithola, isibonelo, kumanethiwekhi omphakathi. Kusadingeka izinhlanzi ezintsha, okufanelekile ukuthenga ekuseni. Kusihlwa, ukugcoba, unqume ikhanda lakho bese ubeka inhlanzi esithombeni, lapho kufanele ubhale igama lomphikisi. Emva kwalokhu, kufanele ufunde isakhiwo:
"Le nhlanzi ayinayo umsila, ayikho isisu, nekhanda, i-fin and guts. Umphikisana nami (igama) uzothola lokho engikufunayo, njengemuva kwezinhlanzi le ntombazane ikhula, njengoba amaphiko egijima, njengoba amehlo evulekile. Kuze kube yileso sikhathi, angeke ajabule, angatholi uthando lwakhe (igama lomuntu). Okushiwoyo, kuzogcwaliseka. Amen. "
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Ukushisa okukhulu ngokumelene nomphikisana
Kulula, kodwa umkhuba osebenzayo kufanele wenziwe ngoLwesibili kusihlwa wodwa. Kubalulekile ukuthi inyanga ibonakale esibhakabhakeni. Ukuze uthole umkhosi udinga ukuthenga imbewu ka-poppy.
"Izinyembezi ezingamashumi amathathu nantathu zihamba, zithwala amatshe amathathu angamashumi amathathu nantathu, zizovotela i-poppy ngasemnyango wami, zizoqalekisa isitha sami (igama) ngamabhere abo. Macu lokhu ngeke kuhlume, uyongigcina mina nendlu yami, ngiwavikele kubantu abaphikisanayo, ugcine injabulo yomndeni. Ukuphonsa izikhukhula ngamatshe angamashumi amathathu nantathu, emngceleni wami, ofisa ukuchitha injabulo yami, uthatha wonke amatshe. Yiba njalo. Amen. Amen. Amen. "
I-poppy popped kufanele iphonswe phezu kombundu ukuze indoda ihambe phezu kwayo. Phinda umkhuba njalo ngoLwesibili inyanga. Ngemuva komkhosi wokuqala, kuzokwazi ukubona izinguquko ezinhle.