Izibonakaliso zokuqothulwa zicacile: umuntu ulandela ukubuyisela emuva, uthola kunzima ukwenza noma yimuphi umsebenzi, impumelelo ekugcineni imshiye, uhlala egula futhi ezwa kabi kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, ungayithola kanjani ukuthi ubani owenze umonakalo? Ukuze wenze lokhu, kunezindlela zabo siqu, futhi sizozicubungula.
Indlela yokuhlonza umuntu owenze umonakalo?
Ukhohlakala - lokhu kugeleza okukhulu kwamandla angalungile, okungaqondisa kahle kuphela umlumbi ochwepheshe. Ngokuvamisekile, ukuphanga kudinga ukuba khona kwezinto zomuntu obanjwe ngesando. Uyakhumbula uma izinto zakho zomuntu zilahlekile? Ingabe uye wakhonza ukudla endlini yomuntu omubi? Ingabe abazali bakho bakutshele mayelana nezingxabano ezinobudlova nabanye abantu? Inkohlakalo ingeyona eyakho kuphela, kodwa futhi izalwa.
Uma ungeke ukhumbule noma yini ekhethekile, akukho muntu onomona noma izitha, kuzodingeka uphenduke kwezinye izindlela. Noma, uma usuchithiwe, into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukuwuqeda, futhi ungabheki umuntu onecala.
Inkohlakalo: kanjani ukuthi ungubani?
Kunezinqubo ezihlukahlukene zemilingo ezikuvumela ukuba ubone ukuthi ngubani ohlaselayo. Isibonelo, kunendlela yokubona umuntu onjalo ephusheni. Kusihlwa kwanoma yiliphi iholide lesonto (noma ngisho namaSonto nje) ngaphambi kokulala, tshela icebo elikhethekile:
"Ngiya emigqeni, ngibheka ngamehlo ami. Phakathi kwabangcwele kukhona uSamsoni oNgcwele. Egameni likaNkulunkulu, okuphakade nokuphila, ngithi izwi elingcwele: "USamsoni ongcwele, ngibonise iphupho lesiprofetho." Vumela uSamsoni ongcwele angibonise isitha sami, Ephusheni, ubuso obungokwesiprofetho buzobubonisa kimi. Phila noZiqu-zintathu Ongcwele, usizo, Nkosi Jesu Kristu, ngibusise ukulala kwami. Egameni likaYise neNdodana noMoya oNgcwele. Manje naphakade naphakade naphakade. Amen. "
Emva kwalokho, ulale, futhi ephusheni uzoba ngumuntu owadala umonakalo. Qiniseka ukuthi ufake ishidi nopeni eduze kombhede ukuze ubhale phansi phansi igama noma izimpawu zomuntu. Le ndlela ayisebenzi kuwo wonke umuntu, kodwa kufanelekile ukuzama.
Inkohlakalo: kanjani ukuthola ukuthi ubani owenze lokho?
Uma ufuna isitha uqobo ukuba eze endlini yakho ezinsukwini ezimbalwa, sebenzisa umkhuba nge-nail. Kudingeka uye emathuneni noma ku-ejensi yemisebenzi yomngcwabo bese uthatha isikhali, esetshenziselwa ukugcoba isembozo somkhumbi. Kungcono ukuyithinta kuphela ngeglavu noma indwangu.
Shayela i-nail emngceleni wendlu yakho bese uthi: "Ubani ongilungile, oye wangikhathaza, ngibiza nge-nail. Uma ungangeni ezinsukwini ezintathu, khona-ke uzofa phakathi nonyaka. Amathuna, ikhukhuni, isikhali, ukulinda, umeme umenywa. Amen, Amen, Amen . "
Isitha sizovela noma sibize ezinsukwini ezintathu ezizayo, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi uzoba nesaba. Le ndlela iletha ububi obuhle kumuntu owenze iphutha, futhi kufanele uyisebenzise ngokucophelela.