Uthando lenza umuntu ahlanye, ngakho abanye abantu balungele okuningi ukuthola into yokudumisa. Ngokuvamile, ngale njongo, kusetshenziselwa amasiko nezinhlelo ezihlukahlukene. Emlenzeni kukhona into efana nokupenda okuphakade, okungukuthi, akunakwenzeka ukususa ngezindlela ezijwayelekile. Awukwazi ukusebenzisa ugobe, uma kungekho umuzwa oqotho, njengoba lokhu kungabangela imiphumela emibi kakhulu.
Isakhiwo esiqinile sothando esingenakususwa
Amandla okubopha i-biotope enamandla kakhulu, okungukuthi, igazi, amathe, izinwele nezinye izingxenye zomzimba zisetshenziselwa imikhuba enjalo. Masihlale kwenye yezinhlelo zokusebenzisa izinwele. Lokhu yisipela esinamandla esizohlala isikhathi eside. Masinyane emva kokuthwasa kwenyanga kuyadingeka ukuya esontweni futhi uthenge amakhandlela amabili we-wax, okuzofanekisela indoda nowesifazane. Kusadingeka ukuthi ubambe izinwele zezinto zokukhangisa nezakho, okumele zifakwe emakhandlela ahlukene. Ukwenza lokhu, kufanele kwenziwe ithambile, isibonelo, ubambe ibhethri noma ngaphezulu kwesinye into eshisayo.
Kusukela kumakhandlela atholakele kuyadingeka ukwenza isibalo somuntu nesifazane, bese ubanika amagama, yilokho kanye nezisulu. Amapopi alungele ukuhlanganiswa kufanele ahlangane ndawonye ahlanganiswe nentambo ebomvu, futhi kufanele avela ku-coil entsha. Izibalo ezihamba phambili zidinga ukukhuluma isakhiwo esiqinile kakhulu sothando:
"Njengoba ngingekho ngaphandle kwakho, uthando lwami, angiboni impilo, ngakho-ke (igama le-bewitched one) angeke liphile ngaphandle kwami."
Izibalo kufanele zifihlwe endaweni eyimfihlo futhi ungabonakali kunoma ubani. Uma ungalandeli lo mthetho, khona-ke isipele sothando sizolahlekelwa amandla ayo. Isiphala phezu kwamadonki kufanele sikhulume nsuku zonke phakathi kwamabili kuze kufike inyanga egcwele. Emva kwalokhu, uma ufisa, ungaphinda uhlele isakhiwo ngesikhathi senyanga ekhulayo.
Umgomo wokuthanda inyanga ekhulayo
Ngomkhuba, udinga ukuthatha ikhandlela lombala obomvu. Ngemva kokushona kwelanga, thatha ikhandlela elikhanyayo bese uthi icebo elinjalo:
"Njengoba inyanga ikhula nsuku zonke, kanjalo uthando lwami luyokhula. Njengoba ikhandlela liyancibilika njalo ngomzuzu, kanjalo inhlanhla yami embi iyanyamalala. "
Ikhandlela kufanele ichithe ngokuphelele.
Uthando uphinde uhlele uthando ngaphandle kokusebenzisa izinhlayiya zomzimba
Uma kungenakwenzeka ukuthatha izinto zento yokudumisa, khona-ke umuntu angasebenzisa umkhuba osebenza ngokulinganayo. Ukuze uyisebenzise, akudingeki uthathe ikhandlela lesonto owasisebenzisa ngaphambili. Ekuseni ukukhanya, phuma uphinde uhambe endlini yakho ngokuphindaphindiwe izikhathi eziyisishiyagalombili. Ukudlula emnyango, udinga ukusho ugobe olunjalo:
"Ngizungezile, ngiphendule ikhanda lakho. Cabanga ngemicabango yakho-uphenduke, uphendulele umphefumulo wakho, wimboze. Makube njalo! Amen. "
Ngemuva kokujikeleza kokugcina, kubalulekile ukuphinda uphinde upela izikhathi eziyisishiyagalombili. Khona-ke, emngceleni wendlu ngosizo lwama-wax, udwebe uphawu lokungapheli. Ikhandlela alikwazi ukuphonswa. Kusihlwa, udinga ukuya endlini yento yokudumisa futhi indlu yakhe idlulele izikhathi eziyisishiyagalombili ngokulandelana kwewashi, etshela isakhiwo . Ungakhohlwa ukudweba uphawu lokungapheli emnyango. Isitembu sekhandlela esisele kumele sisitshenziswe futhi i-sphere yenziwe kusukela ku-wax. Ngemuva kokuqiniswa, yiphonsa ngenaliti entsha bese uyibeka eduze kwendlu yakho.
Isakhiwo sothando esinamandla kakhulu esithombeni
Izithombe zivame ukusetshenziswa ku-privorotah ehlukahlukene, ngoba bakholelwa ukuthi abagcinanga kuphela isithombe sangaphandle, kodwa namandla. Kubalulekile ukuthi isithombe sishaye ngangokunokwenzeka. Kungcono kakhulu ukukwenza ngokwakho. Kubalulekile ukungabonisi isithombe kunoma ubani. Ngaphezu kwalokho, udinga ukuthatha isithombe sakho. Ngisho nangokwesiko, kufanele ulungise izibuko ezintathu, okumele zifakwe ngendlela yokuthi kuzoba nenani elingapheli lezikhathi eziboniswa izithombe. Izithombe kumele zifakwe ngendlela yokuthi izizindla zabo zihlangane ndawonye. Kusadingeka ukuthi ulungiselele ikhandlela, inaliti entsha, i-tape ne-casket.
Ukuqala umkhuba kulandela inyanga ekhulayo. Eduze izibuko, khanyisa ikhandlela uphinde ubeke izithombe ngaphambi kwalo. Ngemuva kwalokhu, funda uhlaka lothando olunjalo:
"Njengomphefumulo wenceku kaNkulunkulu (igama), izigidi zezikhathi esibukweni zibonakala, ngakho-ke makube izingcezu eziningi kangaka futhi ziphele!"
Bese uxhuma isithombe, bese uthi la mazwi:
"Yonke imiphefumulo yomphefumulo nomunye umphefumulo wami mayihlanganise futhi inganqamuki kuze kube phakade naphakade!"
Usebenzisa i-Scotch tape, gcoba izithombe ezibhekene nazo ukuze ubhekane, kepha ungabasusa ezibukweni. Bese utshela lo mbimbi:
"Ngikhokhela igazi lami ngokuxhumana kwami nenceku kaNkulunkulu (igama). Masihlale sibe munye. Amen! "
Ukusebenzisa inaliti entsha, uphonsa umunwe wakho bese ubeka igazi lakho ezithombeni, bhala igama lakho. Beka izithombe ebhokisini, bese uyisa endaweni eyimfihlo. Kubalulekile ukuthi akekho owake wabona isithombe, njengoba isipelingi sizoyeka ukusebenza.