Uma ubuhlobo buboshwe kuphela, ngifuna ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nomthandi wami noma okungenani ngikhulume naye efonini. Ngokuvamile amadoda angenzi ukuzizwa isikhathi eside, okwenza ukuba bakhathazeke futhi bahlupheke emicabangweni ehlukile. Kulesi simo, ungasebenzisa icebo lokuthola indoda inesizungu futhi ifonele. Kubalulekile ukuphatha amasiko ngokujulile futhi ungatsheli muntu mayelana nokusetshenziswa komlingo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinyathelo ziyasiza uma kunemizwa eqotho ngempela, ngaphandle kwenhloso embi.
Umgomo wokuba nomuntu othandekayo ubize emva komhlangano wokuqala
Isikhathi emva komhlangano wokuqala ngaphambi kokuba insimbi yokuqala ibonakale sengathi ingunaphakade, kodwa ngosizo lomlingo unganciphisa isikhathi sokulinda. Ukwenza umkhuba, kufanele ube nento okuthandwa ngumthandi. Uma lokhu kungenjalo, ke nje ubhale ephepheni lakhe inombolo yakhe yocingo. Thatha ngezandla zakho bese uqala ukumela emicabangweni yakho isithombe somuntu nosuku lwakho, kubalulekile ukuzala konke ngemininingwane encane. Ngemuva kwalokho, funda lolu qhinga izikhathi eziyisishiyagalolunye:
"Sithandwa sami (igama), kungani uthula, ungabizi, ungabhali, ungakhulumi nami? Ifoni ngokushesha futhi uthathe inombolo yami! Yeka indlela izwi lami eline tube elizophendula ngayo, umphefumulo uzogeleza ngenjabulo! "
Kubalulekile ukuthi ungayifunde umshini kumshini, kodwa kufanelekile ukutshala izimali kuwo wonke amazwi. Akuyona into engafanele ukucabanga ukuthi indoda ithatha kanjani ucingo kanye nezingcingo.
Iqhinga elinamandla lokuthatha isithombe, ukuze umlingani abe khona
Ngomkhuba, kufanele uthathe isithombe esisha salowo okhethiwe, okulula ukuthola kumanethiwekhi omphakathi. Futhi ulungise iphepha, okufanele ubhale inombolo yakho yocingo. Beka iphepha ephepheni ukuze inombolo iqhathanise ngqo nenhloko yekhethiwe. Phakathi nesikhombiso sonke, isithombe sekhethiwe kufanele siboniswe ukuze siqinise umphumela wayo. Kubalulekile ukwenza konke njengoba kukhulunywe ngenhla, bese-ke, ukufunda isakhiwo, lowo muntu ubize, futhi uzwakala kanje:
"Ukukhohlisa kwami kucacile, isikhathi sami esilinde isikhathi eside, sihle kakhulu!
Njengoba kwakukuhle ukuba sikhumbule, inhliziyo yami, vula umphefumulo wakho.
Khumbula inombolo yami ngokushesha, khetha usuku ngokushesha! "
Isithombe esifakwe ephepheni kufanele sishiye kule ndawo ubusuku bonke. Ekuseni, ishidi elinenombolo yocingo kufanele lishiswe, futhi umlotha ohlakazekile emoyeni.
Iqhinga elinamandla, ukuthi othandekayo manje wabiza emva kokuxabana
Uma kukhona ukungqubuzana futhi umthandi akafuni ukuya kuqala ekubuyisaneni, khona-ke isiko kufanele sisetshenziswe. Le mkhosi inamandla kakhulu, ngakho kufanele isetshenziswe kuphela ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu. Okokuqala, hlukanisa inani lamadijithi enamba yakho yefoni zibe izingxenye ezimbili. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukwenza lokhu ngaphandle kwensali, vumela ingxenye eyodwa ibe ngaphezu kwesibalo esisodwa. Eduze nendlu lapho umthandi ehlala khona kuyadingeka ukuqoqa amatshe ngobukhulu behlamvu lwemali enkulu. Inani labo kufanele lilingane nenani lenani lamadijithi. Enye ingxenye yamatshe kufanele ifakwe eduze kwendlu yakho. Amatshe akufanele axutshwe. Okokuqala kufanele bahlanzwe kahle futhi bome. Ngemva kwalokhu, wabeka amatshe phambi kwakho ukusuka kwesobunxele kuya kwesokudla, ukushintsha elinye itshe elithathwe egcekeni lakho nasegcekeni lekhethiweyo. Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukubeka inombolo yocingo ematje besebenzisa uphawu. Kubalulekile ukulungisa isikhwama esenziwe ngendwangu yemvelo yombala omnyama. Lapho kuqala ukukhanya kwelanga lesibhakabhaka amakhandlela ambalwa, faka amatshe esikhwameni, uphinde uhlele isakhiwo, ukuze lo dade afunde:
"Amadlebhe ngamatshe amatshe. Isibalo esithombeni.
Kusukela kwinombolo yezinombolo. Kusuka kwinombolo yocingo.
Kusuka efonini, izwi.
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Umlutha wokubiza othandekayo wakho ngenyanga ekhulayo
Kungcono ukuqhuba umkhuba ngoLwesihlanu ngaphambi kokulala emva kwamabili. Thatha isithombe salowo okhethiwe bese uyinamathisela efonini, ubophe konke kanye nebhebhoni yombala obomvu. Uma kungekho isithombe, bese ugqoka ifoni, kufanele umelele isithombe somuntu othandekayo wakho. Emva kwalokho phezu kwefoni, funda icebo elinjalo:
"Ebusuku intombazane ebomvu yaphuma futhi umoya wabiza abasizi bakhe: O, wena, umoya, ungikhonze kahle, ulethe imicabango yami futhi ulale kumthandekayo wami. Uyongibona njengentombazane ephusheni, othandekayo wami uyoba nesithukuthezi, ahlushwe. Izwi lami liyadingeka kuye njengamanzi futhi lizofuna kakhulu ukumlalela. Futhi wena, umoya, ukuhlebezela ezindlebeni zakhe ukuthi udinga ukubiza intombazane, faka isithombe sami ngaphansi kwe-eyelashes bese uyibeka enkumbulo yakho, kodwa uma nje usukuma, ngeke usacabange, kodwa ngizobizwa ngokuthi, njengokwenziwe njenge-potion yensika. "