Kubesifazane, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umndeni wabo ujabule, ngakho ukuze uzivikele ezinkingeni ezihlukahlukene, ungasebenzisa usizo lomlingo. Abaningi banesithakazelo kulokho okufanele benze ukuze umyeni afune umfazi, ayeke ukuphuza futhi kwezinye izimo, izeluleko zizosiza. Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa ukholo uma kunenkolelo engaqiniseki emphumela omuhle, ngoba phambi kokungabaza, akukho lutho olwenzekayo.
Uqhinga ukuze umyeni wami angahambi
Abesifazane abaningi besaba kakhulu ukuthi oshade naye angashintsha futhi avikele ubuhlobo bawo enkingeni enjalo, ungaqhuba umkhuba olula. Kuye kuyadingeka ukuthi alungiselele amakhandlela amabili esonto amancane nezinwele eziningana zomyeni, isibonelo, ezithathwe emgqeni. Kufanele uhole umkhuba wedwa. Khanyisa amakhandlela, bese-ke, elangabi lomunye wabo, ushise izinwele futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uqoqa umlotha. Emva kwalokho, tshela amagama angaphezulu kwekhandlela:
"Njengomlilo wamakhandlela ngokushisa nokushisa izinwele zomthandekayo wami, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomlingani), ngakho-ke yonke imicabango ekhanda ekhanda lakhe mayibhekiswe kubamelene nami. Ngenhliziyo yakhe angangenanga esifubeni lapho ebona omunye wesifazane, kodwa ngami ngephupha futhi ngifisa ekhaya ngisuka ezindaweni zonke ezikude. Ukushisa, umlilo olungile, izifiso zakhe ziwubuhlungu ngaphakathi kwakhe futhi ungabavumeli baphunyuke. Njengoba ikhandlela elingcwele liqhakazile futhi likhala, nawe, othandekayo wami uyohlala njalo kimi, iNceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lakhe) lizokhathazeka. Sizohlala nawe isikhathi eside futhi ngenjabulo, ngokuthembela okuphelele komunye nomunye. Amen. "
Phinda uhlele futhi ubheke ikhandlela lesibili, bese uzicima bese ufihla cinder ekamelweni eliphakathi kwezinto zomlingani wakho. Umlotha kufanele wengezwe ekudleni okulungiselelwe oshade naye.
Umlutha ukuze umyeni wami angaphuzi
Ukuqeda imikhuba emibi , kubalulekile ukwenza umkhuba, kodwa kufanele kwenziwe ngasese kwabanye. Yiya ehlathini eliseduze bese uqoqa khona amagatsha ukuze uthole umshanelo ovela emithini yobulili besilisa, isibonelo, i-oki noma i-maple. Kubalulekile ukuqala umkhuba wedwa, kubalulekile ukuthi akekho abantu noma izilwane endlini. Ulungele umshanelo wendlu ukushayela zonke izingxenyana, bese kuthi, futhi phansi. Phakathi nalokhu, usho ugobe olunjalo:
"Utshani-amakhowe, izihlahla eziluhlaza, eziqinile futhi ezimnandi! Awukwazi ukubona ilanga legolide kusukela manje, ungaphuzi izikhukhula, ungafaki amaqabunga. Ezweni unayo ijwabu leso, futhi inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomyeni) aliphuzi iwayini ngewayini! Kwaphakade naphakade, Amen! "
Ngemuva kwalokho, uqoqe yonke udoti futhi, kanye nomshanelo, ulimbe ngemuva kwendlu. Lapho umshanelo ubolile, umkhuba uzoqala ukusebenza.
Plot on indoda, ngakho wayefuna futhi bathande
Uma umuntu eseyeke ukufisa umfazi wakhe, kungenzeka ukuthi enze umkhuba ongokwenyama, okudingeka ukuthi uthathe izingubo zangaphansi zomyeni wakhe. Sebenzisa ama-panties amnyama umuntu azogqoka emva kwesiko. Ukuqhuba umkhuba kuyadingeka ngoMsombuluko, ngoLwesithathu noma ngoLwesihlanu ngesikhathi seNyanga ekhulayo ekuphumeni kwelanga. Uma oshade naye elala, thatha ama-panties esandleni sakho sokunene, nangakwesobunxele - ikhandlela lesonto elikhanyisiwe. Iya efasiteleni bese uthi izikhathi ezintathu lawa mazwi:
"Ngaphandle kwamahlathi, amanzi aqina - hhayi umhlaba, kodwa ingaphakathi labesifazane. Ngakolunye uhlangothi lwalowo manzi kukhona isiqhingi, futhi esiqhingini insika ayiguquki, phezulu phezulu esibhakabhakeni. Ilanga laphuma likhanya. Makube umvuthwandaba weNceku kaNkulunkulu (igama) futhi ivuselela, umhlophe wami uphakamisa umzimba wami omhlophe. Amagama - vula ukhiye, ukhiye. "
Ngemuva kwalokho, hamba, ubambe futhi usiqede lelikhandlela. Beka ilineni kumyeni wakho ukuze ngokuqinisekile ayifake. Ngemuva kwalokho, umkhuba uzoqala ukusebenza.
Umlutha ukuze indoda ingashiyi
Kubalulekile ukuthatha izintambo ezimbili ezifanako bese uzibeka emngceleni ngaphansi kwe-rug criss-crosswise. Kubalulekile ukuthi ayibonakali. Bese uthi lawa mazwi:
"Ungawela kanjani lo mgwaqo,
Ngakho uzohamba, ngakho uzoza.
Egameni likaYise neNdodana noMoya oNgcwele. Amen. "