Isithunywa sevangeli, noma i-classical pose - mhlawumbe iphuzu eliphikisana kakhulu kwezocansi. Iningi labantu bakholelwa ngobuqotho ukuthi ubulili ekuthunjweni kwezithunywa zevangeli kusemthethweni futhi kudala, kanti nokho, iningi labantu lihlale lilala ngesimo sezithunywa zevangeli. Masikhulume ngokuningiliziwe mayelana nokuthi leli gama livelaphi, nokuthi ungashintsha kanjani impande yobandlululo lwayo kulolu classic.
Umlando
Umlando, yiqiniso, uyingqayizivele, kodwa, njengoba bekusho, akekho umusi ongenawo umlilo. Kuthiwa izithunywa zevangeli ezingamaKatolika ePacific Islands zanquma ukukhanyisa abantu basekhaya kule ndaba. AmaKatolika asakaze ukuthunywa kwezithunywa zevangeli zakudala, njengoba nje kuphela "okungenasono". Cishe, inkolo iyayamukela le misebenzi kuphela ngoba umzimba owonakele wesifazane ufihliwe ngaphansi komuntu, futhi ungabonakali yizinsika zawo, njengakuzo zonke ezinye izicansi
.Abomdabu abasazibandakanya kwezobulili ezinjalo (ezindaweni zendawo abazithandayo kakhulu), kodwa babengenamavila kakhulu ukutshela indaba yamaKatolika ku-ethnographer uBronislav Malinovsky, ebiza ngokuhlakanipha kwakhe.
I-Technique
Ngendlela yokuthunywa kwezithunywa zevangeli akukho lutho oluyinkimbinkimbi, yingakho imibhangqwana ikhetha, lapho bobabili abalingani bezintombi. Ubulili esikhundleni sezithunywa zevangeli ngukuthi bobabili abalingani babhekene nomunye nomunye, futhi indoda "iphezulu".
Kubonakala sengathi ukwengeza lapha - kungukuthi futhi, yiqiniso, ukuthi umsebenzi wesifazane ukulala njengemogwa futhi ujabule. Kodwa-ke, lokhu kungaphindwa ngokufunda kancane mayelana nendlela yokuthutha isithunywa sevangeli.
Siyahlukahluka
Uma indoda ingena emgodini ngaphakathi kwesiswini, owesifazane unezinketho eziningi zokungalali ngaphansi kwalo:
- Phakamisa amadolo akho aguqe ngamadolo bese ubeka umlingani emahlombe akho;
- kancane kancane uwele imilenze yakho ngemuva komlingani wakho;
- ukwandisa imilenze futhi ukwandise ukungezwani kwesiswini noma ngokuphambene nalokho, usakaze kabanzi ngangokunokwenzeka, uguqe ngamadolo;
- Faka unyawo olulodwa ehlombe lomlingani, ludonse elinye embhedeni, emva kwesikhathi uguqule imilenze yakho;
- ukuphumula esifubeni sezitolo, ubambelele, futhi ngaphambi komvuthwandaba, vumela ukuthi usondelane kakhulu (lokhu kuzokwenza uzizwe ulawulwa embhedeni).
Ubulili be-classical esiteshini sezithunywa zevangeli kuvumela abalingani ukuba babhekane amehlo, basha, amazwi omlomo wokuthandana ezindlebeni, bazizwe umlingani oseduze kakhulu. Yingakho abesifazane, ngokuvamile, bathanda isithunzi sezithunywa zevangeli - uyithandana.
Kodwa kunezizathu eziningana zokuzinikela kwenkani.
Kungani abesifazane bathanda isikhundla sezithunywa zevangeli?
Okokuqala, ukuthunywa kwezithunywa zevangeli kukuvumela ukuba ukhohlwe mayelana nezinkinga. Abesifazane benqabe ukulala ocansini, ngokufaka umgibeli, futhi bonke ngoba bacabanga ukuthi umzimba wabo awuphelele. Ngenxa yalokho, ngisho noma evuma "Umgibeli", uzokwazi ukucabanga ngamaphutha akhe kuphela futhi uzocabangela le nkinga njengenjabulo.
Okwesibili, ngenxa yobukhulu obukhulu besilisa, abanye besifazane bangase babe nobuhlungu phakathi kocansi. Esikhundleni sezithunywa zevangeli, abesifazane bangakwazi
Futhi, okwesithathu, ukuthunywa kwezithunywa zevangeli kubhekwa njengento eyamukelekile kakhulu ekukhulelwe. Mhlawumbe lokhu kungukucwaswa okuhlwanyelwa izithunywa zevangeli ezifanayo eziqhingini zasePacific, futhi mhlawumbe kukhona iqiniso kulokhu sitatimende.
Iqiniso liwukuthi emanzini omuntu, i-semen ilula ukuthola isibeletho, futhi, ngesikhathi esifanayo, ungagcini. Lokhu kungenxa yokukhangwa okuvamile emhlabeni, okungukuthi, ukukhulelwa owesifazane kufanele alale phansi ukuze "ugijime" kahle futhi 'angaphumeleli' nakancane. Kodwa-ke, inqwaba yabesifazane ikhulelwa ngaphandle kwesithunywa sevangeli.