Kungani sisetshenziselwa umqondo wokuthi indoda ihlangabezana ne-orgasm njalo futhi ingapheli ngesikhathi socansi nje ayikwazi? Phela, lokhu kwenzeka, futhi njengendlela yokubonisa, izinkinga ezinjalo azivamile. Ngitshele ukuthi kungani inkinga - uma indoda ingaqedi ubulili bakhe isikhathi eside, kufanele ujabule, kodwa ungacabangi ngalokho okufanele ukwenze nokuthi ungalungisa kanjani lesi simo? Iqiniso lile ndaba, labesifazane bavame ukukhononda ngokuthi abalingani babo basheshe banelisekile. Kodwa kwenzeka, ngeshwa, futhi ngokuphambene nalokho. Ngakho ake sibone ukuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka nokuthi kufanele ukwenze uma umuntu engakwazi ukuqeda isikhathi eside.
Kungani indoda ingenakuthanda ngesikhathi sokulala?
Ngokuvamile abesifazane, lapho bethola ukuthi indoda ayikwazi ukuqedela, baqale ukufuna izizathu ngaphakathi kwabo. Yiqiniso, lapho kungekho khona injabulo, owesifazane angaba necala, kodwa kaningi kunalokho akukhona kumuntu. Futhi uma unenkinga yokungabaza, khuluma nomlingani wakho, mhlawumbe kungumzimba womzimba wakhe. Phela, inani leminyaka nobude bomuntu owesilisa adinga kuxhomeke kumtsetfosisekelo wakhe webulili. Kodwa uma isenzo eside eside socansi kumuntu wakho akuyona into evamile, ngakho-ke ngenxa yezizathu zokuntuleka kwe-orgasm okudingeka ucabange ngakho. Ngokuvamile kaningi kanje.
- Ukusebenzisa utshwala njalo kungesizathu esivamile sokuba umuntu angakwazi ukuqeda isikhathi eside. Amadoda amaningi acabanga ukuthi kufanele uphuze kancane ngaphambi kocansi ukuthi uphuze kancane ngaphambi kwalo, lokhu kuzokusiza ukukhulula futhi uvumele iphupho livuleke. Mhlawumbe kunjalo, bambalwa nje abangase baphuze kancane, futhi kunzima kakhulu ukuba umuntu ongeqile ukuba aqedele, ngoba ukudluliselwa kwemiqondo ebuchosheni nasemhlane kuyaba buthaka. Uma indaba efanayo yenzeke kumlingani wakho, ngakho akufanele ukwesaba, uyasola futhi uzomthola ekhanda elimnene. Mane nje uzama ukukhipha esimweni sakhe sokuzizuzisa, khumbula ukuthi ekuphishekeleni umlingani wakho we-orgasm kungaba nzima kunokuba kuvamile, kodwa ngenxa yezinto eziyingqayizivele kuwe, izinhlobo zobulili ziyavumelana nokuqapha.
- Isizathu sesibili esivame kakhulu ukuthi kungani i-orgasm yomuntu iba iphupho elingenakufinyelelwa ukukhathala, ukucindezeleka okuqhubekayo kanye nokwelashwa kwabo. Ama-anti-depressants enza isistimu yezinzwa ngokucophelela futhi ekuthintweni kocansi nakho kuyathinta. Ngakho uma umlingani wakho ethatha isithokozo, ungamfuni kakhulu. Uma engaphumeleli embhedeni, kuyoba "ukudubula kokulawula ekhanda." Ukulinda kangcono, futhi lo muntu, ekwazisa ukunakekelwa kwakho nokubekezela, uzothatha isinyathelo.
- Kaningi futhi umuntu akakwazi ukuthola i-orgasm ngoba uyaphumelela, udinga ukuba yonke indawo nakuzo zonke izinto ezinhle kakhulu. Lokho osembhedeni, uzama ukugcina ibha eliphakeme eliphakeme, ezama ukuzakhela lo mlingani ubulili obuhle kakhulu. Kodwa lokhu kuyinkinga - lo mlutha kakhulu umqondo wokwanelisa umlingani, ngakho-ke akakwazi ukufinyelela i-orgasm ngokwakhe. Kulesi simo, owesifazane kufanele amsize, athi nguye ongcono kakhulu futhi ungitshele ukuthi i-orgasm yakho inganikezwa nje kuphela ngokuphazamiseka okukhulu, isibonelo, i-caress ye-clitoris ngeke ibhekane nayo nakakhulu. Uma lo mlingani engakwazi ukwenza lokhu, mnike isibonelo, indoda encane
akakwazi ukulingwa yilohlobo lomuntu oshaya indlwabu. Futhi umbonge hhayi ngezwi kuphela, kodwa nangesenzo - ukufeza isifiso sakhe socansi. - Yini okufanele uyenze uma umuntu engazange aqede isikhathi eside, kodwa akazweli ukucindezeleka, ukuphuza utshwala, noma izibonakaliso zokuphelela, futhi waqala ukubhekana nale nkinga kaningi? Lapha awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kosizo lochwepheshe, ngoba izimbangela zingaba izifo zezinhlelo zocansi kanye ne-endocrine, i-oncology, ukungalungi nokukhubazeka ekuthuthukiseni uhlelo lwe-genitourinary. Ungahlehlisi ukuvakashela kudokotela, ngoba kuphela ongaphendula umbuzo othi kungani umuntu engatholi i-orgasm, futhi enquma ukwelashwa. Ngakho-ke, uma inkinga ikhona, kholisa othandekayo ukuba avakashele udokotela.