Ukuziyeka

Akuyona inkambiso yokukhuluma ngakho ngezwi, ngakho-ke akunzima ukuqagela ukuthi kukhona into esondelene kakhulu. Ukuziqeda ngokocansi kuyinkqubo yokuguqula ubulili. Ukuqedela ukungabi nobungane obuseduze, naphezu kokukhona kwezidingo zokwaneliseka ngokocansi. Ukwenqaba komuntu ukwamukela ubulili bakhe.

Yini esongela ukuzithiba?

Ekuthuthukiseni kwayo, ngokuvamile izigaba ezimbili zihlukile, kuye ngokuthi ubude buni.

1. Akuzibambeli isikhathi eside. Umuntu uzizwa ukuthula nokuthula, ngaphandle kokuzwa noma yikuphi ukukhathazeka okuthile.
2. Ukuziyeka isikhathi eside. Umuntu uhlangabezana nesifiso esinamandla sokuzibandakanya ngokocansi nokungahambi kahle, okuhlangene nokungenakwenzeka kokwaneliseka kwezidingo.

Ukuziqeda kwamantombazane kuyimbangela yokwenzeka kwe-60-80% yezinzwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, u-70% wezocansi ezithandanayo abhekene nokwehla komsebenzi emsebenzini ngenxa yezidingo eziyisisekelo zobulili.

Ingabe ukuzithiba kuyingozi kwabesifazane?

Ososayensi baveza izizathu ezine eziyinhloko zokuthi kungani ukuziqeda abesifazane kuyisisombululo esicacile kunazo zonke esimweni samanje.

1. Uzungu . Esikhathini sobuzungu, esivela ezinyangeni ezingu-6 kuya ngonyaka, umzimba ulindele izinguquko ezinkulu zendalo embi. Ekuqaleni, isizungu sithinta kuphela ama-psyche of girls. Kungabonakalisa ekuthunjweni, ukulutha umgomo wokuvuselela izinqubo, ukucindezeleka ngokweqile, ukufutheka, ukuhlukumeza okungalawulwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinguquko zenzeka ezingeni lokuphila: ukuthuthukiswa kwezifo zebele kanye nezinqubo eziqhubekayo endaweni yesikhumba.
2. Ukuziyeka ukudala. Ukuziqeda ubulili kubantu besifazane abathi, ngenxa yobusha babo, abanalo ulwazi oluningi emkhakheni wobudlelwane bocansi noma abanalo umlingani ocansini ongunaphakade.
3. Izinga lokuphila. Ukuphulwa okunjalo kuvame ukubonwa kubantu abangaphansi kweminyaka engu-25 noma kulabo abasanda kushada. Akubonakali kakhulu ngokuzigwema ebuhlotsheni bobulili, njengokungalingani kwabo, ngoba ngezinye izikhathi ucansi lungenzeka izikhathi eziningana ngosuku, kanti ngezinye izikhathi aluveli emasontweni ambalwa.
4. I-monk's syndrome. Uhlobo oluvame kakhulu lokuzilahla ngokobulili, oluhlala eminyakeni emithathu noma ngaphezulu. Abesifazane kuleli cala bayeka ukulandela ukubonakala kwabo futhi baqala ukusabela ngokufutheka kukho konke okwenzekayo. Ukwehla kwesisu somlomo wesibeletho noma umdlavuza webele, ukungabi nalutho - yilokho ukuziyeka kungabangela.

Ubulili ngemuva kokuziyeka

Ukuqala ubuhlobo bobulili ngemuva kokuziyeka isikhathi eside, ngoba abesifazane abaningi inkinga ethile. Uma kwenzeka lo wesifazane ephinde abe nethuba lokuzinikezela ngokuphelele ekuthandeni injabulo, waqaphela ngokucophelela emngceleni wekamelo lokungazi.

Umphumela wokuzilahla kwabesifazane kungenziwa ukwakheka kwenkimbinkimbi "yomfelokazi", okubonakala ekusebenzeni okunciphise ekuthinteni komlingani futhi ngenxa yokungakwazi ukufeza i-orgasm. Ama-sexologists ngokushesha buyela ekujwayelekile ukuphakamisa ukwenza ukushaya indlwabu, ukuze isimiso sezinzwa "sikhumbule" ukuthi kufanele siphendule kanjani ekuthumeni okuthunyelwe.

Ukuqala ubuhlobo nomlingani wakho, ungabi msinya kakhulu, ngoba bobabili abalingani kufanele babe nesifiso sokungena ebuhlotsheni obuseduze. Ungaziphoqeleli ukuthi uthandeke ocansini, ake umlingani wakho aqonde ukuthi udinga isikhathi esithile sokubuyela emuva evamile. Uma lesi sikhathi sifika, ungazibambi ekuboniseni ubulili bakho nesigamu sakho sesibili uzoyithokozisa.