Ngesikhathi sakhe uPlato wabhala ukuthi ngesikhathi esisodwa umuntu wayenombono webhola, imilenze emine nezandla ezine. Kwakuyisidalwa esizikhukhumezayo, sikwazi ukubiza ulaka lwawonkulunkulu. Onkulunkulu bajezisa lo muntu, futhi wabahlukanisa ngesigamu. Kuphela ngesikhatsi benga bangabe bebabili.
Uthando, akunjalo? Uma u-kisser othakazelisayo, uzobe uvumelana noPlato. Kodwa ukuze uzizwe ukuhlanganiswa kwemiphefumulo, udinga ukwazi ukuthi ungamanga kanjani ngendlela efanele.
Ubumsulwa obuhle
Ngandlela-thile, imibhangqwana eminingi iqala "ukuxhumana" nayo ngokumangaza okuncane ngezindebe zabo, nemilomo yabo ivaliwe. Lokhu kuyamanga okumnandi kakhulu futhi okulungile, okuyinto, okwamanje, amantombazane abathanda uthando.
Ngakho-ke, sifunda ukumanga kahle kusukela ekuqaleni.
Ngaphambi kokumanga, kufanele ngandlela-thile uzondle umzimba - ukujoyina izandla, ukwamukela, ukukhuphukela kumlingani wakho. Phela, ukumanga akuyona nje isisindo sokuvimbela ukuphikiswa kwamabhaktheriya angaphandle, kodwa futhi nokuxhumana okusondelene kakhulu. A touch
(kungabonakali kalula) njengoba kunoma yini enye eyokwenza ukuthi kube khona okulandelayo.
Ukuncoma nokumemeza okuyimfihlo - tshela umngane wakho okuthile okuthakazelisayo, kodwa kungcono, ukuhlekisayo ezindlebeni zakhe. Ngandlela-thile, noma yikuphi ukuhleka, noma yikuphi okukhulunywe ngokungacacile, kuthinta umuntu njenge-aphrodisiac.Ngesikhathi sokumanga, umbuzo uvuka njalo, lapho ungafaka khona izandla zakho. Labo abakwazi ukumanga nokumanga ngendlela efanele bayothola indawo yabo ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngoba akufanele uphuthelwe noma yiliphi ithuba lokuzinikela wena kanye nomuntu wakho ujabule. Ukushaya izinwele, ukuhamba ngezandla ngomgogodla, ukucindezela izandla, konke lokhu kuthuthukisa injabulo yokumanga.
Ngakho-ke, lapho usutholile umzuzu ofanele, thinta izindebe zomlingani wakho, ubambe umlomo wakhe ophansi, ugweme kancane futhi ukhohlise izindebe zakho ngolimi lwakho, futhi, ngaphandle kokuqaphela, uzoqondisa ulimi lwakho emlonyeni womlingani, okusho ukuthi sesifikile esihlokweni esifanele Kiss French.
I-French Kiss
Leli gama lisho ukuthi le ndlela yafika kithi evela ezweni eliseziningi zabantu lihlotshaniswa nothando-France.
Akekho ozophikisana neqiniso lokuthi lolu hlobo lokumanga luyithandwa kakhulu, lukhuthele kunazo zonke, lunokwenyama nangokomzwelo. Futhi ngaphandle kwanoma yini enye, igcizelela ubuqotho bokuhlobana phakathi kokumanga.
Ubuso olufanele lwesiFulentshi luvela ngokwayo, akudingeki ukuba ufunde. Ukuqala nge-classic, "indlela ehlanzekile", futhi ungene ekunambithekeni, ngeke ubone ukuthi ungalufaka kanjani izilimi. Kodwa sizoxoxa ngemininingwane emincane ye "soul kiss", njengoba amaFulentshi abiza:
- izilimi zokuxhumana - ulimi lungasebenza noma umlingani oyedwa noma kokubili;
- uma ungene emlonyeni, kubalulekile ukuba 'useshe' futhi 'uhlole' (thinta amazinyo, izinsini, uhambe emkhathini wangaphakathi wezindebe);
- ukunyakaza kolimi - kungasondeza ulimi, "ukulwa" (njengokungathi ucindezela phezulu kolimi lomlingani, kodwa uyamelana), ukunyakaza embuthanweni;
- ngesikhathi kiss kaFrance, ingcindezi kufanele igxume, iphose ekushiseni, uphuthumele izandla zakho.
Kodwa awukwazi ukugxila kuphela endleleni yokumanga ngendlela efanele ezindebeni. Kukhona amaphutha amakhulu kakhulu azobangela konke ukuphelela kwezobuchwepheshe:
- Ukuphefumula - uma ungalandeli leli phuzu, ukungenelela ekujuleni kobuciko bokwemvelo akusho umqondo;
- ukuphulukiswa okunamandla - zama ukwenza njalo emlonyeni womlingani awugeleza imifula yamanxeba, ngoba lokhu ngezikhathi ezithile kufanele kugonywe;
- Ungabeki ulimi lwakho lujulile - abanye abantu bane-reflex yokuhlanza.
Ngesikhathi ubanga, ungagijimi noma kuphi, kodwa unganyatheli ndawo. Shintsha ijubane, udale isigqi esingaqondakali kuwe kuphela, emva kwakho konke, kisses ukuncintisana ngokusondelana ngisho nocansi .