Ingabe unalo iphupho elingenangqondo mayelana nokuthi unamahloni okulikhumbula yini? UDkt. Sigmund Freud wayezokujabulela ukulalela indaba yakho futhi akutshele ngobuntu bakho izinto eziningi ezithakazelisayo. Kodwa-ke, uma kungekho ithuba elinjalo, umuntu angafunda umbono wokuthi yiziphi amaphupho ezinobuchopho eziphupheni kwabangqondo bezengqondo zanamuhla nezengqondo ze-psychoanalyst.
Ngabe kusho ukuthini amaphupho angenangqondo?
Uma ngokungazelelwe ube nephupho eliyingozi, lokhu akusho ukuthi awukho esimweni esifanele, abanelisekile, noma banezinkinga ezithile. Phela, iphupho liwukubonakaliswa kweminye imifanekiso nemicabango eye ikuvakashela usuku. Kodwa-ke, uma ubona njalo amaphupho akho, kungasho ukuthi uthola ukunganeliseki okuthile nale ndawo empilweni yangempela. Uma amaphupho alokhu okuqukethwe ubona okungajwayelekile, akusona isizathu sokukhathazeka.
Emaphupheni, abantu bavame ukubona izinto ezingeke zixazululwe empilweni yangempela: ubulili nabalingani abaningana, ezinye iziphambeko, noma wena ngokwakho esithombeni esingavamile.
Amaphupho ama-Erotic amantombazane ayengavamile ukuholela e-orgasm yangempela. Ngokujwayelekile abesifazane bajabule kakhulu ngalokho abakubonayo nangakusasa ekuseni balungele ukuqeda umlingani wabo ngesifiso esifanele. Kodwa amaphupho angamadoda angenangqondo avame ukuphela nge-ejaculation yangempela - kodwa lokhu kuyinto evamile kumzimba wesilisa, futhi akukho lutho olwesaba kulokhu.
Uma amaphupho angathandeki enza ukwesabeke - ubona kubo ubudlova, ukuxhasana, ukuguquka - kufanele uphenduke ku-psychoanalyst ngubani ongakwazi ukucacisa ukuthi kungani uphupha amaphupho angenangqondo ngokuqukethwe okunjalo. Ungesabi ukuya kumchwepheshe - mhlawumbe lokhu kubonakaliswa kohlobo oluthile lokuhlukunyezwa kwengane olwenza luzizwele.
Ungabona kanjani iphupho eliyingozi?
Ezimweni eziningi, into kuphela echaza amaphupho angenangqondo, kungukuthi ngosuku osibambe ngalo iso lesithombe ukuthi ingqondo yakho engacabangi ebonakala njengezocansi, noma ucabanga ngezocansi.
Ngakho-ke, kungenzeka ukuheha iphupho elivusa inkanuko ngezinga eliphakeme lokungenzeka, uma ubheka ifilimu yethando mayelana nothando, khumbula izithombe ezihlukahlukene ezivezwe ngandlela-thile kuwe ngesigaba esiseduze. Isibonelo, ungapheqa ikhathalogi yesitolo esitolo se-inthanethi kubantu abadala noma ama-lingerie angasondeli.
Noma kunjalo, uma umzimba wakho ukuphikisa, akukho zinyathelo ezizosiza. Vele ungaxhunywanga kulo - uma kunjalo uzoba nethuba elingcono lokuphumelela. Kubonakala ukuthi emadodeni abesifazane abavame ukuphuza ngokweqile kunamadoda - ngobulili obunamandla obudala, bancane kakhulu.