Ukungabi nobulili empilweni yomuntu ngokuqondile kuthinta isimo sakhe sengqondo. Ekuphileni kwalowo nalowo, kwakukhona futhi kunezikhathi lapho kungekho ubuhlobo obuseduze, futhi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze akulindelekile, lapho kwenzeka khona ukuthi ukwazi ukuxazulula ukungezwani ngokobulili.
Kunezindlela eziningana eziphumelelayo zokubhekana nale nkinga:
- Thola wena umuntu ongakwazi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zakho, kodwa awusayikho. Ngale ndlela, ngokuyisisekelo, kunabesifazane abahlukaniswa ngokungavinjelwe nokuntuleka kwezinkimbinkimbi. Namuhla, kunamadoda amaningi aphinde abheke abalingani kuphela ngezocansi, ngakho-ke usesho ngeke lude. Mhlawumbe othile ucabanga ukuthi le ndlela, njengowesifazana ukususa ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili, ayiyona into engcolile, kodwa iyasebenza.
- Enye indlela yokulala ngokocansi , kodwa kunamaphutha ambalwa. Isibonelo, ungathola idumela njengentombazane enhle kakhulu, ukwelashwa nganoma yisiphi isifo futhi uguqule isimo sakho sengqondo sobulili. Ngakho-ke, le ndlela yokukhipha ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili, akufanele ibe ngumthetho kuwe, kodwa kunalokho okuhlukile.
- Inketho elandelayo, indlela yokuqeda ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, mhlawumbe kufaneleka wonke umuntu - ukwaneliseka. Izinzuzo zalolu khetho:
- ungasebenzisa le ndlela noma kunini;
- ukwazi umzimba wakho, ungazithokozisa ngokushesha.