Omunye umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwabantu ezivela ezilwaneni ukuthi balala ocansini ngenjabulo, hhayi nje ukuzala. Ngesikhathi sokuthanda uthando, akukhona nje ukuhlanganiswa okungokwenyama kwabantu ababili, kodwa futhi okungokomoya nangokomzwelo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ubulili phakathi kwendoda nomfazi ngenye yezinto ezithandayo ekuphileni kwabo. Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, abantu baye basungula amasu kanye nezindlela ezehlukene zokwehlukanisa impilo yezocansi. Enye yezindlela ezibaluleke kunazo zonke izimo ezihlukene zokulala ocansini. Kunezimo eziningi ezihlukene zezocansi ezingenakulibaleka, kodwa into ebaluleke kakhulu kubalingani ukuthola amathuba okufinyelela i-orgasm futhi ungesabi ukuzama.
Imisebenzi yezocansi zokuqala
Ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi kuyisenzakalo esibalulekile empilweni yazo zonke izintombi. Ezimweni eziningi, ubulili obuhle bujabule kakhulu. Kwabaqalayo, izimo ezibucayi ezivumela kakhulu intombazane ukuba ikhululeke kakhulu. Okuhle kakhulu kuzo:
- ukuthunywa kwezithunywa zevangeli. Intombazane ilele ngemuva kwayo, futhi lo muntu uphezulu;
- owesifazane on. Kule ndaba, indoda ingalala emhlane noma ihlale;
- babe "eceleni." Indoda nowesifazane balala eceleni kwabo, kanti lo muntu usele.
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Ngesikhathi socansi lokuqala ngomuntu kubalulekile ukuqapha ukunyakaza komlingani. Uma unesifo esiqinile, ukubeka ubulili bokuqala kufanele kushintshwe.
Imisebenzi yezocansi ezingenakulibaleka
Uma ukungenwa kokuqala sekudlulile futhi abalingani bekhululiwe futhi bekwazi kangcono, sekuyisikhathi sokuqhubekela phambili ekuhlolweni. Ukuze uthole i-orgasm engalibaleki, sebenzisa i-postures kanye nokuhluka kwazo, ngoba ngezinye izikhathi kunokwanele ukushintsha isikhundla sakho somlenze kancane, ukugoba kancane, futhi ukuzwa kuzokucindezela ngokugcwele. Ukuqhuma okucacile kwe-orgasm kungatholakala cishe kunoma yikuphi ukuma okuzokwenza ujabulele ngeveli yayo, kukuvumela ukuba uhambe ngokukhululekile noma unikeze umlingani wakho insimu enkulu yomsebenzi:
- ukuma kwesimo socansi: ungama kokubili, noma ungasebenzisa i-sofa-sihlalo sosihlalo komunye wabalingani;
- ukuma okuhleliwe, zama ukubuyela ebusweni bomlingani noma emuva, umthinte ngemilenze noma uhambise;
- ukuhlelwa okuhlangene, lapho ozakwethu bengathatha isinyathelo ngezandla zabo.
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Ukuya ocansini endlini yokugezela
Indlu yokugezela ibhekwa njengendawo enhle yokulala ocansini. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi ibhuku likhulu futhi igumbi ngokwayo alixinyiwe. Ubulili obudume kakhulu bubeka endlini yokugezela:
- le ndoda ihlezi kwenye yezinhlangothi zokugezela, lo wesifazane uphezulu. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungagudli futhi uwele ekuthandeni;
- lona wesifazane ukhona kuzo zonke ezine endaweni yokugezela, indoda isemuva. Lesi sikhundla sibhekisela ekuthumeni okulula kwezocansi zangasese;
- ukhethe noma yikuphi ukuma futhi ulale ucansi phansi ngethawula elikhulu ukuze uphendule amanzi.
Ubulili buba buphelele
Kwabesilisa nabesifazane abanamafutha, akuzona zonke izifiso zobulili ezikhululekile futhi ezifanelekile. Ekuphileni, ukuba khona kweziqhwa ezinamafu namabele kungabhekwa njengento enhle, kodwa ngocansi, isisindo esiningi asihlali ngaso sonke isikhathi njengomsizi. Ubulili obukhulu kakhulu bufaka amadoda nabesifazane abagcwele:
- ivela kumgibeli. Indoda ilele ngemuva, owesifazane uhlezi phezu kwakhe;
- indoda engemuva. Owesifazane ngesikhathi esisodwa angama phezu kwazo zonke ezine noma aguqe futhi ancike ngokumelene nento ethile.
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Ubulili bubeka ilungu elincane
Uma lo mlingani engazange ahluke ngenani, khona-ke umuntu angasebenzisa enye yezinto ezizogcwalisa. Futhi, i-pose ekhululekile yilapho owesifazane elele emhlane wakhe, egoqa umlenze owodwa emadolweni bese ephakamisa, futhi indoda iphezulu.
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Ubulili bubeka amathuba amathathu
Lezo zibhangqwana ezithandwa yi-tries, njengomthetho, azihlupheki ngokuntuleka kwengqondo. Ngesithathu, ungasebenzisa cishe noma yikuphi ubulili, ubulili ngomlomo nangesilwane, kanye nokuzivumelanisa okuhlukahlukene nokudlala amathoyizi.