Kubhekwa njengento evamile ukuthi amadoda afuna ucansi ngokuphindaphindiwe kaningi kunabesifazane. Kodwa-ke, ngezinye izikhathi kunezimo lapho abameleli besigamu esiphezulu sabantu bengabonakali isithakazelo esikhethekile ebuhlotsheni obuseduze. Kungenzeka ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Kodwa-ke, ukwazi ukuthi yini eshukumisa indoda embhedeni, ungakwazi ukwandisa isithakazelo somlingani wakho kwezocansi.
Indlela yokugqugquzela indoda?
Indoda ijabule kakhulu kowesifazane, ngakho-ke kuvame ukuba nzima ukwenza indoda ibe nobulili. Kubalulekile ukukhombisa ukuhlakanipha okuncane, ubuqili besifazane kanye nokusebenzisa ulwazi lwe-psychology wesilisa, futhi umphumela omuhle uzonikezwa. Kuzo zonke lezi zingxenye kungathathwa iseluleko esinjalo ngesisusa socansi:
- Gqoka izingubo zangaphansi ezinhle. Amabhantshi angenakuqhathaniswa nokwelula izigqoko ezingaphansi kwamandla anganciphisa amadoda ekufisweni kobudlelwane obuseduze.
- Izambatho zasekhaya ngaphambi kocansi kumele zibe yinduna futhi zingashadile. Ngisho nesembatho sokugqoka ekhaya singadukisa uma silky, entsha futhi emfushane.
- Buka iphunga lakho. Ngaphambi kokuba ulale nomuntu, kufanele ugeze noma ugeze. Iphunga lokudla, ukujuluka noma ukungcola kunganciphisa isifiso sobulili isikhathi eside. Futhi, ngokuphambene nalokho, iphunga lokushisa nobumnandi, liyokwandisa isifiso.
- Bonisa le ndoda i-striptease. Ukudansa ukudlala ngezinyathelo zobulili nokugxila kuzolungisa lo msebenzi kumsebenzi osebenzayo.
- Yenza umuntu abe nokuzilibazisa okuphumuzayo, emva kwalokho kuyoba nzima ukuyeka ukuqhubeka.
- Izinkumbulo ezinhle kakhulu zobulili obuhle zizoba yisisusa esihle esikhathini esizayo. Umlingani womsebenzi nesifiso sakhe sokulala ocansini kufana nabo bonke abantu.
- Ukugqugquzelwa komuntu olele embhedeni ngokusebenzisa udumo kubuye kusize ukwandisa isifiso sobudlelwane obuseduze. Bonisa lo muntu ukuthi ungumlingani omuhle wezocansi ozithandayo
izenzo zakhe. Ngitshele ukuthi yini oyithandayo nokuthi ungakuzwa kanjani. Udumo luyisikhuthazo esihle kumuntu, ngakho uzokujabulela ukukhombisa amakhono akhe ngaphezu kwesisodwa. - Umlingani udinga ukufunda indlela yokuziphatha kahle embhedeni nangokwengqondo, ukuze angamcindezeli lo muntu. Awukwazi ukulala embhedeni ezintweni ezinjalo: thola ubudlelwane , ukugxeka, ukuphikisana, ukukhala, ukukhononda, ukubonisa ukunganeliseki. Izikhathi ezithandanayo kufanele zibe nemibala ngenjabulo nobudlelwane obuseduze. Konke okunye kungatholakala ngesikhathi esisodwa.