Uhlangothi lwezobuchwepheshe bombuzo, ukuthi umuntu angalahlekelwa kanjani ubulili, ukungabaza, umuntu kufanele acabange, angabangeli muntu, kodwa kukhona ukwesaba okukhulu okuhambisana nenqubo. Lokhu ukwesaba ubuhlungu, nokwesaba ngokungazi kahle kwakhe, nokuningi okuningi. Ngokwesibonelo, abaningi banamahloni ngokuthi banqatshelwe ubuntombi babo, okuthiwa sekwephuzile kakhulu. Lokhu kungenye yezobandlululo ezingenangqondo - lapho uqala ukuphila kwabo ngokobulili kuyindaba eyimfihlo kubo bonke abantu, futhi umbono womphakathi awuhlangene nalokhu.
Kungcono kanjani ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi bakho?
Okokuqala, sizobona lokho okuvame ukushiwo ngumbuzo wokuthi kungcono kanjani ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi. Ngokusobala, asikhulumi ngaphandle kwenkinga, imvelo yothando kanye nezinye izici, ezifana namagalelo ama-rose namakhandlela. Mhlawumbe, kuqondwa ukuthi ungalahlekelwa kanjani ubulili ngokushesha futhi ngaphandle kobuhlungu negazi. Nakuba isivinini asikwazi ukubikezelwa, akusikho konke lokhu okwenzeka ngemuva kokuxhumana kocansi bokuqala. Kodwa kusukela ebuhlungu, okungenani, kusukela oqinile, ungasindisa.
Ngakho-ke, into yokuqala okumele uyenze ukuyeka ukuzihlupha ngokucatshangelwa ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi futhi ungesabi, ngoba, okokuqala, akuwona wonke amantombazane abazwa ubuhlungu (ngendlela, ukuphuma kwegazi, futhi akuwona wonke umuntu) noma noma yikuphi ukukhathazeka esithombeni sokuqala. Futhi, okwesibili, ukwesaba ngalokhu, ukulindela ubuhlungu kuyokwenza izinto zibe zimbi nakakhulu. Ngenxa yokwesaba okuqhubekayo, okuyinto ecasulwa ukulindelwa ubuhlungu obunzima, imisipha yesimiso sesiswini, okwenza ubuhlungu obulindelekile bube khona ngempela. Ngakho-ke, ukugwema ubuhlungu, udinga ukuziphazamisa ukucabanga ngakho, bese uzama ukuphumula ngangokunokwenzeka. Lokhu kufanele kusize umlingani, umsebenzi wakhe ukuphumula futhi ujabule intombazane. Ngoba uma uhambele emkhathini, kukhishwa i-lubricant, okuzosiza ekunciphiseni ubuhlungu noma ukugwema ngokuphelele. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi, godu, ngenxa yokwesaba okuhlukahlukene, akukho lubisi olwanele, kulokhu kungashintshwa ngekhethi elikhethekile elingathengwa ekhemisi, esitolo esiseduze noma ehlelwe ku-intanethi. Uma kunjalo, ngokwemvelo, izidumbu zesisu ekungeneni ziyanciphisa, ungazikhulula, uzama ukuphefumulela ngokujulile, ngesisu sakho sonke. Uma kwenzeka ubuhlungu, kufanelekile ukubuyela emuva kumlingani bese uxoxisana naye ngakho, mhlawumbe uyashesha kakhulu, futhi udinga ama-caresses amaningi futhi kufanele ahambe kancane kancane. Nakuba kukhona enye inketho - umlingani kufanele angene ngokuqinile, ukuze intombazane ingenaso isikhathi sokwesaba, futhi ifinyelele izicubu zesisu. Kunoma yikuphi, uma kukhona okungalungile, kungcono ukuyeka nokukhuluma. Uma, kungakapheli inyanga yemizamo ejwayelekile, akukho lutho olwenzekile, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukuphendukela kumgogeni wezinzwa, mhlawumbe i-hymen inkulu kakhulu, bese kuthi ukukhishwa kwayo kudingeke.
Ungesabi kanjani ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi bakho?
Njengoba kwenzeka, ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi bakho ngaphandle kobuhlungu, akudingeki ukwesabe, kepha yini okufanele uyenze ukuze unqabe ukuzwa ukwesaba ngakho? Okokuqala, khumbula ukuthi konke kudlulela kulokhu, ngakho-ke, kuyisiwula ukwesaba inqubo uqobo. Futhi-ke, udinga ukucabanga ngokuphepha. Ungakwazi kanjani ukuphumula uma ucabanga ngezinto ezingaphandle? Ngakho-ke, udinga ukucabangela ukuthi ungalahlekelwa kanjani ubuntombi bakho ngokuphepha impilo yakho siqu. Empeleni, konke kulula - ungakhohlwa ukuzivikela, futhi okokuqala kungcono
Futhi-ke, emva kokulahlekelwa ubuntombi bakhe, kudingeka uqonde ukuthi konke kulungile, ngakho emva kwesikhashana udinga ukuvakashela umjozi wezifo. Ngemuva kobulili bokuqala, umjikelezo wokuya esikhathini ngokuvamile ushintsha, kuba mfushane, futhi ukubambezeleka okungaphezulu kweviki nakho kungenzeka.