Amadoda kaningi ayenenkinga yokuthola injabulo phakathi kocansi, kodwa kukhona izimfihlo ezizosiza intombazane ukuba izwele ngokuzwakalayo.
Indlela yokuletha umuntu ukuba ajabule?
Naphezu kokuthi amalungu amaningi ezocansi aqinile agxilisa izinzwa zabo ezithombeni zobulili, kunenqwaba yezindawo ezingenangqondo emzimbeni wabo, ukugqugquzela okuvumela ukuthi ube nemibono eminingi emisha futhi ecacile. Ukuletha umfana ukugcoba kungenzeka ngensiza yokusikhipha, njengoba kuzokwazi ukuthinta izingqikithi ezihamba phambili. Phakathi ne-caresses, qaphela izingxenye ezinjalo zomzimba: ikhanda, ubuso, intamo, isifuba kanye ngaphakathi kwemilenze nezandla.
Njengoba izindawo eziningi ezibucayi zisezindaweni zezitho eziseduze, ukugqugquzela kwabo kumele kunikezwe ukunakwa okukhethekile. Ukwenza umuntu ajabule angakwazi futhi ngezandla, ngoba kwanele ukwazi izici zomthelela. Ukufakela ngesandla kungenziwa nganoma isiphi isandla, kodwa kungcono uma kusebenza, okungukuthi, lowo wesifazane obhala. Kubalulekile ukukhetha ukuma okulungile ukuze ukwazi ukulawula ukusabela komuntu, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo kwakungcono. Ungahlala phezulu noma ucele umuntu ukuba asakaze imilenze yakhe ahlale phakathi kwabo. Enye indlela yilelo ohlangothini noma "indawo" yesibalo, lapho ozakwethu behlangothini lwabo futhi intombazane isemva.
Indlela yokuletha indoda ukuba ijabule embhedeni:
- Sebenzisa i-grease eyengeziwe ukuze uqinisekise ukushelela okulula. Ngalokhu , i-gel-lubricant ifanelekile.
- Kubalulekile ukwenza ukunyakaza okucacile nokuzethemba ngezandla zakho, kodwa khumbula ukuthi ukukhwabanisa akulungile lapha, ngoba kuyoba buhlungu kumuntu.
- Hambisa phezulu futhi phansi ngokuqina okuhlukile, bese ushesha, bese wehlisa phansi. Ungacindezela, ungakhohlwa ukucindezela ikhanda.
- Ukwandisa izinzwa, ungakhohlwa ukugqugquzela ama-scrotum, ama-testicles kanye nendawo eduze kwe-anus.