Ngokwemvelo kukholelwa ukuthi ubulili obuyisiliphu luphupho cishe wonke amalunga avuthiwe ngokocansi, kodwa abesifazane abaningi bayavuma ukuthi "Ngifuna ukuzama ukulala ngokocansi," kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi bavinjelwa yizo zonke izinhlobo zesaba. Futhi isikhundla esiphambili phakathi kwabo ukwesaba ukuthi kuyoba buhlungu ukuba nobulili obufanayo, futhi-ke, inkinga yokuphepha impilo yezinjabulo ezijabulisayo zalolu hlobo nayo ibalulekile. Asikwazi ukusho ukuthi konke lokhu ukwesaba kwakungenangqondo, kepha ngendlela efanele, ingozi ingancishiswa. Indlela yokukwenza, manje futhi siyaqonda.
Ukuzibandakanya ngokobulili obudala kuyingozi?
Kunezixwayiso eziningi ngokuphathelene nenduduzo yalolu hlobo, abanye abacwaningi bathi ngisho nobulili obudala buyandisa ingozi yomdlavuza we-rectum. Ngokuqinisekile, uma uhlanganyela ocansini olunjalo olungokwemvelo kunengozi ethile, kodwa imiphumela engavamile kakhulu ingagwenywa uma ulandela imithetho yokuphepha.
Ngaki kaningi ungaba nobulili obufanayo?
Inkolelo yokuthi ungakwazi ukuhlanganyela ocansini obudala, kungakanani okufunayo, akulungile. Ngokuvuselelwa okuvamile kwalesi sigaba, i-sphincter igxila kancane kancane, ilahlekelwe ikhono lokwenza imisebenzi yayo, okungukuthi, ukugcina izidleke kanye negesi. Ngakho-ke, zonke izinsuku ukuzithokozisa wena nomlingani onale hlobo lobulili akufanele. Kodwa ukwaba usuku olulodwa ngenyanga "ukungena ngemuva" kuyoba ukugwema ngokweqile.
Ungakhulelwa ungaba nobulili obufana na?
Ezimweni eziningi, ubulili obuyilungu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa abuvunyelwe, yingakho:
- ingozi yokufaka i-microflora ye-pathogenic emgodini iphezulu kakhulu, eyingozi kakhulu ekukhulelwe, unganciphisa ingozi ngekhondomu;
- isikhumba esizungezile i-anus phakathi nalesi sikhathi sibe mncane kakhulu, okwandisa ingozi yokuphuma kwegazi;
- ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ama-hemorrhoids angase avele, futhi ubulili obudala buzoholela ekuvukeni kwabo, ukunciphisa lokhu kungenzeka ukuthi kudingeke ukuthi basebenzise izithako.
Isizathu esisodwa sokuba nesandulela ngculazi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kunciphisa amathuba okuzwa ubuhlungu ngenxa yokwehliswa kangcono kwezicubu.
Intombazane inezocansi ezingasese?
Ngokuvamile, abesifazane bayavuma ukuxilonga ngokocansi ngokubambisana nomlingani wabo, futhi bona ababheki lutho ngalolu hlelo. Ngesimo sengqondo esinjalo sokuthi "ukuzidela" kungokwemvelo ukukhuluma ngokungathokozi futhi akukho mbuzo. Ngakho-ke, uma ngesizathu esithile lolu hlobo lobulili alwamukeleki kuwe, khona-ke akufanele uvumelane nalo. Futhi kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala kubaluleke kakhulu, uma kungaphumeleli, ngakho-ke kunzima kakhulu (futhi kungenakwenzeka) ukuba owesifazane ajabulele inqubo. Ukuvimbela lokhu ukuthi kungenzeki, lo muntu oxhumana naye wokuqala kufanele aqaphele kakhulu futhi aqaphele, kahle, amaphuzu alandelayo akufanele akhohlwe.
- Ekuboneni kokuqala, umbuzo wokuthi ungakwenza kanjani ubulili bokuqala, ubukeka sengathi uyinhle, yikuphi ukuhlakanipha okungaba khona? Kodwa konke akulula kakhulu, ukuvuleka okuvulekile kokujabulisa okuthakazelisayo akuhlosiwe, ngakho-ke ngaphandle kokulungiselela kahle ungathola imiphumela eminingi engathandeki. Umbuzo we-caresses wokuqala, kulokhu ukubaluleka kwawo akukwazi ukuphikiswa. Ngaphandle kwe-prelude ngeke kube nokuphumula, futhi ngaphandle kwalo ngeke kube khona ucansi.
- Uma kunesithakazelo esanele, ukufakwa kwe-clitoris noma umthamo omncane wotshwala kungasiza.
- Uma ukwesaba ukuthi ubulili obudala buzolimaza, ungavumeli ukuhamba, khona-ke ungazama ukuthuthukisa imbobo kusengaphambili. Kule njongo kukhona ama-plugs akhethekile akhethiwe.
- Uma wenza ubulili obudala, ukusetshenziswa kwe-lubricant kanye nekhondomu kuyadingeka. Futhi, musa ukushintsha ubulili obudala kanye nobulili ngaphandle kokushintsha ikhondomu noma ukuya eshaweni - i-microflora yalezi zindawo ezimbili ayikwazi ukuxubaniswa.
- Ngaphambi kokuba uhlele ebhizinisini, hlela nomngane wakho ozakwethu, uma kwenzeka ebuhlungu.
- Izinzwa ezibuhlungu zingahlotshaniswa nokuya esikhathini, ngakho-ke kule nkathi
kungcono ukuthi ungahle uhlele ukuhlolwa. - Ngaphambi kokuba ube nobulili obufanayo kufanele uvakashele indlu yangasese, yebo, ungenza futhi i-enema, kodwa lokhu kungowokuqala kuphela. Ukuthakazelisa ngezinqubo zokuhlanza zomzimba akusizi nakanjani.
- Awukwazi ukuzama ucansi olulandelayo uma kuqubuka noma ukuvuvukala kule ndawo.
Ubulili obuhlaziyilayo bungaba isiqinisekiso sokuthi uzwela nokuthembela kwabalingani bakho, ukuletha izinzwa ezihlukahlukene futhi ezimnandi ekuphileni obuseduze. Kodwa kunoma yikuphi, yenza noma cha, unquma kuphela, futhi noma yiziphi izinqumo zakho zizobe zilungile.