Abesifazane bahlukaniswe yibo abakhetha ukulinda baze behlulwe, nalabo abahamba ngokuhlasela kwabo ngokwabo. Kodwa ukuze anqobe intombazane, kumele aqale amcasule ummeleli wesilisa, okungukuthi, athole iphutha lakhe.
Bathi indlela eya enhliziyweni yomuntu ilele esiswini sakhe. Sizozama ukubhala ngezindlela ezimbalwa, uma kungenjalo engangeni ekhishini lakho.
Ubuqotho
Ukuzijwayeza nommeleli wobulili obuhlukile, noma yikuphi owesifazane ofuna ukumthanda, afinyelele enhliziyweni yomuntu, ngisho noma lo muntu othize engathandi kuye. Lokhu - ukuncintisana kwezilwane, okusho ukuthi kunesidingo, uma nje sikhona, okungukuthi.
Kodwa ngokungahambi kahle kwezimo ezithandekayo, cishe kwenzeka ukuthi ukhona ngosuku lokuqala, ungathandi futhi ungazami ukujabulisa: usho konke okucabangayo ngaphandle kokucwaninga, uziphatha ngokukhululekile futhi ungavinjelwe. Ekugcineni, ngaphandle kokukufunayo, uthole ukhiye enhliziyweni yanoma yimuphi umuntu - ubuqotho , futhi ngokubuyisela, ube neyakho, enqotshwe, eboshelwe futhi kuze kube phakade kuphela yindoda yakho.
Amadoda nawo angabantu, futhi abantu abawuthandi uma bezama ukuzungeza umunwe, ngisho noma benza ngokuhlakanipha kakhulu. Ngakho, okokuqala, qotho.
Amandla wabesifazane
Amadoda aqinile ngokomzimba, futhi abesifazane banamandla ngokwengqondo. Umoya wethu ungamandla ethu, futhi singabonisa umoya wethu omuhle ngaphandle kokukhuluma ngakho konke kusihlwa (ukuxoxa kwabafazi, bheka ngezansi). Vumela inhliziyo yomuntu ikubeke ukumomotheka okukhulu okuzoqinisekisa ukuthi ungumuntu oqondile, olinganiselayo futhi onethemba.
Qaphela: amadoda, eqinisweni, bathande abesifazane ekusithekeni, kodwa ngobuhlobo obude bakhetha abalingani abazinzile, ababikezelayo.
Ubuthakathaka besifazane
Yebo, sithanda ukuxoxa nentombi (izintombi) efonini futhi singakwenza lokhu amahora nezinsuku ekupheleni. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi ungumkhulumeli okhulunywe kahle, ukuthi into yokuqala okumele iboniswe lapho uthola indoda kumakhono akho okubhala.
Amadoda, iningi lawo, wona ngokwabo angabhokisi lokuxoxa. Futhi njengoba unesithakazelo sokubuza ukuthi ungabamba kanjani inhliziyo yomuntu, lungela ukuthi uzodinga amakhono amomothekayo nokulalela.
Ungakhohlwa ukuhamba ngezinyathelo zokwenza: ngaphandle kokusheshisa, thola ukuthi ubani osebenzisana naye - ngebhokisi lezingxoxo noma ngokuthula. Ngebhokisi lokuxoxa, yiqiniso, lalela, kodwa ngokuthula - tshela.
Qaphela: Amadoda ngokwawo avuma ukuthi owesifazane kufanele aziqonde kahle futhi abathande kancane. Igama elithi "ukuqonda" lisho ukuthi uyakwazi ukulalela ngokucophelela.
Uyavuma noma uphikisana?
Ukuqhubeka nesihloko sezingxoxo namadoda, futhi futhi, singakhohlwa indlela yokunqoba inhliziyo yomuntu, sizokwazi ukulalela nokukhuluma.
Yiqiniso, ngezikhathi ezithile futhi ngesibindi udinga ukunikeza izimpawu zokuphila. Iningi labesifazane liletha ekupheleleni okunjalo ikhono lokulalela konke "abakushoyo" - amagama nemisho yemvume - "yebo", "Yebo," "ngokuqinisekile," futhi omude kakhulu "uyavumelana nawe ngokuphelele."
Kodwa umsebenzi wethu ukukhombisa ukuthi ungumuntu ogcwele, onomuntu ngamunye
Amadoda angafuni ukuvunyelwana nabo. Bafuna umbono wabo ukuba wabelane, noma ukuphikisana ngokugcwele, kunselele. Ingxoxo encane (ngaphandle kokushisa nokufutheka) kuyoba usizo kakhulu ukuqala ingxoxo . Lokhu, okungenani, kuzobonisa ukuthi izinga lakho lobuhlakani likuvumela ukuba ube nolwazi oluthile.
Kodwa ngezindlela eziningi, emva kwakho konke, kunconywa ukuhlukanisa iphuzu lesilisa lombono. Indoda ifuna ukuzizwa "ikhanda" ngisho nangosuku lokuqala, ngakho-ke, umbono wakhe kufanele ubekwe ngaphezu kweyakho, ngamanye amazwi, kufanele abe ngaphezulu, noma okungenani acabange ukuthi unamandla kakhulu.