Uma ukholelwa ukuthi wonke owesifazane unento ethile kumdlali we-actress, ukulingiswa kwe-orgasm kungenye yezindima ezivame kakhulu ohlelweni lokuqala. Ake sibone ukuthi kungani abesifazane besilingisa i-orgasm, nokuthi kufanele bafanise kanjani injabulo, uma isimo sombhede ngesizathu esithile singahlangabezane nezilindelo zakho.
Kungani abesifazane bezenza sengathi bafana ne-orgasm?
Ayikho impendulo engacacile kulo mbuzo, ngoba izizathu ezenza abesifazane balingise i-orgasm zikhulu kakhulu, futhi ngokuvamile zivamile:
- kusukela kulokho konke kuphelele: futhi kusihlwa kwakunothando, futhi lo muntu uziphatha kahle, futhi ukushaywa komzimba kuhlanzekile, futhi ukuhlanza kusezingeni ... Kodwa ngesizathu esithile awukwazi ukuphumula nganoma iyiphi indlela. Ukukhathele emsebenzini, ikhanda ngempela (!) Uzwakala ubuhlungu noma limatasa ngezinkinga ezilukhuni. Awufuni ukucasula othandekayo wakho, ngakho-ke unquma ukudlala kanye naye;
- uyaqonda ukuthi namuhla ngeke ube nesikhathi somthandi wakho, tk. ukuphuma kwakhe sekuzokwenzeka, futhi kwakho - okungenani imizuzu eminye emihlanu. Kodwa yena, ompofu, uzama kanzima ... Futhi unquma ukukopela ukuze ungalimazi isithombe esiphezulu sokuhle, ngokujwayelekile, ucansi;
- kwafika kobulili bokuqala, futhi le ndoda ikwazi ukukudumaza kakhulu kangangokuthi unqume: lesi "senzo" sizoba yinto yokugcina ebuhlotsheni bakho. Umlingani, njengoba inhlanhla ingayithola, isethelwe i-marathon ende. Uma ungeke umnike ithuba lesibili, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ungalindeli ukumisa lothandekayo, ukulingisa okunembile kwe-orgasm kungaba yindindiso yangempela;
- abesifazane abaningi balingisa i-orgasm ngenxa yokwesaba ukulahlekelwa ngumthandi wabo. Kulesi simo, ukufaniswa kwe-orgasm kungaba yindilinga enonya.
Kulungile ukulingisa i-orgasm?
Ngakho, ukuze uqonde ukuthi kungcono kanjani ukulinganisa i-orgasm, ake sithole izici zayo eziyinhloko. Qaphela ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi zihlangene ngokukhethekile, ngakho-ke khetha izintambo eziwuphawu lwesimo sakho.
- Njengomthetho, ukukhubazeka ngokocansi kulandelwa ukuphefumula okusheshayo. Ukuphefumula ngomlomo wakho - kungcono kakhulu futhi kungaholela ekuthakeleni kwakho (futhi lapho, lokho esihogweni akusiyikuhleka, futhi i-orgasm eqhubekayo).
- Abanye besifazane kudingeka baqonde ngokugcwele imizwa yabo, kuyilapho befisa futhi, ngokufanayo, ukuphefumula kwabo kungatholakala kuphela ngosizo lwesibuko. Uma kunjalo, ukuzamazama okuncane emzimbeni kuyoba okuqinisekisayo. Ungaphinda ujike ikhanda lakho, cindezela emaphethelweni eshidi esandleni sakho, ugobe futhi uzinze ekungezwani.
- Ukunyakaza okusheshayo kwezinyathelo, ukububula okukhulu, ukukhahlela emuva - emasikweni aphezulu ama-movie e-Hollywood. Lesi senzo sifanele abesifazane abathandekayo, futhi uma kuchazwa ukuthi kuqhubekile konke ukulala ngokocansi, ngaphambi kokuba ukuphela kungenezela nje ivolumu.
- Ukuze uthole ukulinganisa okuzwakalayo kwe-orgasm, cela umlingani nganoma yisiphi isenzo. Imishwana efanelekayo: "ungayeki, sicela," "faka isifuba sami," "ngishaye", njll. Amantombazane angamahloni amaningi azovela nento efana nesineke "kahle ..., vuka."
- Ukubukeka okubuhlungu nokuqhekeka okubukhali kwemisipha yesifazane - ukugcina kokulingisa i-orgasm. Emadodeni amaningi wokugcina afunde kahle, ngakho-ke qiniseka ukuthi ucindezela ipeni lakhe ngaphakathi ngaphezu kokusebenza kwangaphambilini.
Inombolo eyinhloko yeluleki 1: uma umuntu esivele ebona le orgasm, ukulingiswa okungcono kakhulu kuyoba "ukuphindaphinda kwezinto ezidlulile."
Inombolo enkulu yeBhodi 2: ungadlali umdlalo uma umuntu olala naye embhedeni enza izinto ezingathandeki. Uma intombazane ilingisa i-orgasm, kufanele iqaphele ukuthi ngaleyo ndlela ikhuthaza izenzo zomlingani, futhi ngesikhathi esizayo kufanele ilinde ukuphindaphinda kwesimo esingathandeki.
Kodwa sisaqiniseka ukuthi le mibhandlela izohlala ingavunyelwe ngenxa ye-orgasms yangempela!