Ucwaningo lwesayensi yezocansi zesifazane luveza ukuthi kuze kube yimanje, abesifazane abaningi abanelisekile. Amaqiniso abonisa ukuthi lezi zimo zivame kakhulu emkhayeni womndeni. Kuyamangalisa, ngoba abesifazane bangase bathole injabulo eyengeziwe kunamadoda (ubude be-orgasm kuze kufike kumasekhondi angu-12, ikhono lokuthola ama-orgasms amaningana, njengoba nje amadoda anayo futhi ahlala imizuzwana eyodwa nengxenye). Ngaphezu kwalokho, abesifazane bayakujabulela ukukhanyela intamo nesifuba, kanti futhi eminyakeni engu-50 bekhungethwe ubulili obuqinile. Kodwa kungani bengazizwa bejabule ngempela? Futhi abesifazane abazicabangela ngokwabo banelisekile, baphikisa ukuthi injabulo yobulili ayifinyelele kubo ngokushesha. Kunezizathu ezihlukahlukene zalesi simo.
Psychology of Life Sexual
Omunye akayithandi isimo sezimali somndeni, ngenxa yezingxabano nezinkinga zomkhaya baye balahlekelwa isifiso somlingani . Abanye bakhononda mayelana nokuwohloka kwempilo, impilo embi nokucindezeleka okuhlobene nokunganeliseki embhedeni. Abanye abazizwa benesisindo nhlobo, futhi ukusondelana kwabo akujabulisi.
Kukhona abesifazane abathinteka kakhulu kumuntu, kodwa abathokozi ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi. Bona, ngisho nomlingani omuhle, abakwazi ukufinyelela i-orgasm . Okuningi mayelana nabo, sizoxoxa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Futhi kunabesifazane abakwazi ukuphumula nokuzijabulisa, ingqondo yokuziphatha ngokocansi ifakwe kubo, kodwa ubuhlobo nomuntu othize abuvumeli bobabili ukuba bajabulele ngokugcwele ubulili obuhlangene. Kunezindlela ezimbili eziphuma - noma ngokungafani ukuhlukanisa impilo yakho yocansi, ngokungezelelwe ezithakazelisayo, ukwandisa ubulili bakho noma uthole ubulili eceleni. Lokhu kunelulekwa yizengqondo, wonke umuntu unelungelo lokuzikhethela.
Futhi-ke, mayelana nezizathu zokungabi nethuba lokujabulela ukusondelana nomuntu othandekayo wakho, kunokuba uzizwe unecala futhi unamahloni ngokwengqondo yakho. Lesi simo, ikakhulukazi esingenalutho.
Uphi ihloni lokuzizwa kwemvelo?
Mhlawumbe lokhu kuyisimo sengqondo sabesifazane, ubudlova bobulili, okuhlangenwe nakho okunzima kabi. Kodwa ikakhulukazi kusukela ebuntwaneni, futhi igonywe abazali. Zakhiwa ebuntwaneni, ngenxa yokujeziswa kanye nokuvinjelwa kwabazali abahambisana nokushaya indlwabu kanye nemidlalo yokudinga. Iningi lalaba besifazane abasebenzisa izazi ze-psychotherapists ngenxa yokungabi nokuthokozisa ngokocansi, lapho beneminyaka engama-5 kuya kweyishumi bajeziswa ngenxa yezinhlanzi ezinjalo ezinganeni. Lokhu kwaphazamisa ekuthuthukiseni umuzwa oqinile wehlazo nokuzizwa unecala. Lapho amantombazane ekhula futhi aphendukela abe besifazane, manje asebenzisanga ngokobulili, kaningi - enqaba ngisho nokucabanga. Bonke ukuphila kwabo bacabanga ukuthi "kubi", thinta izitho zabo zobulili, futhi bayeke ukuzithinta. Kulandela ukuthi ukuzwela kwabo kunciphisa.
Ungayilahla lokhu ngosizo lwesazi sengqondo, kodwa kuthatha imihlangano eminingana.
Kodwa ngisho nalokhu isayensi yezocansi yowesifazane ihluke kakhulu kwengqondo yezocansi yamadoda: isimo esibucayi ku