Ngeshwa, namuhla akuyona nje intsha kuphela, kodwa futhi intsha ayifuni nje kuphela ukwazi konke mayelana nobulili, kodwa futhi ukuzama okuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu. Lokhu kuholela ekukhulelwe kokuqala , ukubeletha, ukukhipha isisu, izingane ezilahliwe kanye nokuphila okuphukile.
Yiqiniso, indlela engcono kakhulu yokuphuma kulokhu kuzoba ukuqwashisa kwabantu abasha ukuthi ubulili yilokho okumele kube khona umshado. Ngemuva kokuthi uqale ngokuqaphela indlela yokuphila komndeni, ungalala ucansi futhi uhlele ukukhulelwa kwakho.
Intsha eningi icabanga ukuthi ubulili bokuqala kufanele bungekho ikhondomu futhi ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukuba kufane nomunye umuntu. Kodwa ngalokhu ngeke ube njengomunye umuntu. Uvele ubhubhise impilo yakho futhi kuyoba nzima kakhulu ukwakha ubudlelwane bangempela, obuphilayo obuyobe busekelwe ebuhlotsheni, ekuthembekeni nasothandweni oluqotho.
Kodwa ngisho nasembusweni oshadile, ukungaqondani kuvame ukuphakama ngenxa yemibono ehlukene ekuvikeleni. Phela, ukulala ngaphandle kwekhondomu kungcono, futhi lokhu, ngokweminingi, kungabangela imiphumela engathandeki.
Ubulili obuphephile ngaphandle kwekhondomu
Kuze kube manje, kunezindlela eziningi zokuvimbela ukukhulelwa . Bakhethiwe, banikezwe iminyaka nobujamo bezempilo. Izindlela zokubeletha zocansi ngaphandle kwekhondomu kufanele zihlangabezane nalezi zidingo ezilandelayo:
- ukuvikela kusuka ekukhulelwe;
- kubangele umonakalo omkhulu emzimbeni.
Izindlela ezilula kakhulu futhi ezishibhile yikhondomu. Kodwa, njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, akuwona wonke umuntu owuthandayo futhi abambalwa bayakwazi ukulala ocansini ngaphandle kwekhondomu.
Phakathi kwezindlela zokuvimbela, ukusetshenziswa kwamapayipi, ama-diaphragms kanye ne-spermicides kuyahluka: amakhandlela nama-gel. Noma iyiphi yalezi zinzalo zokubeletha ifakwe ngaphakathi kwesifazane ngaphambi kocansi. Kodwa kuyadingeka ukuthi uxoxe nomjozi wezifo ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani kahle.
Enye indlela evamile ukusetshenziswa kwamaphilisi okulawula ukuzalwa kwe-hormonal. Iphethe izici ezithile kanye nezimo eziphazamisayo. Amathebulethi kufanele adakwe nsuku zonke ngesikhathi esithile. Uma uphuza iphilisi elingalungile ngeke liholele ekukhulelweni kuphela, kodwa futhi kuholele ekuphukeni komzimba. Kodwa, kunoma yikuphi, izidakamizwa ze-hormonal zilimaza isibindi nezinso, naphezu kwezincane. Amaphilisi okukhulelwa awanconywa kwabesifazane abanemivilini ye-varicose, isifo sezinso, isibindi, ama-bile, ama-blood coagulability aphansi, njll. Ngokuvamile, ngaphambi kokuthatha noma yimiphi imithi, thintana nodokotela wakho.
Enye indlela, ukuthi ungalala kanjani ngaphandle kwekhondomu, ubulili obuphazanyiswayo. Abanye bathi lena yindlela engathembeki kakhulu, kuyilapho abanye beqiniseka ukuthi kusebenza kahle. Kodwa, sincoma le ndlela kulabo abashadile abangasheshe bahambe nezingane, kodwa futhi ngeke baqonde uma bevela.
Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi isikhathi esihle kakhulu sokulala ngaphandle kwekhondomu yisikhathi noma ngemuva kokuya esikhathini. Kodwa lokhu okukhethwa kukho akuwona wonke umuntu ongathanda. Ungakwazi ukubala ngekhalenda lapho phakathi komjikelezo kuyoba khona futhi phakathi nalesi sikhathi noma ukugwema noma ukuvikelwa.
Ezimweni ezihlukile, kunendlela eyodwa kuphela eyamukelekayo - idivayisi ye-intrauterine. Isibonelo, uma owesifazane enesifo sengqondo sokuphuza i-latex, okuvela kuyo amakhondomu. Kodwa kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi i-spiral inemiphumela emibi eminingi.
Kodwa, uma kwenzeke ukuthi emva komhlangano ovunguzayo olala ocansini ngaphandle kwekhondomu, futhi ungacabangi ukukhulelwa, ungacela usizo kudokotela oyokukwazisa amaphilisi akhethekile ongayithatha ezinsukwini ezimbalwa emva kocansi.
Futhi sizophinde sikhumbule. Kungcono ukuba nobulili uma uqiniseka kumlingani wakho futhi ungene emshadweni womthetho naye.