Noma yimuphi intombazane ufuna ukukhokhelwa amadoda. Futhi ikakhulukazi labo abathanda ngempela. Isibonelo, njengomfana osemusha ohlangane naye, noma ufuna ukuheha umuntu osebenza naye. Uthando lubonakala ngokuzumayo, futhi ngezinye izikhathi amantombazane enza amaphutha amaningi ekuqaleni, uma kubalulekile ngandlela-thile ukubonisa into yokuzwela intshisekelo yabo. Ngakho-ke, uma uthanda indoda, udinga ukwazi ukuthi ungamthinta kanjani.
Indlela yokuheha abantu?
Ukuze singabanjwa futhi sihlale emicabangweni yomuntu isikhathi eside, sinikeza amanye amathiphu:
- Ukubukeka . Yiqiniso, lokhu kungase kuzwakale, kodwa phambi kwendoda oyithandayo nabangani bakhe, udinga ukubheka okungenakuvinjelwa. Gcizelela wonke amandla akho. Emva kwakho konke, okokuqala kufanele akubone, bese uqala ukutadisha futhi uthandane nezwe langaphakathi. Ukugcoba umzimba , ukwakheka kwemvelo, izinwele, izingubo - konke kufanele kube kuhle futhi kukhangele.
- Izicelo zosizo . Wonke umuntu kufanele azizwe ekhulu futhi enamandla, futhi abe nomuzwa wokuthi uyadinga. Ngakho ungabi namahloni ngokucela usizo. Ngisho encane kakhulu. Hambisa iqembu lamadokhumenti noma izincwadi, hlala iwashi futhi ubambelele endlini, ngoba kumnyama futhi kuyesabeka emgwaqeni.
- Dumisani . Noma ubani othanda ukudunyiswa. Ngakho-ke, futhi lokhu akufanele kunganakwa, ngisho nokukhipha induku futhi. Ngethuba elihle, umuntu kufanele adumise ulwazi lwakhe namakhono. Futhi ngisho nendoda engatholakali kakhulu izokulalela.
- Ukungazinaki kalula kungasiza futhi, kodwa udinga ukwenza lokhu uma usuvele usho ngokucacile. Isibonelo, ukuxhumana namanye amadoda, ukuhleka amahlaya abo. Lokhu kuzobangela ukuncintisana, futhi amadoda akhetha ukufuna abesifazane babo, ngakho-ke inzalo kuwe izokhuphuka.
- Ubulili . Kudingekile ukuqondisa konke ukuziphatha kwakho kobulili entweni yokuzwelana. Kodwa lokhu akufanele kuboniswe ezembatho noma ekwenzeni, kuphela ekuziphatheni. Glitter emehlweni, kulula ukudlala ngothando nokumamatheka okukhangayo. Esikhathini iseluleko somqondo wezokwelapha mayelana nendlela yokuheha abantu, ukumomotheka kufanele kube okuqotho, futhi umfana uzobamba imvamisa yakho.
Amantombazane amaningi asevele asetshenziswe ngendlela yokuheha umuntu oyithandayo. Kodwa abanye akudingeki bayeke, ngoba abanokuhlangenwe nakho nokusebenza konke kuzofika. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuzihlakulela, ukuphila impilo ethakazelisayo futhi ujabulele wonke umzuzu, khona-ke abantu abalungile bazofika empilweni yakho.