Ukukhangwa kobulili obuhlukile kubonakala kithi ngokwemvelo ngokwayo. Ukulwa nemvelo kanye nezifiso zobuntu bobulili akusizi ngalutho ngokuphelele, futhi impilo ayiwusizo.
Kungani kwenzekani okwenzekayo: sihlangana nommeli ohlukile wobulili obuhlukile, siyakubonga umlingiswa wakhe, izenzo zakhe, sibhekane nokukhangwa, kodwa emva kokubambisana okuhambisana nalomuntu, intshiseko yethu endaweni ethile ilahleka ngokukhohlisa. Yini okufanele uyenze, ngubani okufanele abekwe icala, ngoba kwakungekho isizathu esikhethekile sokuhlukanisa. Lapha ngemuva kwayo yonke inhlanhla. Kuvela, kungukuthi ukuhambisana kocansi kwabantu. Kulokhu, ekungahambisani ngokocansi ...
Indoda nowesifazane
Ukuhambisana kocansi kwendoda nowesifazane kuncike ekubonakalweni komuntu ebusweni obuseduze, kusukela ekuziphatheni kobulili kwabalingani. Ukufutheka ngokocansi, yebo, okuhlukile. Kodwa isici esiyinhloko sokuhambisana kocansi ukuthi ukuthi ubulili besilisa nabesifazane bubonakala ngezindlela ezahlukene.
Kuyini ubulili? Ukuziphatha ngokobulili, okokuqala, kuyisici sokuziphatha, ubukhona obenza umuntu abukeke, abelethe imicabango mayelana nobulili (naye noma ngokujwayelekile). Ubulili besintu ngezindlela eziningi kuxhomeke emibonweni nasengqondweni yethu.
Ukufanisana nokuhlukana kobulili besilisa nabesifazane kungenye yezinkinga ezinzima kakhulu zobulili. Uma owesifazane ethi amadoda akhe angenasithakazelo esincane, akekho ozomlahla ngalokhu. Ngesikhathi indoda ivuma ukungabikho kocansi kobulili obuhlukile, sisheshe sikholelwe ukuthi singenamandla noma, nakakhulu, sisongqingili. Kwenzeke ukuthi "indoda yangempela", ngomqondo wethu ovamile, ingaphezu kwakho konke, owesilisa omuhle. Ubulili bakhe buhlukaniswa nobulili bakhe. Amandla omuntu, ngaphezu kwakho konke, amandla akhe wesilisa.
Ngokwezengqondo ze-psychologists ezidalula imfihlo yobungqingili besilisa nabesifazane, kubantu, ubulili akuyona injabulo enkulu njengomsebenzi odinga ukuphothulwa, kuhloswe ekuphumeleleni nasekufezeni okuthile (isibonelo, i-orgasm). Ngokuqondene nabesifazane, lokhu akunjalo kule ndaba. Kuwesifazane, ubulili buhlotshaniswa nokuthokoza. I-Orgasm yakhe ayiyona into eyenziwa ngokomzimba, kodwa ingqondo eyodwa. Ngakho-ke, awukwazi ukuwugxila kunoma yikuphi iphuzu elithile emzimbeni noma eqenjini lezitho zangasese, njengoba libonakala kumadoda. Owesifazane akuwona umshini, awukwazi "ukucindezela inkinobho" futhi uthole ukusabela kocansi. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kumfazi akuyona nje ukuziphatha okubi, kodwa futhi kuyisiphukuphuku.
Ukusabela kobulili besifazane ngamandla abo nokuqina kwabo kunamathuba amaningi kunamadoda. Lezi zindlela ezithinta izincike zithembele ezimweni ezivamile zengqondo, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke okungokomzwelo. Yini engavimbela ubulili besifazane? Phakathi kwezizathu ososayensi bahlanganisa isimo sengqondo sokulwa nobulili, imfundo yamaPuritan (imfundo eqinile yehlanzekile), futhi ngenxa yalokho, ukungabi nemfundo ehambisana nesikhathi socansi ngesikhathi esifanele, kanye nezinqubo zobulili zokuqala zobulili zomlingani ongaqapheli kahle uthando lwe-caresses.
Ubulili besilisa, ngokuvamile, bubukeka buhlukumezekile, bukhululekile futhi bungavinjelwe ngaphezu kwesifazane. Futhi akukho lutho ongayenza ngakho.
Ukuhlolwa kokuhambisana
Indlela yokunquma ukuhambisana kocansi kwabalingani - ekubhekaneni nale nkinga, ungahamba ngezindlela eziningana:
- Imfihlo yegama. Okumangalisa ukuthi, kwabanye abantu, ukuhambisana kocansi kwamagama kubaluleke kakhulu. Inqubo enjalo ukutadisha imfihlakalo yegama, uhlobo lomnikazi wayo, ubumnene. Khona-ke usuvele usenza iziphetho mayelana nokuhambisana kocansi lwabalingani. Kodwa asingakhohlwa ukuthi bonke abantu bahlukile futhi ngaphansi komgomo owodwa ovamile, akekho ozoqhutshwa.
- Uhlobo lwegazi. Ukuhambisana ngokocansi, ngokusho kweJapan, kunqunywa iqembu legazi. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, amaJapane akholelwa ukuthi uma indoda ifuna umlingani othakazelisayo, kufanele akhethe owesifazane wakhe neqembu lokuqala legazi. Esikhathini esizayo, uma umuntu
ushada owesifazane neqembu lokuqala legazi, akasoze alahlwe. Abafazi abanjalo baphoqa amadoda abo ukuba bahambe ekuseni ukuze basebenze. Owesifazane oneqembu lokuqala legazi ungumthandi omuhle, ohlala ehlangabezana nokulindela komlingani.
Ukuhambisana ngokocansi kuncike ekutheni "isifiso sobulili" sabalingani, ngokulingana kwezimo zabo eziyinkimbinkimbi nokuqwashisa ngokocansi. Ebudlelwaneni nomuntu othandekayo, noma yikuphi ukuzibonakalisa kwemizwa kuhle, ngakho-ke isifiso sokujabulisa omunye nomunye akufanele sibe namahloni, kodwa, ngokuphambene nalokho, sidinga ukukhululwa nokuthembela okuphelele.