Ubulili - lokhu kungenye yezingxenye ezibalulekile ebuhlotsheni obuvumelana phakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane, kodwa ukusondelana kubusondeza kude nabo bonke. Kunamantombazane amancane lapho le nqubo iba cishe ebuhlungu. Kodwa uma intombazane isivele icabanga ngendlela yokuthanda ucansi , khona-ke iyaqaphela inkinga yakhe kanye nokubaluleka kwesinqumo sakhe. Futhi lokhu sekuvele kuboniswe ukuthi isinyathelo sokuqala esifundweni esifanele senziwe.
Ungathanda kanjani intombazane?
Ukuze uthole isisombululo, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi kungani abanye besifazane bengathandi ucansi.
Ochwepheshe bathi esinye sezizathu ezivame ukungazithandi ngobulili kwabesifazane kuyinkimbinkimbi. Phakathi nale nqubo, ubulili obuhle abukwazi ukuphumula, buvinjelwe njalo futhi buyekezwa. Yingakho engakwazi ukuthola injabulo ebusweni obuseduze.
Uma inkinga ngempela yilokhu, khona-ke lezi zinkimbinkimbi kufanele zilahlwe ngokuphelele futhi zizithande ngokwazo. Zama ukubuyekeza ikhabethe lakho. Khetha izingubo ezikhanyayo futhi ezizogcizelela isibalo sakho. Ungathengi izinto zamathoni amnyama, zizocindezela kuphela.
Kunconywa ukuba wenze ukufaneleka noma i-yoga. Ukuqeqesha kuzokusiza ukuletha isibalo ngokuhlelekile nokuphakamisa ukuzethemba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuzivocavoca umzimba kusiza ukwandisa i-libido. Unganaki imizimba eyaziwa kakhulu ye- Kegel .
Futhi waphawula ukuthi yisinye sezizathu eziningi zokungafuni ukulala ocansini - ukuvela kobuhlungu ngesikhathi sokulala. Kodwa-ke, ukuzwa okungathandeki cishe kungenxa yezifo ezithile kuphela odokotela abanganquma.
Kungani abesifazane bengathandi ubulili bokusa?
Amadoda amaningi afisa ukuqala ekuseni ngokulala nomuntu othandekayo. Nokho, akuwona wonke owesifazane ozosekela umbono onjalo. Ngokuvamile lokhu kwenzeka ngenxa yokuthi uyakhathazeka ngokubukeka kwakhe futhi ekuseni kunesifiso sokuzibeka kuqala.