Uma umuntu oseduze eshiya impilo yakhe, kuhlale kunzima futhi izihlobo zakhe zihlala zibuhlungu futhi zilangazelela. Ukuze usize umphefumulo ukhululeke kulowo mhlaba, kubalulekile ukufunda umkhuleko wesikhumbuzo. Ungakwenza lokhu ekhaya nasebandleni, ubeka ikhandlela kulo lonke.
Umthandazo ngabazali abafile
Abantu abaphilayo baphendukela kuNkulunkulu ukuze basindise umphefumulo womuntu oshonile futhi baqhubekele phambili kuNkulunkulu ukuba bahawukele. Kubalulekile ukuphawula nokuthi iqiniso lokuthi ukucela abafileyo kusiza ukusindisa nokuphila, ngoba kubhekwe ukuvumelana kwasezulwini. Lokhu kusiza ukuphunyuka ebusweni bansuku zonke futhi uzivikele ebubini. Umthandazo wokuphumula komphefumulo womzali oshonile usiza ukwamukela ukungenakugwema nokuzola, futhi uzokwenza kube lula ukuba adlulise izilingo emva kokuthula.
Enye indlela yokuveza ukukhathazeka kwabazali abafele ukufunda i-Psalter. Kudingeka ufunde i-kathisma eyodwa nsuku zonke phakathi nezinsuku zokuqala ezingu-40 emva kokufa kwesihlobo. Lokhu kuzosiza ukuhlinzekela umphefumulo ukuzola okusheshayo, umuzwa wenkululeko kanye nethuba lokuba ePharadesi. Ungasho imibhalo yomthandazo nganoma isiphi isikhathi sosuku.
Umthandazo ngomama ofile
Ukulahlekelwa ngumzali kuyisivivinyo esinzima kumuntu kunoma yikuphi ubudala, futhi ukuze kunciphise isimo somuntu siqu futhi kusize umphefumulo womuntu wasendabuko, umuntu kufanele aphendukele kuNkulunkulu. Umthandazo womama oshonile ufundwa, njengezinsuku zokuqala ezingu-40 emva kokufa kwakhe, nakuzo zonke izinsuku zokukhumbula, usuku lokuzalwa nokufa. Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi akekho ovimbela izicelo zokufunda nganoma isiphi isikhathi, uma ufuna. Kubalulekile ukuphendukela kuNkulunkulu ngenhliziyo ehlanzekile.
Ngesikhathi sokufunda komthandazo wabafileyo, umuntu kumele azame ukulahla usizi lwakhe nokudangala. Usizi olumnyama luphula umthetho omkhulu, okubeka umthwalo osindayo kumuntu othandazayo nomama oshonile. Kumele kuthiwa isicelo sokuphumula singalawulwa esontweni, kodwa kungcono ukufunda imibhalo ngokwakho. Ungasebenzisi izithombe noma izinto zokukhulekela, njengoba lokhu kuzobhekwa njengesono. Kubalulekile ukuthatha ikhandlela lesonto bese ulibeka eduze kwesithonjana.
Umthandazo ngobaba osele
Umbhalo ongenhla womthandazo ungasetshenziswa futhi ukucela isihe sikaNkulunkulu kumfelwa oshonile. Ngaphandle kwamathekisthi e-canonical, umuntu angamane avulele amandla Amandla Aphezulu kusukela enhliziyweni ehlanzekile ngamagama abo. Umphefumulo womphefumulo uyimfihlakalo yenkolo eyinkimbinkimbi, egcwaliseka ngosizo lwemithandazo yesonto namasiko. Uma ungenzi lutho, lo muntu ulahla uyise wenkxaso futhi kuyoba nzima ngaye ukuthi ahambe ngenqubo yokuhlengwa kwamaphutha awenziwe ngesikhathi sokuphila kwakhe. Umkhuleko wokuthula komphefumulo kababa oshonile kufanele ufunde ngokucabangelayo nangokwemvelo.
"Sithemba, Nkosi, umphefumulo wezinceku zakho ezifile (igama lakho), futhi umthethelele zonke iziphambeko zakhe mahhala futhi zingathandi, futhi umnike uMbuso weZulwini. Ngegama likaBaba, neNdodana, noMoya oNgcwele. Amen. "
Umkhuleko womfelokazi womyeni oshonile
Ukushiya ukuphila komngane womshado othandekayo kushayela owesifazane ekucindezelekeni okujulile futhi kuvela ukuphazamiseka. Esimweni esinjalo, kubalulekile ukungakhohlwa ukuthi umphefumulo womuntu oshonile udinga ukwesekwa. Ngenxa yalokhu, kukhona umthandazo okhethekile womlingani oshonile, okumele ukuthi ufunde izinsuku zokuqala ezingu-40 emva kokufa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele uthi amaHubo nsuku zonke, zonke ama-kathismes angu-20 ngokulandelana. Omunye wanconywa ukuba aye ethempelini ukwenza umkhosi wesikhumbuzo futhi ahlele inkonzo yomngcwabo, i-sorokoust, i-liturgy kanye ne-requiem.
Ukuze usize usinde usizi, owesifazane uyanconywa ukuba aphendule kuNkulunkulu ngesicelo sokunikeza amandla okusinda usizi futhi aphile. Ngokuqinisekile uyozwa futhi anike amandla okubhekana nale nhlekelele. Ngeke kube yinto engafanele ukuvuma nokuthola isidlo seNkosi , futhi ukukhuluma nompristi ngalokho okwenzekile. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi umthandazo womuntu oshonile ungakhulunywa ngamazwi akho, into eyinhloko ukuthi kufanele ivela enhliziyweni ehlanzekile, ngoba kubalulekile ukuba umphefumulo womlingani uphinde uhlangane noNkulunkulu.
Umkhuleko womyeni ngomfazi oshonile
Kukhona izicelo zokuthandaza ukuthi akekho ongakwazi ukufunda umuntu, futhi leli qembu lihlanganisa imibhalo ehloselwe abafelokazi nabafelokazi. Zonke izincomo ezichazwe ngenhla nazo zamukelekile kulokhu. Umthandazo womfazi oshonile ungafundiswa esontweni noma ekhaya, okubaluleke kakhulu - ukuhlala wedwa, ukuze ukwazi ukugcwala ngokugcwele inkhulumomphendvulwano neMandla aphezulu. Kunconywa ukuba uthandaze ngaphambi kwesithonjana, eduze nokuthi kufanele ukhanyise ikhandlela. Memezela isikhalazo esinokholo olukhulu ekuphileni okuphakade komphefumulo bese uhlangana emva kweSahlulelo Sokugcina.
Umama umthandazo wezingane ezifile
Abafundisi bancoma ukuthi bathandaze ethempelini, kodwa futhi izikhalazo zasekhaya eziMandleni aphezulu ziyisixhobo sokusindisa abantu abafayo. Umthandazo wezingane ezifile nabanye abantu ababizwa ekhaya babizwa ngokuthi "umthetho weselula". Kukhona isikhalazo esikhulu kubantu abafile - isikhumbuzo futhi singatholakala kuyo yonke incwadi yomthandazo. ISonto liyala njalo nsuku zonke ukucela uNkulunkulu abantwana abadlulile, ukufunda umbhalo olandelayo:
Umthandazo wabangabhapathiziwe abangabhapathiziwe
ISonto lihle kakhulu ngemiphefumulo elahlekile, okungukuthi, abantu abafile ababengabhapathizwa ngesikhathi sokuphila kwabo, kodwa kukhona umthandazo ukuthi izihlobo zingazifunda. Kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi kubantu abangabhapathiziwe akunakwenzeka ukuba balawule isonto esontweni. Umthandazo wabantu abangabhapathiziwe abangabhapathiziwe ungabhekiselwa kubantu abangcwele kuphela, kepha kuNkulunkulu, njengoba wonke umuntu owake waphila impilo elungile unelungelo lokuthethelela nokuvikelwa.
Kunezinkolelo eziningi mayelana nomfel 'ukholo olungcwele, obhekwa njengongqongqoshe welahlekile. Ngesikhathi sokuphila kwakhe, wadala izinto eziningi ezinhle, enelungelo lokusiza amaKristu ayeboshwe ngenxa yokholo lwabo. Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi umthandazo womfel 'ukholo u-Uaru unobuthakathaka ngokuhlushwa okuphakade komphefumulo ongabhapathiziwe, kodwa awuqinisekisi indawo yakhe ePharadesi.
Umthandazo ngomuntu oshonile kuze kube yizinsuku ezingama-40
Umthandazo weSikhumbuzo kubhekwa njengesibopho sabo bonke abakholwayo. Ngokusho kwamasonto esonto, kubalulekile ukufunda imilayezo yomthandazo ezinsukwini ezingu-40 zokuqala emva kokufa. Yonke imibhalo engenhla ifanele lokhu. Kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi kuvunyelwe ukusho imithandazo emakhaya enqatshelwe ukukhonjiswa ezinkonzweni zesonto.
Umthandazo wabantu abafile kufanele ufundwe esontweni kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Yenza lokhu hhayi kuphela ezinsukwini ezihloswe ukukhunjulwa, kodwa nakwezinye izikhathi. Okuyinhloko umthandazo omfushane e-Divine Liturgy, lapho umhlatshelo ongenasici unikelwa kuNkulunkulu. Ilandela i-requiem, ekhonjiswa ngaphambi kwetafula elikhethekile. Ngesikhathi sakhe, enkumbulweni yabantu abaye bashiya izimpilo zabo, bashiya iminikelo yabo. Enye kufanele ilandelwe i-sorokoust, eqala ngosuku lokufa futhi ihlala izinsuku ezingu-40.
Omunye kufanele futhi akhulume ngendlela yokuthandaza emathuneni, okubhekwa njengendawo engcwele lapho imizimba yabantu abafile ihlala ngaphambi kokuvuka kwabo esikhathini esizayo. Kubalulekile ukugcina ithuna lihlanzekile njalo, futhi isiphambano sibhekwa njengomshumayeli weSonto. Uma ufika emathuneni, udinga ukukhanyisa ikhandlela ufunde umthandazo. Awukwazi ukudla nokuphuza ethuneni, ngoba lingcolisa inkumbulo yomuntu oshonile. Insalela yamaqaba iyisiko sokushiya ingilazi ye-vodka kanye nesinkwa sesinkwa ethuneni.