Izibonakaliso ezinembile kakhulu zothando nazo zibizwa ngokuthi "ama-mirages amahle". Isibonelo, usebenza enkampanini nasendlini, ngaphandle kwesizathu esikhethekile, iphunga lamakhabe, ama-strawberries noma amakhabe avuthiwe, lawa manambitheka awasho lutho ngalesi simo nesimo, ngakho-ke, babikezela okuthile.
Khumbula, kwenze lokhu kwenzeke kuwe? Kulula ukulandisa ukuthi maduzane, othandweni, kube khona izinguquko ezithile. Izinkomba ezinjalo empeleni zikhulu, izibonakaliso kuphela zokuheha uthando zingenangqondo, noma azihambisani nhlobo nesimo esithile (njengoba kwakunjalo ngaphambili: izinhlamvu kubantu abathandekayo abangazibhalela zibhalwa kuphela nge peneni entsha, njll).
Ake sizame ukuhlola izibonakaliso nezinkolelo-ze ngothando, ziqonde, zichaze ukusetshenziswa kwazo ekuphileni kwansuku zonke futhi zikhomba izimpawu ezifanele kakhulu nezanamuhla zothando, thina samantombazane.
Izimpawu zothando olusondelayo
- Ufuna ukushintsha kakhulu into ebukeka ngayo: deza izinwele zakho, usike izinwele zakho, shintsha ikhabethe lakho, ulahlekelwe isisindo (iya egymini), njll. Incazelo yalokho ukuthi ingqondo yethu engacabangi yanikeza isignali ukuthi kunesidingo sokuguqula impilo yomuntu, kufaka phakathi kwothando lokuqala.
- Uma, abanye baqala ngokuvumelana ngokuphindaphindiwe okudingayo ukudweba noma ukusika, noma mhlawumbe ukhule izinwele ngokuphambene nalokho - uyazi, lokhu kuyisidingo sokuhlangana nothando lwakho (noma okungenani ukuzilibazisa okukhulu).
- Isibonakaliso sasendulo esivela ochungechungeni esithi "Izimpawu, uthando olufanekisela" ukuthi abangane bakho noma izihlobo zakho banquma ngokuzumayo ukuthi ukhulelwe. Ngenxa yokuthi izimfanelo ezithile zabesifazane abakhulelwe ziba yizici zakho ( ubulili, ubuzwe , isisa, isonto, eliqondiswe ngaphakathi). Lesi simo, ngandlela-thile, sisho ukuthi lo wesifazane "uyasondeza" uthando futhi ulindele ukuba akhethwe. Le ndodana encane igcwele uthando futhi ibukeka njengomama.
- Isibonakaliso sezinto ezilahlekile. Ngokuphathelene nalabo baprofetho ukuthi balahlekelwa ekhaya nangendlela engalindelekile. Lapho kwakukhona, kodwa manje kubonakala sengathi umhlaba uhlulekile. Uma ulahlekelwe indandatho futhi uyitholile ngemuva kwesikhathi, kusho ukuthi maduzane uzoba nobuhlobo obusha bokuthandana. Uma uthola indlebe, ubuhlobo bamanje buzophela emshadweni. Isibonakaliso sisebenza kuphela uma le mihlobiso ingeyakho.
- Kukhona izibonakaliso ezodwa ezicacile zothando olufanisayo oluzokusiza ukuthi ulungiselele ukuthi uthando lwakho lusivele luya kuwe. Silinganisa lesi simo, uzosebenza (ukutadisha) futhi ngokuzumayo uphule isikhali sakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, emgodini ngalesi sikhalo usula izintambo ezintsha. Futhi ku-elevator uyakhubeka ngezicathulo bese uphula isithende. Lolu chungechunge lwezinkinga alisho ukuthi awunamahloni futhi awukhohlisi, kodwa ubonisa uthando olukhulu noluthando olwenzeka kanye kuphela ekuphileni kwakho konke.
- Ekuphileni akukho lutho ngengozi, ngakho konke okutholakele noma owaziwayo kubonakala kakhulu. Uthando olufanekisa lubonakala njengesimemo somshado, iholide yamahhashi noma iveli. Ukubona i-mascot yomunye umuntu olahlekile - ungajabula, kodwa ungazithathi.
- Ngokuvamile amantombazane azibuza lo mbuzo: "Yiziphi izimpawu zothando ezisebenza emphakathini wanamuhla?" Ngakho-ke, sinikeza izibonelo ezimbalwa. Isici esibalulekile sokuhlala othandweni ngamaphupho futhi, empeleni, incazelo yawo engokomfanekiso. Isibonelo, inyanga egcwele - ukuthanda nemali, isipho ngendlela yezimbali ezimhlophe -
ubudlelwane obuholela emshadweni, izimbali ezibomvu - uthando oluthandekayo, izinto zokuzilibazisa, uthando lwezinto ezithandekayo, indandatho yomshado - ukuthembela ebuhlungu ebuhlotsheni.
Izimpawu zokuthanda okusheshayo zilula futhi uma uqaphela, uzobona ukubonakaliswa kwazo. Futhi uma uthando lufika kuwe, ungakhohlwa: akwanele ukuthola lokho okufunayo, ulondoloze. Khuluma ngothando lwakho, uxhumane nabathandekayo bakho, njengokungathi isikhathi sokugcina, ukumanga nokumvikela, unike izipho zakho othandekayo , wazi nje ukwamukela uthando, kodwa nokunikeza. Uthando luwumsebenzi owenza ubuhlungu obubili.