Izincwadi ezithakazelisayo zengqondo

Njengomthetho, izincwadi ezithakazelisayo kakhulu zengqondo, yizo ezidalula uhlangothi oluthile lobuntu bomuntu, zisifundise ukufeza noma yimaphi imigomo, ukuthuthukisa amakhono abo kunoma iyiphi indawo. Siyakubhala uhlu lwezincwadi ezithakazelisayo zengqondo ezithinta ngokuqinisekile ukubuka kwakho umhlaba kanye nekhwalithi yokuphila.

1. "Ukucabanga okwanele! Mthetho! "URobert Anthony

Abantu abaningi baqonda konke ngokugcwele, noma kunjalo, ukuguqula inkolelo ukwenza konke isikhathi kubangele. Le ncwadi ichaza zonke izenzo ezidingekayo ezenza kube lula ukuba umuntu osebenzayo, osebenzayo futhi ophumelelayo. Ukukwazi ukubeka imigomo kuphela , kodwa nokuya kubo, ungafinyelela konke okufisayo.

2. "Ulimi lwezingxoxo" u-Alan noBarbara Pease

Lesi sifundo esihle kulabo abafuna ukuthola zonke izimfihlakalo zolimi lwezandla futhi bafunde ukuqonda ngokuqondile i-interlocutor ngaphandle kwamagama. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uzofunda ulwazi oluningi oluthakazelisayo mayelana nenkulumo evamile kakhulu yomuntu nokuthi ungayenza kanjani ukuthi iphumelele futhi isebenzise kuzo zonke izimo ngangokunokwenzeka.

3. "Indlela Yokuthola Abangane Nokuthonya Abantu" ngoDale Carnegie

Lokhu kuyithandwa kakhulu ezincwadini zomuntu odumile wezengqondo waseMelika, lapho ehlanganyela khona ngokubheka kwakhe ezindaweni ezibuthakathaka zabantu, besebenzisa okungafinyeleleka kalula kunoma yimuphi inkampani. Le ncwadi ihlanganisa izibonelo eziningi zokuphila ezithakazelisayo futhi inikeza izindlela ezithile zokuxazulula izinkinga.

4. "Ulimi Lwezandla, uLimi Lothando" nguDian Givens

Leli bhuku elithakazelisayo kwi-psychology ebuhlotsheni, ofunde ngalo ngokuhlakanipha kokuxhumana okungenabuntu, lapho abantu bathola khona ulwazi oluningi mayelana nezwe elibazungezile. Ngenxa yokufunda, uzothola ukuthi ungamnaka kanjani umuntu omthandayo, ukuziphatha ngendlela efanele ekuthuthukiseni ubudlelwane futhi ube yinkosi yangempela yokukhohlisa!

5. "Psychology of ithonya. Phenduka. Ithonya. Vikela »uRobert Chaldini

Le ncwadi ibhekwa ngokufanele enye yezinto ezinhle kakhulu. Awubuzi kahle ngemigomo yobuchwepheshe obuyinkimbinkimbi, ibhaliwe kalula, ngokucacile futhi ngokuthakazelisayo, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - iseluleko esinikezayo sisebenza ngempela empilweni. Lo msebenzi usize inani elikhulu labantu, ngoba le ncwadi ithengise amakhophi ayizigidi.

6. "Ungakuyeka kanjani ukhathazeka futhi uqale ukuhlala" uDale Carnegie

Lo ngumsebenzi omkhulu kunazo zonke we-psychologist odumile waseMelika, obonisa izindlela ezilula zokuphila ngokuvumelana naye kanye nezwe elizungezile. Le ncwadi iphendule izigidi zabantu futhi yenza kube lula ukunqoba noma yikuphi ubunzima nezithiyo endleleni eya enjabulweni yakho.

7. "Psychology of manipulation. Kusukela ku-puppet kuya kuma-puppeteers "V. Shapar

Umbhali unesiqiniseko sokuthi umuntu wanamuhla uchitha isikhathi esiningi kakhulu ezindabeni ezihlukahlukene, futhi akanakuzinikela nganoma iyiphi into efanele. Ngemuva kokufunda lo msebenzi, uzofunda ukuthi "cha" ngokuqinile, futhi uphile ngendlela oyifunayo, hhayi njengabanye abantu abafuna kuwe. Emva kokufunda, ungakhetha kalula labo bantu abafuna ukukuxhaphaza, futhi ungawavumeli.

8. "Izinhlobo zabantu nabantu bhizinisi" uKroeger Otto

Le ncwadi iyadingeka kunoma yikuphi ukuqala nokusebenza okwenziwe ibhizinisi, futhi kulabo abahlela nje ukuvula ibhizinisi labo. Kunoma yiliphi lalezi zimo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda abantu, bakwazi ukuphatha abasebenzi, ukubona abantu kanye nomuntu, kanye nomsebenzi wenkampani.

Izincwadi ezithakazelisayo kwi-psychology kumuntu ngamunye angeke zilethe amahora amaningana wokufunda okumnandi, kodwa futhi zizuzisa ngempela ukuphila, okuzoxazulula izinkinga zokuphila futhi kuphumelele ngokwengeziwe. Ukufunda njalo, uthuthukisa futhi uthole amabhonasi amaningi okuphila.