Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo abantu bebelokhu banakekele izithombe ezivela emaphupheni, njengoba zivumela ukubheka esikhathini esizayo futhi zembule izinkinga zanamuhla. Lonke lolu lwazi lungatholakala ezincwadini zephupho, ngokuchaza ngokucacile isakhiwo esibonwayo.
Ngabe umngani wangaphambili waphupha ngani?
Ngokuvamile, umhlangano onjalo uyisidingo sokuthola isipho noma izindaba ezinhle. Iphupho lapho umngane osemncane ebambe iqhaza khona isisindo esihle esithembisa umhlangano omnandi. Sizokwazi ukuthi yini ababeyizihlobo nabangane abaye bafanele bafunge-kuyisibonakaliso esihle, esibonisa ithuba lokuqala ubudlelwane . Umbono ebusuku, lapho umngane owake wangikhaphela khona, futhi wacela ukuthethelelwa, ubonisa ukuthi empeleni umphuphi angakwazi ukuthembela njalo ekusizeni umngane. Ukubona umngane osezingeni eliphezulu ephusheni kuyisibonakaliso esihle, esibonisa ithuba lokuthuthukisa isiteji somsebenzi. Ukwamukela endlini yomngane wangaphambili, kusho, kubalulekile ukulindela imizamo eminingi. Ukuba nomngane wangaphambili endaweni engavamile ephusheni kuyisignali yokuthi izinkinga ngezimali zingavela. Uma amaphupho omngane owayengumngane yinto ejwayelekile, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukuhlangana naye empeleni ukuphawula "futhi".
Yini umngane owayengumngane wakho wokuqala ophuphayo ngaye?
Uma umngane owayengumngane wayejabule, ke-ke, empeleni, usuku lwothando luzokwenzeka maduzane. Umbono ebusuku, lapho umngane wangaphambili ogula khona, kufanele uthathwe njengesincoma, ukuthi akufanele aphile esikhathini esidlule futhi ajabulele okungokoqobo okungcono. Ngezinye izikhathi iphupho ngomngane wangaphambili libonisa ukuthi udinga usizo, okungcono kungalokwenqaba.
Iyini iphupho lomngane wangaphambili oshiya?
Isakhiwo esinjalo singasho ukuthi umphuphi akakakaze ahambe ebuhlotsheni futhi angathanda ukusungula uxhumano.