Uma ephusheni ubona umgwaqo onokungcola okufanele uwenze, bese ugcina isixwayiso esinjalo sokuthi indlela eya empumelelweni iyoba yinkimbinkimbi futhi inzima, endleleni eya empumelelweni, udinga ukunqoba izithiyo eziningi, uzikhumbule izifiso ezimbi, futhi ulwe nobunzima. Ungavumeli izimo zihlukane, futhi impumelelo oyifunayo iyofika ngokungazelelwe ngenxa yomsebenzi onzima, ukubekezela nokuhlakanipha. Mhlawumbe manje akusona isikhathi esifanele sokugijimela empini, kufanelekile ukulala phansi, futhi ulinde isikhathi esifanele, ngaphandle kwalokho yonke imizamo nemizamo ngeke isebenze.
Iyini iphupho?
Amaphupho, ukuhumusha ukungcola okubonwayo, ukusho ukubaluleka kwesikhashana, uhlobo luni lokungcola, kanye nezenzo zalo.
Uma udaka lunezikhukhula, ngendlela yoketshezi, bese ulindele ushintsho empilweni, mhlawumbe ushintsho lokuhlala, noma umsebenzi. Udaka olunomsoco nolunamahloni - inkimbinkimbi yenkathi enzima, izinkinga ezivela ngokuhamba kwesikhathi zizoqhubeka isikhathi eside, isixazululo sabo sidinga umzamo omkhulu namandla.
Ukuze angcolile odakeni ngokwakhe ubeka isixwayiso mayelana nemizamo yokumangalelwa ngobugebengu obunzima, ukubamba iqhaza ezindabeni zomthetho. Mhlawumbe, okubalulekile okufihliwe kuwe izihlobo nabantu abaseduze, ukuhlolisisa ukuziphatha kwabanye, omunye wabo angadinga usizo.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, iphupho lapho wena ngokuzithandela ugoqa emgodini wokungcola, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo uzizwa ujabule, ubikezela ukugeleza kwemali okunzulu, ikusasa elicebile, ikhambi eliphumelelayo lezinkinga zempahla.
Kungani ukuphuza kwemvula nodaka?
Imvula yindlela yokufanekisa yamandla okuvuselela, ukuhlanzwa, ukuqala kokuphila okusha. Ukulala kungaba yindlela ecacile yokuziphatha komuntu onzima ukwenza isinqumo kunoma yini.
Njengokungcola kwemvelo kuhlanzwa ngesikhathi semvula, ngakho-ke iphupho lapho ubona isithombe esifanayo, linikeza ithemba lokuthuthukisa isimo sezinto. Ukuze ubone imvula nodaka ngesikhathi esisodwa kusho ukuthi kuzoba nethuba lokuvikela igama lakho eliqotho kanye nedumela elikhubazekile, noma ukuvula ikhasi elisha empilweni, kufaka phakathi impilo yomuntu siqu, okuzoba kuhle kakhulu.
Kungani uphupha ngokuwa odakeni?
Uma uwela odakeni ephusheni, kunengozi yokuwela kuwo empeleni. Lesi sikhathi sidinga ukunakwa okuphakeme, ukuqapha nokuqapha. Ukubamba iqhaza ekukhwabaneni kwezomnotho kanye nezenzo ezingekho emthethweni kuzophela ngokuphelelwa ithemba nokuhlazeka, intukuthelo yabantu ekuqondeni kwakho. Futhi, ukulala kungacwayisa ngokugula okunzima okukhulu, qaphela impilo, ulalele umzimba wakho, kungenzeka ukuphazamiseka.
Kungani uphupha ngomgodi odakeni?
Ukuze unqume ukubaluleka kwalokho okubonayo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula imininingwane yephupho, yimuphi umgodi, lokho okwenzile kukho. Amaphupho lapho ubona khona umgodi, akukwazisa ukuthi othile ugoba ngaphansi kwakho futhi uzama ukufaka endaweni, futhi, ngendlela engalindelekile nesikhathi.
Uma uphupha ukuthi uphume emgodini ogcwele ukungcola, lokhu kuhle kakhulu, uzokwazi ukunqoba ubunzima nezithiyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zibucayi kangakanani.
Ukushisa umgodi ephusheni kusho ukuthi yonke indawo, njalo futhi nonke uzama ukuba khona
Sibone umgodi ojulile - lungele ukuthatha isinqumo esilula futhi wenze ukhetho olunzima esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Hamba phezulu, uwele emgodini, ubikezela ingxabano yesikhathi esizayo nabasebenzi abaphezulu noma izikhulu zikahulumeni.
Ukuwela emgodini - kungase kudingeke udideke ngalokho okwenzile, lawula ukuthi yimaphi amazwi nezenzo ezishiwo.
Ukumba umgodi ephusheni, ukukhuluma ngokuzama ukufihla into ethile, kodwa ekugcineni, imfihlo iyoba yinto engokoqobo, nemiphumela engathandeki.