Ukuchaza kahle iphupho, umuntu kufanele asebenzise izincwadi eziningi zokuphupha. Njengoba izincwadi ezahlukene zinikeza ulwazi oluhlukile, kubalulekile ukucabangela hhayi kuphela into esemqoka ekuchazeni, kodwa neminye imininingwane yesakhiwo, kanye nomthwalo womzwelo. Zama ukukhumbula ukuthi ingane ibukeka kanjani, ukuthi yenzani, futhi nokuhlanganyela kwakho kulophupho. Enye ukudweba ukufana phakathi kolwazi olutholiwe kanye nezenzakalo zokuphila kwangempela.
Yini ingane ephupha ngayo?
Uma ingane encane, esesandleni sayo, igula, kufanelekile ukulungiselela izinkinga ezizoletha isipiliyoni nokuhlupheka kwengqondo. Iphupho, lapho ingane yayisesandleni sayo, ngubani okhala kakhulu, ubikezela ukuthola amanga angalindelekile. Sizobona ukuthi kunjani ukugcina ingane enokuthula ezandleni zakhe - lokhu kuyimbangela yomvuzo wesimo esihle sokuvala abantu. Uma ingane ihleka ngokuzwakalayo ezandleni zayo, ngokushesha esikhathini esizayo konke kuyoba kuhle ngangokunokwenzeka. Enye iphupho elinjalo lingasho ukugcwaliseka kwesifiso.
Umbono ebusuku, owawufanele ugcinwe ezandleni zomntwana olele, kusho umphumela omuhle wazo zonke izinkampani. Sizoqonda ukuthi yilophi owesifazane ophupha umntwana osanda kuzalwa ezandleni zakhe, okudingeka aphule ngamabele - lokhu kuyisixwayiso mayelana nokuvela kwezinkinga nezinkinga. Uma bekwazi ukuxazululwa, khona-ke ekugcineni kuzokwenzeka ukulindela ukuthola inzuzo enhle. Iphupho lapho umphuphi ezwa khona imizwa engathandeki ngenkathi ephethe ingane ezandleni zakhe kuwuphawu lokungathengi. Iphupho elinjalo lingabonisa ukuthi kwenzeka izinkinga zempilo.
Sizokwazi ukuthi yini ingane ephuphayo ezandleni zayo, abazama ukuyisusa-lokhu kuyisiginali sokuthi ngokushesha umphikisana uzovela empilweni yakhe, futhi kuzodingeka alwe nalo isikhathi eside. Iphupho engadingeka ukuba ngibambe ngayo ingane yomunye umuntu ezandleni zami kubonisa ukuthi lo mphupho uzozithatha ngokuzithandela izinkinga zabanye abantu. Kumantombazane, indaba enjalo isho ukuzimisela ukuba nomntwana ozelwe ngokoqobo. Ukulala, lapho kwakudingeka ngithathe ingane emlenzeni wami, ngubani owakhala - lokhu kuyisixwayiso sokuthi kufaneleka ukwesaba izinkohliso nokuhleba. Uma izinyane lizincipha ngokushesha, zonke izithiyo ezikhona endleleni eya emgomeni ziyophela ngokwabo. Iphupho lapho ingane ibanjwe khona ngomunye umuntu ingathathwa iseluleko sokuthi kufanelekile ukuchitha isikhathi esengeziwe nezihlobo nabantu abaseduze.
Kungani umntwana enomntwana?
Uma ngabe udinga ukuzamazamaza umntwana ezandleni zakhe ukuze umkhonze, bese ufeza imigomo ebekiwe, kubalulekile ukusebenzisa imali eningi. Esinye isici esinjalo sibonisa ukungahambi kahle kwephupho. Umbono ebusuku, owawunomntwana, uxwayisa ngokukhohlisa. Uma lo mphupho ephethe umntwana ophonswe, kufanele sibheke izinguquko ezinhle enkampanini yezinto ezibonakalayo. Inzuzo ingatholakala ngokuphelele kumthombo ongalindelekile.
Yini umfana ephuphayo ezandleni zakhe?
Isakhiwo esinjalo sisho ukuthi maduzane umsebenzi ozokwenziwa uzovuzwa. Iphupho lapho umfana kufanele abe khona ezandleni zakhe kusho ukuvela kwezinkinga ezizobangela ukwesaba okukhulu. Ungakhathazeki, ngoba zonke izinkinga zizoxazululwa ngokushesha futhi ngaphandle kwemiphumela emibi.
Kungani ingane inomntwana ezandleni zayo?
Iphupho elinjalo libonisa inkinga enhle. Enye enye incwadi yokuphupha, intombazane ezandleni zakhe ephusheni iwuphawu lokukhathazeka nokusebenzisana nabantu ababi. Konke lokhu kuzoba nomthelela omubi ekuzweleni kwangaphakathi. Enye ingcebo enjalo ingathathwa iseluleko, ukuthi kufanelekile ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nxazonke ukuze uthole ukuxhumana.